>be me, 24, virgin >meet girl at work who's not a

>>34605190
It's just anxiety. Don't rush things so much. Just hang out more, take things slower.

>>34605190
probably just kill yourself.
sorry anon, some people are just worthless like that

How fat/ugly is this bitch?

>>34605223
That's what she told me but I have no issues jacking off in bed with her. A single handful of ass and I'm cumming on the back of her pants. How is that anxiety?

>>34605258
Solid like 6/10, maybe 7 on a good day, but I'm only about a 4 myself so that's not the issue.

stop jacking off for a while

I'm guessing you do it daily or more

>>34605327
It was 3-6 times a day, but I've only done it three times in the last month and two of them were in bed with her. So that's not really working either...

I'm thinking >>34605251 is right here.

>>34605372
if you live in aus I could send you some viagra, I bought it off the deepweb when I was in the exact same situation as you

>>34605406
US, but thanks for the offer man. I guess that's my next step. It's at least nice to know this is somewhat common. I figured I wouldn't have to go through this for another 20 years or so.

>>34605463
Do you consume a lot of porn?

That is what attributed my ED to after cutting it out completely and not wanking for 6 months I could finally maintain a natural boner

>>34605190

Just performance anxiety my dude.

I had it the first time I tried to have sex as well, ended up fingering the girl/eating her out, then later that night I went at it again and was able to get it up.

If you're still experiencing difficulties, you can always make use of enhancers like Viagra to aid you. There's no shame in using boner pills my dude, they're science's gift to humanity, not just for old men.

Alternatively, try starting off by just jacking off to some porn you like, maybe have the girl wait in another room or something, and then call her in once your dick is at full mast.

Don't give up!

Shit in her cunt

>>34605190
Not everybody is cut out for casual sex.
Some people need to know their partner, trust them and feel comfortable around them.

>>34605547
This usually does it for me

>>34605506
I was kind of thinking that's what it was. I stopped about a month ago after the first time we tried. I guess I'll just have to stick to it. I really hope I don't end up having to wait this out for six months. She's into me but I doubt she'll stick around for that.

>>34605547
>implying that wasn't my first step

Don't drink next time you go round to her place and try to calm yourself down. I'm assuming you can fax so your dick works fine and your inability to preform stems from anxiety.

>>34605190
>Girl lets you unsuccessfully try to have sex with her 3 (three) separate times
Gtfo you turbo-normie

>>34605629
I know you're being a faggot but the fact that a month ago I was looking online for hookers is pretty fucking unreal. I really hope you all get this lucky one day.

>>34605675
How sweet of you. Now leave.

>>34605605
Honestly man there are more ways to make a woman cum than with your dick. And as long as she's cumming she'll be coming back

>I really hope I don't end up having to wait this out for six months

Me too man that shit was painful, but when I really think about it six months wan't that long to repair 10+ years of damage.

Hoping the best for you dude

>>34605686
Fuck off I don't have friends outside this place. Excuse me for seeking advice from the only people outside this chick who will talk to me.

>>34605190
you ruined yourself by jacking off to porn
I know I have the same thing I can't maintain an erection unless I'm death griping my hand

>>34605711
>Normie telling me to fuck off from my own board
God this place has gone to shit
Trust me, I hope I can gtfo one day too.

>>34605711
>Getting women advice on /r9k/
Are you gonna hit up the Stormfront forums for tips on talking to black people as well?

>>34605190
>>trashed so I tell he I'm a virgin
jve read this several times is this a meme or should i just really tell sluts that am i virgin so i can have pity sex?

>>34605744
Clearly several people gave me the advice I needed. Dick pills and stop jacking off.

Honestly I wouldn't call beating your dick into a useless skin sack and fucking up your brain with porn a normie problem.

>>34605753
From my experience it's just going to get you laughed at.

But if you're already in the position when you're drunk, alone together and talking about sex? I doubt it'll matter to much

>>34605774
Just ignore the mean posters.

I hope you fix your useless dick OP!!!!

>>34605190
the rhino pills work. you can get them at gas station on ebay. but be careful because that shit works for like 5 days

i had the same problem op. turned out i had low testosterone.
doc gave me boner pills and a shot once a month.
still not super easy for me to get hard with a grill she has to suck on my dick for a few until i get hard.
it helped me immensely to practice with a regular escort that i got to know.

It's probably because you're not happy with your life. You have no sense of pride or control. You're probably just a slave in the middle of nowhere (which might be a city, as far as I'm concerned).