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How do I fix my low self esteem, constant self doubt, and

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How do I fix my low self esteem, constant self doubt, and lack of confidence?
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>>34547223
that's the gorillion dollar question, anon. if I knew, I wouldn't be here
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>>34547240
If I got a gorillion dollars would I be able to pay someone for an answer?
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>>34547223
I just got really angry for a second and was going to write a long paragraph but I'm calm now so you'll just have to do with this.
You can't fix your lack of confidence. You can however acquire reasons to be confident.
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>>34547223
Distract yourself from the shit that's bringing you down. Eventually, if you're diligent, you get so immersed in the distraction that it becomes your new reality, and your low self-esteem is the new distraction.
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>>34547290
yes, you could pay me. i'll give you the answer for a gorillion dollars.
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>comes to an albanian child porn irc
>asks advice on how to not come to an albanian child porn irc
>expects results

the ride just goes 'round and 'round.
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>>34547364
I'm getting really fucking angry at you, because I expected some retard like you to come here and spout this kind of bullshit, I fucking want to murder you

T.Not him
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>>34547223
You can't. If you're not born Chad then you lose. Chad has self esteem and confidence because he was been praised all his life from the Halo effect. He looks good so he got treated good.

That's all it is when it comes to "self esteem", repeatedly being told by others that you value the opinion of that you're worth something.
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>>34547478
>shut-in NEET virgin with no hobbies, friends or anything interesting about him
>just be more confident bro lmao
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>>34547614
>shut-in NEET virgin with no hobbies, friends or anything interesting about him

I genuinely don't understand if you're talking about yourself or trying to project your insecurities on me
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Literally start lifting and continue doing that for 2 years.

I look like a god now and people treat me like one. As time goes on, your inner self will mimic your outer self and you'll be confident, strong and attractive.

A sound mind, body and soul.
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Ten thousand things
all in this breath
grasping hold of emptiness,
there is really nothing to say.
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>>34547223
L Tyrosine
L Theanine
Maca root

Use this stack
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>>34548077
>it's another "Hey guys proto-chad here turns out all I had to do was lift to take full advantage of my already good facial genes" episode

Lifting does nothing for ugly people.
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>>34548139
Literally all of those could get easy succ by wearing tight clothing.
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>>34548166
Oh the lies that come softly from the mouth of norms, how deceitful in their ignorance...

Tell me with a straight face that left on pic related would get SUCC if he lifted too
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>>34547223
That's super fucking easy. The answer is:

A (few) psychedelic experience(s).
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I always liked this quote for helping me get over things

give me some more inspirational quotes to get over fears and to get motivated
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>>34548139
that guy with the bowl hair and the glasses has a gf though

He'd look 10x better without them too
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>>34548221
I wish I could do psychedelic
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>>34547223

phenibut

literally makes me give no fucks, get you some while its still not regulated.
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>>34548217
I'm pretty sure the left side is actually photoshopped
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>>34548415
How much/often do you dose?
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>>34548451
500mg of FAA every other day on work days, and take weekends off. Last thing I want is to become dependant I hear the withdraw is a nightmare.
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>>34548341
Darknet LSD is pretty "safe"

Also Alan Watts lectures might help you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9k0kzwko0r4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5qtrhE6Fmg
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>>34548217
They are both shopped
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>>34547223
Confront situations that make you anxious. That's all there is to it, I think. You can never really "outthink" your way out of low self-confidence (I've tried), you have to act your way out of it -- plan, invent, be resourceful, and that will prove to you that you are someone who can handle anything.
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