>just have confidence normies don't seem to understand

>>34613278
Remember, it's only called confident if you are hot, if you are ugly, you will just get called creepy.

If you have a certain cognitive penchant for denial, then yes, you can legitimately convince yourself to be confident simply by changing your internal mental self-talk.

Otherwise, you have to actually do things that make you feel more confident. Achieve goals. Build a track record of successes that reinforce your belief in your capabilities.

It's why most of the happiest most "confident" people I know are also some of the biggest quitters I know. They turn their back almost immediately on anything they don't feel they are going to quickly succeed at or that's going to come easily to them. They have a kind of involuntary ego self-preservation thing going on that protects them from anything that could potentially cause them to think lesser of themselves.

Most robots lack that. They have resilience without ability which is the recipe for failure.

They just hide their problems better than you. It is easy. You just lie.

>>34613379
Yes, they say that you have to fail a lot to become better at something and the same goes for building confidence, by talking to people, putting yourself out there.

>>34613278
Absolutely EVERYTHING about you is like this, yet almost nobody actually accepts this fact.

>>34613496
yeah that's why it's so retarded when a normie tells you to "be confident"?