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Why do people get upset if you're going to kill yourself?

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Why do people get upset if you're going to kill yourself?

I don't understand. It's just like you'd never talk to that person again but I really don't see what the big deal behind it is? People cut contact with people all the time. I don't see how this can be any different.
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>>34480202
I don't think anyone gets upset about it.
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>>34480202
Nobody actually cares, but it's a sign of weakness and it's instinctual for people to ostracise weaknesses if doing it is publicly accepted
It is basically a form of bullying
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same as these other people said, I don't think it really bothers people. It's just cultural formality. It's like how people ask you how you're doing even though they don't care what the answer is and they hope you won't say that you're not doing well because then they will be obligated by western culture and social etiquette to talk to you more than they originally wanted to.
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I once got drunk and high and threatened to stab myself with my pocket knife because no girls would talk to me at a high school party. I'm not making that up. I went with a few friends and got super drunk and started complaining about how depressed and lonely I was so I got out a pocket knife and tried to stab myself. My friend stopped me and grabbed the knife. Then he tried to set me up and get me talking with this fat girl and I told her to fuck off and that "i'm gay i like men now".

I'm amazed that I didn't lose any friends after that.
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>>34480202
Some people eventually learn to appreciate life. Death is the ultimate end game where everything is finished. I suggest taking care of children or babies and their fragility generally reminds you of the preciousness of life. It's easy to take life for granted when you're in a comfy environment and never in any danger of it being stolen from you.

>>34480340
I realize you're autistic, but no, normies actually feel a lot of sadness and despair around death. It's much more than culture.
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>>34480346
As you get older, you'll learn to appreciate your friends more. Of course you didn't lose them, and I imagine they're really concerned about losing you, and don't know how to tell you.
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>>34480202
Because it makes them realise that all the people they've treated like shit are actually suffering

Hah, who am I kidding

They just don't want to be the last person to have negatively interacted with you before you died, it's like some kind of game of hot potato, and if you lose you get seen as a bad person.

Also virtue signalling, preferably on some kind of social media
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>>34480554
Everyone is a lifer until someone in a negative position comes along, then it's just a big fuck you right to the face.
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>>34480202
Because you have so much more to give the world :^) Even a broken, inefficient drone is more productive than a dead one.
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I can't speak for other people, but since my mom died i realized how big of a hole you rip open when you die. Espacilly your family. I don't want them sitting around the table, reminded that one of the chairs once belonged to you and stuff like that.
Honestly, if youre willing to make the people you live with so depressed, you can be sure that theres atleast one person who hates you.Me.
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>>34480724
I have a theory that a lot of people devalue themselves as they become obsessed with comparing themselves to superlatives. "Well I'm not the smartest, strongest, most X".

As they constantly compare themselves to others, they start to doubt themselves since they're seen as an inferior product.

But this is root of the problem. No person is intrinsically more valuable than another. Some are more specialized and are "the most X". Every life can change at any instant and caring for one another, and showing real compassion is the antidote to this problem.
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>>34480863
sorry to hear about your mom Anon. Have a cute girl

I'm curious though, no one talks to me now. So what negative impact will I have? I don't live with my family and my days are wage cucking and coming home to my cat.
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>>34481076
If there's something or some cause you're interested in, I suggest volunteering your time to it just once a week or month. You'll meet amazing people there who you might like, and even if you're awkward at first they'll accept you because you guys are on the same team. Even if you might not have a negative impact on others, you might realize that your life can have a positive impact on those who need you you most.
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>>34480864
Be sure to express this opinion towards everyone you meet so if we ever meet irl I can purge you for being such a fucking hippie
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>killing yourself is selfish anon
Holy fuck
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>>34480202

So they can post on facebook about how sad they are and rake in the likes.
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>>34481711
Not him but you're a faggot. You need to realize people are flawed and no amount of exercise, studying, or beautifying yourself with hide the fact that one day you will lose all of what you have worked so hard to achieve. Your looks will fade, your brain will deteriorate, your muscles will atrophy. We are destined to die. The sooner you accept this the sooner you can enjoy life for what it is. Stop being so hard on yourself and other, do what you can to build yourself and others up.

As a Christian I believe that every vain thing in this world is pointless.
My life is sacrificed.
I have given up what I cannot keep for that which I cannot lose.
And if I'm wrong I can still die happy.
love your enemy, and do good to those who have wronged you.
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