>make instachad account to stalk girl im infatuated with >oneitis

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Sorry op I don't know that feel. Some people just aren't meant to reproduce.

Lulz

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>>34670331
That actually is really shit, sorry OP, I know that feel, when people stab you in the back like that, your blood turning as cold as ice, and after that, just wanting to die.

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Your name comes up in the list of people on the stream though
She knew you heard what she said
This don't add up

>>34670331
>showering daily
You're drying out your skin and hair.

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>>34670415
im not even fat, if anything im underweight. i dont even want to go to uni tomorrow now... i have that bitch in 3 of my classes
>>34670438
the username doesnt include any name, its completely anonymous

i still want to die right now

Every time I'd hang out with a female friend (when I still had friends at all) people would always assume we were dating or say something like "you're cute together", and my friend would always go OHH NO NO LMAO I WOULDN'T DATE HIM

really killed off any self-esteem i had left

>>34670466
I'd pretend like nothing happened, such is the fate of robots anyway, suffering daily, suffering internally and silently, smiling for the others and always being the nice guy.

>>34670513
i'll try, anon. ill probably look depressed as shit though. my only and best friend is in most of the classes, and im laughing most of the time when we joke around. she will probably notice

wat do

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>>34670466
Dude wtf
I realize this is a blow to your self esteem but you shouldn't let it get to you like this
Don't skip out on your education.

This is why i dont go out or talk to anyone. I like my safe space.

>>34670537
I don't know Anon, I have extreme trust issues, I always expect people to share my secrets or misuse my trust. If she is 100% legit you could tell her about it, she is sure to comfort you a bit. But I learned it often is best to just be quiet and add another scar to your soul.

>>34670466
Literally take her with you.

>>34670557
...or this is why you talk to people in your league?
Question mark because I have no idea as I don't go out or talk to people either.

>>34670557
Same Anon, I live in complete isolation. Being with others causes nothing but trouble and change you don't want, and even more cringy memories.

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oh yeah
>cannot believe i was called "ugly as fuck"
>question if it was anon _____ or someone else with my same first name
>"no, he's not butt ugly but he still is"
>feel slapped in the face
>is this what i get for months of self improvement and infatuation?
>never been rejected before (never asked anybody out), but in secondary school at least 1 girl was attracted to me

im tearing up writing this and my arms have been shaking since i heard it

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>>34670560
Edit: I meant your friend, not the bitch. Excuse the brain fart.

Stop it you guys. You all look good. Girls sometimes say shit like this to mess with you, or they're afraid because they actually like you a lot and it embarrasses them. Can confirm. A lot of my gfs say "lmao I would never date him" and two years later he meets her parents like WTF? OP go to class tomorrow. Show that bitch her comment doesn't mean shit to you. They're testing if this gets to you, and they want to see if you're too confident to care.

>>34670765
i appreciate the gesture, anon. i just dont really think girls would say the person they like is ugly because it embarasses them.

what does it mean if they're trying to see if it gets to me? what do they do once they realized they removed all of my self confidence?

should I try to act normally?

>>34670765
>>34670858
oh yeah, thing is... they don't know it was actually me watching, they thought i was a friend of mine

At least your oneitis is cured.
That's always good.

>>34671201
yes, anon, that is true. but right now i just feel sad beyond belief

>>34670331
>>34670415
You didn't even know her you fucking faggot. She doesn't owe you shit.

>>34670858
Talk to her and subtly mention somewhere in your conversation that you are ugly. See what she says.

This is called mind games. As soon as she hears you say that her mind will drop into a black hole. Knowing that she called you ugly in an anonymous conversation will seem like a mere coincidence.

>>34672370
if i can't work up the balls to talk to her (couldn't for the last few months), should i make her overhear my friend and i talking about it?

>>34672456
Jesus FUCK you people are pathetic

>>34672487
why do you think we're here, anon?
oregano

Post ur photo OP

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>>34670331
Same thing happened to me but she said I was hot and the other girls agreed. Had sex with her a little while later.

Start lifting, dude.

>>34672456
You should just move on to a different girl. She probably thinks too little of you at this point.

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>>34672566
pic related
>>34672642
i started a couple weeks ago
>>34672660
i am, turns out im in competition with two others

>>34672712
ditch the bowl cut, get a better hair cut (chad style)

You will look hot

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>>34672712
I'm hetero, but you don't look ugly. You look normal.

Women can be like men. Instantly, crushingly inconsiderate. Its whatever maaaan.

Have you taken the bogpill yet?

>>34670331
That fucking sucks, my guy.

Reminds me of the time I got infatuated with a girl at a writing camp, and when we all took a trip to the art museum I accidentally overheard her say to a friend "I mean he's not bad or anything, he's nice I guess, but...ugh, he needs to just stop staring at me all the time, y'know? Like I need my space".

I still remember that after like 3 years.

She showed up in my "people you may know" list a while back. Brought back some painful shit.

>>34672712
Drink some more water famiglia. Also maybe get a haircut.

I'm not beyond saving but every time I post a picture of myself even in silhouette I get responses like "bro lose weight" and "start running like yesterday"

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>>34672712

You're not ugly at all.

Screw her, find a different girl. Try not to fall too hard for any woman until you guys are together as a couple and have been dating for a while. I know it hurts, but this is a good chance for you to move on and try not to let rejection from women get to you as much.

Keep improving yourself and try to stay grounded and rational instead of letting your emotions drag you everywhere.

>>34672954
thanks for the kind words and advice. i really appreciate it.

i probably shouldnt have deluded myself into thinking she was into me so much... whatever. now i know why other people called her a bitch. when i sat next to her, i was either ignored or used for labs, feels bad

>>34670331
every girl I ever known told me I am or will make great husband material, but they are not interested.
Nothing hurts more than hearing your oneitis tell you, you would make a great cuck.

>>34673199
kek, probably not. im completely against the idea of being cucked in any way... not like i ever will because
>i will never get a gf

>>34672766
ok, what kind of haircut should i get? i dont even know if i really want to switch because i like my current haircut.

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>he fell for the gym, hygiene, and fashion memes
Only 2 things matter. Face and humour.

>>34670331
a girl with those thoughts about you wouldn't even be worth it if she thought you were hot. No matter what you are to her she'll always be a bitch. This girl isn't worth your time anyway, so don't worry. Just do your thing at the gym and stay positive anon.