>have oneitis
>her dad fucking dies
>Is telling me bout it
What the fuck do I do let alone say? I'm on this board specifically because of my lack of empathy. Can I use this sudden lack of a father figure in her life to my advantage?
>>34640126
How can you call her your oneitis when you have no empathy and don't really care about her?
>>34640273
Because she's the one he wants to fuck most. He thinks he's being coy but everyone knows and it won't happen. He will have many oneitis over the course of his miserable life and he will never have sex with any of them.
>>34640126
Just say the usual bullshit I'm sorry and ask her out so she can think about something else
>>34640273
I do care about her. I know I'm not a sociopath/psychopath because I feel genuine affection for her, my family, and a few people close to me, but I just have no idea how to connect emotionally such as in situations like this. Do I console her? Give her advice? Just talk to her like normal?
Besides, I hope she's doing well, but I can't "feel" a concern for her.
>>34640356
>I do care about her
>I feel genuine affection for her
>I hope she's doing well
>Can I use this sudden lack of a father figure in her life to my advantage?
>>34640126
You're in too deep anon, you're her shoulder to cry on, not her dick to ride on
You initiated emotional intimacy too early.
>>34640344
this is juicy, just let her pour it all out on you, then (wait a few days) say lets do somthing to clear your head and take her iceskating or some shit also go to the funeral faggot