Is there a way to ask a girl out at a library, or even talk to a girl in a library without coming off as a complete autist or serial killer?
University Library for context.
Depends what you look like of course.
>>34492524
Overweight but not a giant. Balding, glasses. Okay face. Close crop beard.
I dunno, a 6? Maybe a 4 or 5.
>>34492547
do you really have the confidence to pull it off?
approach grills that look like you are as good as they can do. you know, for a practice gf.
>>34492503
I don't think it's possible unless you have good charisma. Whenever anyone approaches me I assume they want something.
>>34492594
Well, I dont know about the confidence. Ive been lifting to try and boost my test. Sometimes it helps (maybe). But I get really bad anxiety whenever I try to talk to a woman I am attracted to.
>>34492626
It seems like there are many sad lonely girls in the library. Ive been studying all weekend and they are there at night. You'd think girls with BFs wouldnt be in the library on a weekend night.
Again, charisma is hit and miss. Its that fucking anxiety. If Im talking to a girl im not interested in sexually, I have no problem being charming. But once I find a women attractive, I get an adrenaline dump that activates (i think) my flight or fight reflex. It sucks and I hate it (another reason why Im going to the gym).
Im slightly neurotic. So I'd like to know how you even initiate a conversation in this situation?
>hurr durr can I burrow a pen for a sec?
So should I try something like out of Seinfeld?