If you spent a fifth of the time you spend here on actually going

I hate talking to people and abhor making small talk

But yeah, keep telling me that the reason I dont have a gf is because I dont talk to people.

>just put yourself out there bruh
kys yourself

Being passive obviously makes things harder but a lot of people here still wouldn't find anyone if they went out. Social incompetence/autism/having no friends will dry a bitch up faster than anything else.

>>34455415
I do deserve to be alone and childless. And I don't complain.

Also
>cold approaching strangers
>getting a gf from this
No
Maybe the online dating thing is less retarded, but there's still going to be problems with anyone using it for the various reasons it's used for.

>>34455460
>expecting normies to understand

>>34455458

I didn't say "put yourself out there", that's what women do - waiting around in Starbucks for a cute guy to come talk to her.

I said actively go out and ask girls out. Everyone on this board is capable of finding someone if they put actual effort into it.

>>34455480
>>34455460
>>34455458

Pathetic excuses. You sure like to push all responsibility for your misery onto other things than yourself.

You're the sole person responsible for your loneliness, and unless you change things, things will never change.

It's truly aggravating seeing this kind of rationale and how desperately you all cling to it.

>>34455538
No one's blaming anyone else m8,they're just acknowledging that it's a more complicated problem than you think.