What's a good opener for messaging a girl first on one of my several dating sites? I was thinking something like:
"On a scale of "I enjoyed Lord of the Rings" to "I play a half-elf sorcerer with a chaotic good alignment, how weird are you?"
Something that might catch a girls interest if she's as much of a dork as me and might make her want to talk to me before disregarding me based on my appearance.
>hahaha le such a dork xD
It will work if you have a nice face and body. If you're anything less than 8/10 don't even bother with online dating unless you are content with dating a landwhale.
>>34501137
what type of girl are you talking about?
>>34501247
One who shares my interests (vidya, anime, D&D, but also travel and outdoors, likes to explore) and would genuinely enjoy my company. One who is just as lonely and awkward as me who wants a real meaningful relationship. My only standards are that she needs to be a reasonable weight and takes sex seriously, as in she doesn't treat it as just a recreational activity to be had with anyone. Ideally I'd want a virgin who's willing to be exclusive to me within marriage, but that's asking way too much. Otherwise I don't care if she's ugly, crippled, or mentally fucked up.
>>34501419
You can't make a woman interested in you. Be honest and see where it leads you. You never know, she may be your future wife someday.
>>34501419
We're pretty much exactly the same.
Except I don't do outdoors stuff. It's full on shutin mode for me. Other than that yeah I don't care what she looks like.
>>34501523
Does she like you or are you still getting to know her? Similar people tend to like each other and become fast friends easily
>>34501554
Oh were we talking about actual people? No that's just my dream gf if she exists somewhere.
>>34501554
OP here, I haven't gotten to know anyone yet. I'm wondering how to send the first message and catch some interest before my repulsive face disqualifies me by default. I know girls are more superficial than guys, but I'd still like to find one that could ignore my looks if we ended up getting along.
>>34501740
talk about something you know she might be interested in
>>34501740
>I know girls are more superficial than guys,
Men are also superficial. People are people, no matter the gender.
>>34501962
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>implying men and women are the same?
Anon really now?
>>34501990
I am saying that women and men are as superficial as each other and putting yourself down (repulsive face) will only enable other men to bully them. Some people are trash but thankfully we can avoid them.
>>34502238
Women rate ~80% of men "below average". I might be considered average by a man, but to a woman I'm well below average, even ugly. As such, I want to send a message that could make a woman interested enough to talk to me and get to know me before she disregards me because of my appearance.