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>Former classmate constantly talked about her anxiety >Been

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>Former classmate constantly talked about her anxiety
>Been months since I last talked to her
>Send a text to ask how she is so I can later ask if she got over the anxiety and how if so
>Says she's good and asks how I am
>Except she added a smiley face and exclamation marks
I have regrets about this. That was 9 minutes ago, should I even respond back?
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>>34595881
>>Says she's good and asks how I am
>>Except she added a smiley face and exclamation marks
>I have regrets about this. That was 9 minutes ago, should I even respond back?
Just talk to her you fucking autist
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>>34595986
I convinced myself to, I just wanted someone to relate to and the peppiness put me off but I did get a pic related vibe from her in class.
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>>34596151
Then ask if she wants to hang out with you soon you fucking autist
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>>34595881
maybe she was just happy to hear from you?
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Girls using smileys is bad? I don't understand
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>>34595881
she probably gets next to no communication from people and was fucking over the moon to get some attention from anyone.

See where you can take it. Whats the worst that could happen? Who knows, she could turn into a friend or better. She could also be crazy but you havent spoken to her in months so she wont be hard to avoid.
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>>34596186
I'm mostly texting because I know no one else who has had anxiety other than /r9k/

I sent pic related but I'm considering apologizing for sending it so late since she isn't.getting back and dicking about made me get back late.
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>>34596553
>having trouble with math
Ask her on a date when she replies you fucking autist
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>>3459658
>autist
>trouble with math
Wut

Also I had the apology prewritten and accidentally sent it when I went back to the app.
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>>34596679
Was supposed to go to >>34596589

O r e g a n o
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>>34596703
Well now that you've already fucked it all up and can't make it much worse, ask her on a date. You fucking autist.
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>>34596589
>not having trouble with math
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>>34596754
Please don't bully me, anon-chansanfran

I'd rather not ask her out, I don't really like her that way.
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>>34596863
Do it you pussy. Even if you don't like her, it will make her happy and more self-confident. Maybe you'll start liking her after a while. Even if she rejects you, it will make her more confident, so ask her out already. She could be on the verge of suicide, with her feelings for you being the only thing keeping her from offing herself.
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>>34596754
stare deep, this will help you relax my friend
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>>34596918
Thanks, I needed something to stare deeply at.
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>>34596905
She has a very long distance boyfriend, or did at least. I planned to ask her about him just to see how hee life is going

I doubt she's going to respond back since she hasn't yet but I'll let you guys know if she does
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>>34596905
He shouldn't do it if he doesn't genuinely want to. He's not obliged to. He can be there for her as friend but don't give her the false hope if he's not planning to stay long since he doesn't like her that way. Will make things worse.
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She got back

>>34597340
I'm attracted to her but what I've seen of her personality wasn't appealing to me, maybe I didn't give her a fair chance I unno.
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>>34597712
>there was moving locations
Hurry up and ask her if she's single
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Okay, you've asked enough questions. Now keep your responses light and simple. Act bored if you have to.

Don't worry anon, we'll get you through this.
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>>34597712
Too much questions at once, Anon.

Try to prolong the conversation.
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>>34597790
I should've put a comma there but i think she knows what I meant.

I'll ask about her bf but I have no real intentions of asking her out.

>>34597905
I think I did the opposite of that, I got a bit shitposty.

Help
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>>34597982
>the whitest thing
kys
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>>34597982
>I'll ask about her bf but I have no real intentions of asking her out.
Just do it, ask her to see a movie with you. Give her a chance and get to know her better, you'll thank me later.
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On PC now.
>>34598010
I don't usually say shit like that I swear, I'm only partly white so I can get away with it right?

>>34598016
I don't know if that's a good idea.
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>>34597982
You just fucked it up by saying "thats the whitest thing ive ever seen" first of all you sound like an autist bc you havent seen anything, you heard of it. Second, saying "thats so white" or "thats white" is so fucking beta
You have no hope anon
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>>34597982
also don't say jk after saying something bc there was no point in saying it if it was a fucking joke
Jesus christ man
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>>34598088
ur an autism

>>34598084
Just ask her out already, the worst that can happen is getting rejected, and you claim to not like her anyway.
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>>34598088
Did you miss the google part? I saw a lot of things because I have the internet.

>Second, saying "thats so white" or "thats white" is so fucking beta
Oh...
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>>34598108
I usually go by that but I didn't want to come across as mean, I do remember her being easily discouraged. Eh.
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>>34598139
And by saying jk right after like that you seem really hyper like someone texting 3 years ago with the "jk lol omfg" kind of talk
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>>34598172
If you dont wanna come across as mean, dont make racial jokes unless they are about your own race but if shes not white i suppose saying "thats so white" is ok but its kind of overdone, everything is "so white" if you know what i mean
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>its another autist cant have a basic conversation episode
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>>34598214
Yeah I'm regretting that text, I usually don't talk to people like that.

>>34598241
She's pretty damn white, it's a good point, I shouldn't had brought race into it even as a joke.

Still hasn't gotten back but if she does I'll try to talk about anxiety instead of whatever the fuck I've been doing.
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>>34598314
You know those people who were complete shut ins but still had online friends they talked to to keep them sane?

That wasn't me, I find it hard to talk to people sometimes even after 2 years of college.
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>>34596553
Maybe you should try just being friends with her first anon. I get that the biggest goal of everyone here is to sink a dink into a girl but. Friends are really important.
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>>34598474
>tfw you couldn't even make online friends on runescape when you were 11

i just log off if anyone try's to talk with me online on any place that i have a user
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>>34598742
No one ever talked to me for the most part, the very rare times when they did I didn't really know what to say and fucked things up. Never initiated conversation out of fear that I'd mess up and lose the friend like I probably am now.
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>>34596553
Pretty good
>>34597712
ehhhhh
>>34597982
EHHHHHHH

Anon please

You're dying out there, fucking stop being autistic for five seconds.
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>>34599087
I'd ask if it was that bad but she hasn't responded so I think I already know.

I actually lost my best friend because of some shit I said, it took 7 months before he forgave me. The worst part is that I thought he cut contact for entirely different reasons, I thought what I said was not-good but not friendship destroying. Why am I like this?
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>>34599173
It's Thursday right? Ask her if she wants to go out tomorrow night.

NOT if she is busy.

Say literally these words, "Hey, do you want to go for drinks tomorrow?"

Activate your almonds anon, nobody wants to talk about what classes they're taking and whether or not they're interested in them, or about how hard math is.

Nobody.
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>>34599293
I really don't like her that much and I think I should at least wait for an answer to my question about the exercise thing she does with the ribbons and silk cloth being fun before saying anything.

also
I like her friend.
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>>34598479
Yes good goy friend zone your self.
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Besides asking her out, is there anything I could do to salvage this or do I just wait?
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>>34599605
>not pre-emptively friendzoning yourself
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>>34599944
pls help

orange groves
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>>34599944
>>34601082
No, you're fucked you idiot.
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>>34601144
Yeah, I'm going to wait until tomorrow afternoon and then apologize for being awkward if she doesn't respond then leave it at that.
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Just a note to op and the rest of you robots in here. Stop putting "lol" and "haha" in your texts. Makes you sound like girly insecure little shits.
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>>34602316
How do you account for Poe's law then?

>Without a winking smiley or other blatant display of humor, it is utterly impossible to parody a Creationist in such a way that someone won't mistake for the genuine article.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe's_law

I'm not completely autistic, I wouldn't had said just kidding in real life because in real life I can employ vocal inflections and tones, I can't do that online.
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>>34598088
spotted the autist
get the fuck outta here champ
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>>34599173
We have a few plan of actions to go from anon
Plan A: Straight up ask her out or to coffee shop or dinner or something normie and not autistic
Plan B: Try to work your way down from the compulsive autistic texts, dont try to sound hip just be straight, no jks, no omg, no lmaos, a few lols is ok, if your desperate, look of scripts for normie movies like the social network for example and try to follow the speech patterns of characters who seem the most normie-like but only do that for texting when u meet her irl show her ur true self if she doesnt accept you she doesnt deserve you
Plan C: Abort and lay in your bed in the fetal position only eating peanut butter for the rest of your life and browsing r9k
And as a rule of thumb: When in Rome, do as the Romans do
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>>34599944
HOLY SHIT I JUST REALIZED THE AUSTISM
SHE FUCKING TOLD YOU THE COURSE WASN'T FUN AND THEN YOU ASKED IF IT IS FUN
how could u do this to us anon u get one chance, better than most of us and still fuck it up
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>>34602706
You freaked me out and made me double check, I sarcastically said trig + precalc sounded fun, she said that wasn't fun, mentioned her aerial barre classes and I asked if THAT was fun.

You almost made me feel worse than I probably should.
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>>34602662
I'll be honest, I REALLY wanted to say the "that's the whitest thing I've seen" bit and the jk was a side effect of, as you perfectly put it, a compulsively autistic text. I'll tone it all down when talking to people. Plan B in general sounds great. I'd rather watch the movie with subtitles than read a raw script though.
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>>34602706
normalshits does that all the time ya dip, he is k
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>>34602854
>normalshits does that all the time
but I didn't do that.

I was very clearly (at least to me) talking about her workout classes that she didn't describe at all.
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>>34596918
The fat dude has some big gonads.
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