How do you deal with the fact that you will have to settle for less than what you want or die alone and miserable?
>tfw no kanbaru g/f
I expect to die alone though.
I dont even deal with it. I simply exist.
>tfw ignoring the qt college debt ridden single mother at work
Feels bad man
I have low self-esteem so settling for less comes natural to me.
>>34544023
>settle for lesss
Not all of us have this option .
>>34544099
I have no self-esteem yet I refuse to settle.
I will never experience highschool sex because it's not possible to go back in time. So I just sit in my room and shitpost.
That's just one example, not being able to get what I want, no matter how trivial, will make me just quit life.
>>34544023
>get depressed and consider suicide
>don't get out of bed for a few days
>realize I've been ignoring my life and am way behind where I want to be
>get even more depressed
it's not a perfect system
>>34544023
What do you mean, I made peace with dying alone when I was like 22
I bet you're like fucking 19 or something
>>34544207
good god this is the worst
all I want to do is stay indoors in bed or at my computer
but when I spend a whole day doing that, or a whole week, I start to freak out because this ISN'T what I want to do
I don't know what I want to do, but I don't think it's this
this is just the most appealing and comfy thing I've got
>>34544023
I've made peace with it. Mostly, I get through the day by focusing on my art and personal projects. Loneliness is far preferable to a life of mediocrity.
>>34544023
Rather easily since I am an emotionally-mature adult who does not suffer from narcissism.
>>34544315
>wanting the best for yourself is now narcissism
>>34544235
Turned 23 last week.
>>34544355
>tfw 29
>still haven't made peace with it
when does it start getting better?
>>34544324
Wanting the best is human nature
Realizing that what you will get is the best you are capable of is maturity
>>34544023
Option A my dear robot, force my delusions through consuming large amounts of escapist media.