Why are you a virgin? Something like a short simple explaination.

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>believes sex is something sacred to be shared only between married couples
>ugly
>manlet
>socially stunted

Anon this is r9k no one is a virgin anymore lol

>>34518407
Too much fap made me dull and jaded virgin. No will left to do nofap. Repeat.

>>34518407
> never made any actual attempts to get a gf
Is that enough? I literally do not know what to talk about with other people.

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>>34518407
>be me
>be idealist
>have severe case of oneitis
>don't believe in sleeping around or multiple girlfriends
>just want one loyal waifu to love
>girl I fell for turned out to be a feminist lesbian
>she has daddy issues and hates men without admitting it
>finally get over her
>I grow hatred for liberalism and the lies it spreads
>find that I quickly grow tired of endlessly compromising with ignorant normies
>most women are hyper liberals that have taken twenty cocks from chad
>stop interacting with normies
>don't find myself sexually attracted or inclined to make moves on women that I don't know
>current plan to find a loyal girl after I make it big and get some decent cashflow
when I get some money I'll probably start seriously looking.

I don't care about looks. I'm average myself. I just want loyalty. A friend.

>>34518466
What do you hope to gain?
I like to do things.
I like to get the paper in the morning.
I need no less than twelve sugars in my coffee if im given one.
I shit naked when I can because I need to perch over the bowl to empty my bowels properly.

Ive been honest with you just now.
So I want to ask a question and I expect the same uncoy honesty.

Do you really believe what youve said or is it just an offhand comment to garner people's discontent?
Do you make comments like that often?

Does this shit really need a thread, nigga? It's like asking why when someone farts it smells bad.

>unattractive
>unwilling to pursue women

there

>>34518407
I'm really not a sexual person, dunno what else to say. I've had a relationship before but we never went that far, just a heck ton of cuddling and feeling eachother and I didn't mind it one bit.

>>34518536
This could not possibly fit on a trading card.
Im sorry for your personality.

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>>34518579
>Anon
>An Ideological Wojak
>Prone to high amounts of religious and political insight
>Aspiring author for both fiction and non-fiction covering various genres
>Jaded from endlessly compromising with the ignorant
>Seeks a companion with similar intellectual pursuits that can challenge and contribute to the discussion
would this be better for the /r9k/ trading card game?

>>34518560
Being unnattractive and unwilling to pursue women are not mutually exclusive.

Am I sayibg that right?
I think im just throwing out phrases I dont understand. i hear it said a lot and I understand the gist but i cant ever use it properly.
Its an awkward term for me.
Like a verbal frissbee.

Point is you probably look alright.
For some people even when your balls drop and you realize your dick shoots stuff and gets hard at things that may include or may not be limited to women even then your brain never clicks and says.
Hm I think I want to really talk to this stranger in hopes of

You know I just stopped here.
I realize im projecting so hard its become meta to the level of me reaching the point I know I cant comprehend in the first place.

Why do people bother others? Why do they even feel the need to make themselves mutually aware of eachother outside anything else than

Fuck there jt is again. Theres like a mental block in my mind that doesnt allow me to process what it means for people to interact outside basic circumstwncial necessity

>>34518653
>Jaded from endlessly compromising with the ignorant
Youd be insulted by anyone else but me.

What have your comprimises been if you dont mind me asking?

>>34518668
i think you're on the wrong website

reddit is the other way

>ugly incel face
>shitty skinnyfat body
>boring depressed personality
>no interests
>hates himself
>never tries

>>34518726
You lost me.
Point out what made you just say that to me.

>>34518407
>believe casual sex is empty and unfulfilling
>assume no one wants to be around me so never take initiative
>have no idea what I'm supposed to do in intimate situations so end up doing nothing, no one ever taught me anything
>recently stopped caring about anything so don't give a fuck anymore

>>34518813
all the cringy analogies and inner dialogue

>>34518834
Cringey anologies.
The frisbee? Tell me youve thrown a frisbee perfectly.
Every single time.
Despite not having an iq of 60 and generally knowing how it works and how to throw one.
Despite being told on several occasions, but still fucking it up from time to time because your body doesnt coordinate with your will.

Also sure the stream of consciousness posting is pretty autistic but sue me.
I feel compelled to explain it how it appears I process it
I dont like to go back and keep mulling over it and trying to prissy it up like some do.
To me thats the same thing as normalfags taking like 11 pictures of themselves to put out an illusion they always do it best on the first try.

Fuck them. Fuck that. Im not perfect and I fuck things up all the time.

I want to find people who will admit the same but refuse to make it a core piece of what they consider themselves to be.

>>34518407
>never masturbated or particularly desired sex so didn't feel the need to seek it out
>realized when I was 15 that love is just a means of anture to propagate the species

>>34518929
But When you did realize that people would realize you werent interested in seeking out sex

How did you cover for yourself knowing an apparent core piece of human development was left out of the puberty patch notes.

Did you try to fake it passively like me?
Or did you try to avoid all mention of it entirely?

>>34518920
just shut the fuck up and stop explaining yourself you cringy redditor

>>34518996
>shut the fuck up and stop explaining yourself
You took time out of your day to post this.
What is your first name?

>>34518995
Yeah, I tried to fake it passively, saying stuff like: yeah, she's hot wouldn't mind drilling her vigina etc, but in reality I felt nothing similar to that

After the second-third year of highschool I lost all my friends so I didn't have to fake much

>No desire to be with anyone
>Satisfied with masturbation

I may now and then say "I want to hold this cute girl in my arms" but that's more of an in the moment thing and not a long term yearning much like how I say I want to kill myself but the majority of the time I'm apathetic.

>>34519034
Bit annoying.
I did both eventually.
Trying to avoid it at every turn.
Being passively interested without any validatible evidence.

Even going as far as subliminally trying to seed suggestions into my actions as red herrings for people around me into composite females they figured I would like but knew they would never find.

It took a while but it worked for as long as it needed.
Getting people who bothered you to think they had known your "type" to give up

Because I'm shy

Blxbl

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>>34518407
>Socially awkward
>Manlet
>NEET
>0 friends
>Fap exclusively to doujinshi

>>34519110
I didn't really care if they discoverI was asexual after all, I didn't care about my identity or reputation at all in my teenage years and I hardly do now

>>34519146
But youre not asexual are you?
Forget what you masturbate to.
The fact that you masturbate at all means you can comprehens sexual pleasure.

But the need to personally share it with someone else is not partof the programming.

The fuck happens for this to even be a thing.

It confuses me.

Not interested in one night stands

>>34519204
What do you mean by part of the programming?

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>>34518536
are you a infj by chance?

>have really small penis
>look like a kid in an oversized body
>no real female friends
>pussied out when i had the chance to get laid some years ago
>porn seems to be enough for me

>pretty normie fetishes like feet
>getting less shy over time
I'm 19 so I just think I don't have to hurry. A lot of time to meet compatible qties

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>>34518407
I don't really care about women I only care about status with that being said I love having all this free money to myself :D

>>34519424
Popular culture and rule of thumb says people are meant to be social animals who after multiple positive encounters eventually develop compulsions to become expotentially close and intimate with eachother, genetically with the intent to produce offspring, socially to rely on one another for emotional and financial support.

I have never felt compelled to follow the course of any of these actions in any form in my entire waking life.
And I dont see that changing any time soon.

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>>34518407
>asshole
>either arrogant af or literally no self-esteem, all in one day
>don`t know how to look good
>no filter in my brain, always say what I think
>huuuuuge asshole

>>34518996
Come back.
I don't want this to be an echo chamber.
You were the only person who dissagreed with me.
I want to know how you feel.

>>34518407
>Why are you a virgin?
Laziness and inertia really. I don't want it enough to pursue it. And even if I want to there this >>34518451 so

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>>34518710
Any conversation of weight with most uninformed people turn into either compromises or lectures.

It's difficult to explain if you don't understand or are unaware of it yourself. When you talk to someone who doesn't know a subject (history, politics, religion, for example, but extends to anything else) you either have to explain it to them and deal with their usually false or poorly thought out interjections or you play it diplomatically and compromise during the conversation to lower yourself to their level. You'll often find yourself agreeing with things you strongly disagree with or nodding along with their thoughtless comments in order to move the conversation along without offending them and causing an pointless argument.

Part of the reason I can't get close to most people. It's all so predictable and tiring.

>>34519441
I think personality typing is a silly mythology but they are entertaining and interesting in a way. I treat it as a lighthearted topic for conversation and wouldn't take it at any competent level of value. But yes, according to the many tests I've taken they say that I am one. Personally I think I'd probably fit INTJ better but there's always going to be overlap so who knows.

>>34518536
This is so fucking weirdly specific yet I feel like I could have written it about myself. I feel for you anon

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>>34519849
HA I KNEW I WIN!! mbti is real senpai.

>>34518407
Don't want premarital sex. I barely meet women in my field anyway. Otherwise I'm attractive and fit so it all boils down to my own inability to socialize and high standards.