>get gf
>she broke up with me because I didn't spend time with her
>>34459829
That happened to me in 3rd grade. She actually slapped me whenever she broke up with me, then slapped me again when she saw me a few weeks later.
Same happened with me. It was partly that and that I didn't show emotion. I was probably depressing and boring too. It was the first time I had someone else in my life and I blew it because I didn't know how to handle it.
I understand it perfectly now and tried texting her a couple months after things ended, but she ghosted me
This is why I want a fembot gf.
I need somebody who understands not being a very social person, understands sometimes you just want to be alone, and understands that not spending every waking moment with her doesn't mean I love her any less.
Especially at the start of the relationship.
I'm sure after a while I'd be fine with being together a lot of the time, but I'm not going to be able to jump from living alone for the past 6 years to being around somebody all the time, no matter how much I like them.
>>34460044
This is precisely why I don't date people, they would expect me to become a social butterfly but I would just not care and do what ever.
>>34460081
I just want somebody who understands that, and won't think it means I don't want to be with them.
And ideally feels the same way, I don't want somebody who would prefer I was more energetic and social and just tolerates it, I want somebody who understands it and is comfortable with it.