>>34689773
you submerge yourself in things that inspire you and make you hopeful
>>34689802
Can you be more specific? What do you do?
>>34689849
watch a video, read a book, do something to make you feel inspired and hopeful about the future.
>>34689773
what is 'making it' to you?
i make a lot of money and own my own house, but i am still an autistic virgin with an overwhelming interest in my own poop.
>>34690065
I want to feel comfortable in my own skin from day to day. I want to feel love and reciprocate it. I want to feel like I'm not waiting to live my life.
>>34690115
oh, then that's definitely not me.
Depends on your definition of "made it", but I'm definitely a lot better than I was a few years ago and better than a lot of people here. I'm not a virgin anymore, I have a job and I only think about killing myself twice a week or so.
My main piece of advice is this: don't think about turning your life around all at once, just start with little things.
Here's what you can do
-Take a fucking shower every day. Having a shower puts a clear mental divider as to when you are supposed to "start" your day. It it will give you a clear idea of when you should stop sitting in front of the computer
-Cook for yourself. It's a great skill to learn, it's kind of relaxing and you'll save a fuck-ton of money. Instead of spending 8 dollars on a plate of tendies from O'Malley's Food Trough every night you can spend 5-7 dollars on a one pot meal that can last you up to 3 nights if you make enough. You'll save money that you can spend on stuff like booze, video games and guns, or save it like a faggot. It will also give you practice with valuable planning skills.
-Exercise: you don't have to join a gym or play a sport. I started out by just doing pushups and planks after I figured I was spending 1 hour a day lying face down on the floor thinking about what a loser I was anyway.
-Most importantly, pick 1-3 things to get done per day and do them. Don't pick 8-10 things to get done today and get so stressed out that you spend half the day shitposting and dreading the moment you have to start getting shit done.
As for the getting laid part fuck if I know. I'm in a band and I just hit up so many girls on OKCupid as I was traveling around that eventually I found 2 that would fuck me. I guess you could simulate that by renting a car and just traveling around doing the same thing. Chicks dig travelers. I still have no idea how to talk to women.
>>34690384
Thanks,not op but it gave me hope :) oeigibprnsjdb