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What's the real reason women don't like you? Speak

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What's the real reason women don't like you? Speak for yourself.
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I don't really brag so a lot of females are too superficial to find that interesting. Also being poor and ugly doesn't exactly help my cause. The huge dick probably doesn't either it's a somewhat intimidating thing to be confronted with being impaled with.
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I don't allow anyone use emotional leverage on me

this doesn't fly so good with teehee~ women who expect you to trip over yourself for them
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If I knew, I would've rectified that issue by now.
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ugly, socially autistic, and can only talk about very specific topics that are relevant to my interests, that no woman I've known has been interested in. Everything I've ever attempted has failed because of me
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>>34451997
i have very litle tolerance for bullshit
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>>34451997

I'm terrible at conversations due to
1. no interesting anecdotes or life stories
2. no real productive or interesting hobbies
3. unpopular opinions on everything
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>>34451997
WHAT IS THIS SEX OBSESSION?

WHAT THE FUCK IS IT?

IS THIS A FUCKING JOKE?

'VE NEVER GIVEN A SHIT ABOUT SEX
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>>34451997

My dick is below average and every girl I've ever showed it to has laughed me out of her room
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>>34451997
I give off some sort of terrible vibe and don't look inviting, along with terrible social skills.
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>>34452184
>I give off some sort of terrible vibe and don't look inviting
It's called ugliness
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>>34451997
Girls do like me, I'm just too beta to ask any of them out.
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I'm not Chad.

In all seriousness, I'm spergy and neurotic and I don't have a lot of accomplishments.

Stable, good job, hobbies, tall, get told I'm cute, respect boundaries, make intentions clear (not "nice guy"), even good at flirting. None of it matters.
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>>34452153
>things that never happened

What are you getting out of lying anonymously on the internet, you retarded imbecile?
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>>34452192
I wish it were that simple, i'm not fuck ugly though the bags under my eyes definitely make me look like a druggie. The fact my glasses make my eyes look huge isn't exactly a plus either.
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>>34452241
If you look uninviting and aggressive/repulsive ("bad vibes") then you're ugly
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>UGLY
>BETA
>MALE
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>>34452240
>doesn't have a micropenis
>accuses me of lying about

C'mon anon why add insult to injury it already hurts enough ;_;
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>>34452260
Well if you say so, I see people who look worse than me shagging women on the regular.
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>>34451997
oh anon, but they do like me <3
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>>34451997
I wish i knew

i wish i knew
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>>34451997

I'm not tall and my facial structure is feminine. these are the only things that determine whether or not women like you btw
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>>34451997
I'm not happy. I need to get more confidence.

In a word, I'm not a man yet.
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>>34452311
>worse than me

That's your imagination, I struggled with the same delusions for a few years in my early twenties.
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>>34452153
dick size or your lying
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>>34451997
Because i'm uninteresting i have moderate autismi've spent the last 3 years spending 8 hours a day on a computer watching anime and porn i have no social circles beyond my immediate family my hobbies include masturbating and playing arma 2 and getting talking to myself creating little fantasies
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>>34452062
>poor and ugly
>I don't really brag so a lot
kek
What the fuck do you have to brag about, your fucking mlp collection?
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>>34452109
People project their sex obsession on others as a way to make them intelligible. Your lack of overt interest in sex is baffling to them, so they figure you're being dishonest in some way.
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>>34451997
>drug free
>alcohol free
>hobbies are fitness, vidya, and manga
>exclusively beat my meat to 2D only
>never had a girlfriend
>6" penor
>virgin
>wear glasses
>brown skin
>24 years old
>last time somebody hugged me was in middle school
>depressed
>0 confidence in myself
>don't do anything on the weekends
>don't white knight
>dress in clothes from Target and Walmart
>dress in greyscale (white, black, grey)
>get embarrassed easily
>If a 3DPD confessed to me out of the blue or showed interest I'd most likely cry
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>>34451997
I dont give a fuck about anyone that has not been nice or at least showen interest to/in me.

Im also a terrible person.
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>>34451997
I'm just generally unattractive, usually 4/10 on soc which doesn't really get any attention when there are better looking guys out there.
I'm not muscular either. Not fat, just skinny and don't have any interest in working out.
I also dedicate a lot of time to myself/school and have never been a super social person, I don't feel like I have much of a personality and none of my hobbies are very attractive (graphic design, biking, cooking)
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>>34451997
>this pic
Why do they always assume that your priority is to bang them? I want a relationship where I can have fun with my partner. A relationship isn't only fucking around like rabbits.

>What's the real reason women don't like you? Speak for yourself.
It's not that they don't like me, I just like being by myself at the moment. I've got enough other stuff I have to worry about, so I don't need the temper tantrums of a girl now and then.
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>>34451997
I don't have friends/social circles, so I don't have the emans to know any girls, I think that's the problem of most people here
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I'm rather calm, somewhat fit, have many interests and hobbies. I guess I'm just blind to any signs chicks give me. I've been often told I was a cool guy, always been friendly to anybody, someone who isn't friendly.

Heck I've been told by 2 chicks I'm husband material. So I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Maybe I'll go try with milfs
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Yeah after thinking about it, I'm too beta to ask any out, gotta break that wall soon
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>>34452209
>I'm spergy and neurotic

Are you high iq?
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I only want to talk about politics, anime and black metal.
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>>34452416
>tfw nobody replies to your post
feels bad famalam
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From the perspective of a person that wouldn't fuck women, but try to make friends with them - The normies care a great deal about social status and getting free shit, so it doesn't matter if you're a shitty person, they will talk to you so long as you invite them to your uncle's summer home in the florida keys or hook them up with drugs, or what have you. Good luck sharing your secrets though, and god help you if you ever introduce them to your boyfriend.

The failed stacies are just a mess through and through. It's hard to be friends with someone who has routine panic attacks just for existing and not being stacy.
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>>34452366
>implying a mlp collection isn't a significant achievement
you're quite pathetic, anon.
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>>34451997
I'm too quiet, too shy, too beta, not attractive. Never had a gf or even female friends, women have treated me like a creep or shit my entire life. I gave up around 21and stopped leaving the house. I'm now a 25 year old kHv neet, pretty sure everyone in my family thinks I'm gay by now.
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>>34451997
>narcissistic
>self deprecating
>lazy
>not a fan of pop culture, movies, etc.
>bouts of depression
>misanthropic

I'm sure there's more, but those are by the far the main reasons.
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>>34451997
Can't really trust people, not even friends
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>>34451997
I'm standoffish and awkward but not quite attractive enough to get away with it.
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I've been told on many occassions that i give this "too good for this world" vibe, and that people think im narcisstic (which is true, by the way).
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I'm a nobody. I have no social status and I have achieved nothing in my life. I have nothing to offer, not even a car ffs...
Girls want a guy that will make their friends get jealous, not a nobody. My last gf (almost 4 years ago) dumped me the moment people found out that we were dating.
If you're not chad and you want to get a girl's attention, you have to do/be something impressive. Make a name for yourself.
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>>34451997
I'm poor and unmasculine (not feminine though), don't have a car or college education, and I don't have any real career prospects.

I have a bunch of female friends but no woman will ever show romantic interest in me ever because of those things.
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OP, it appears you're at the wrong website. The so called "nice guys" are at reddit. We're all honest about being total pricks
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>>34451997
>Ugly
>Shy
>being khv at 24
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I'm fat
I'm 5'7"
I'm incredibly boring and cynical
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>>34451997
I don't go out of my house to speak to them.
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Because I'm 'creepy'
In reality I don't even want a woman, I'm a genuine fag.
So, uh, I guess I'm offended still for them thinking that. But eh, you get used to it...
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>>34451997
There r 2 main reasons:
>1. I'm kind of shy, self conscious, awkward, and boyish (slender, thick tousled hair, carded for cigs+beer n mistaken for high schooler despite being mid-20s).
>Most of my pursuits are solitary: books, tv shows, movies, music, walks, night drives, (basic) skateboarding, (basic) bmx-ing, (casual) vidya, piano, guitar, alcohol, memes.
Yup. That's pretty much it. Not into politics (Trumps an ass tho), or drama, or having a large group of friends. So I'm alone.
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I'm literally not chad, other than that I am a pretty good catch. But I'm not chad. I have a handsome face, but not top 1% model tier. I am 5'11, not 6'2.

Women in my "range" don't want a guy like me, they want a 10/10 athlete model.
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>>34451997
I don't know

origggg
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>>34452605
>Heck I've been told by 2 chicks I'm husband material

Dude thats a huge backhanded compliment. You're the "safe" option, the guy they go for after their prime. After bad boy # 15 dumps them and they're almost 30.
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>>34451997
In response to the picture, what are guys supposed to do when they meet a sexually attractive female? Because making sexual advances quickly is viewed as pervy and creepy in the age of twenty-fucking-seventeen.
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>>34452348
Same here. They say we all consider ourselves 5 times more attractive than what we really are. I realised it in my late 20s, it hit me like a ton of bricks. For years I thought I was like an 8 or something while in reality I'm average as shit. Now it has gonne the other way and some days I feel like a fuckin 4. Confidence is a fragile thing.
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>>34451997
I'm boring and also an asshole who actively avoids conversations with them because they're just as boring as I am but can somehow spend all day talking about nothing.
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>>34454660

Same thing happened to me in my mid 20's. I was such a delusional guy, I really thought because my parents and family said I was so good looking and I',m not fat or hideous that I was like an 8 or a 9. Well, real life came and smacked me hard in the face. I was hiding behind all these excuses "oh I'm shy, oh I don't even go out and meet friends"....then I got a job working with other young guys who were legit good looking and I realized the truth. I'm at best maybe slightly above average. See the thing is I was comparing myself to people you would see at wal mart or the DMV or in the general public, that is not your competition. You gotta compare yourself to young white college guys from the upper middle class.
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They like me, I just don't try.

I talk to girls about life at work and they're always like "I don't think you'd have trouble getting laid" and I keep having to remind them I'm not angstin' about bitches, I'm angstin' about life being unfulfilling and our job not paying well. They always assume my unhappiness is due to no gf, but I don't think it is cause I don't really want one. I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy if they weren't clingy but I work 6 days a week just to get by, I don't want to dedicate what little free time I have into trying to obtain that.

But yeah I have a cool pad and am really funny, I think they're just a little tooter toasted when men aren't trying to earn their attention.


Anybody read any good books lately? I want something with dank prose like Blood Meridian, but not fucked up and depressing like Blood Meridian.
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i cant drink because of a medical condition, here in britblongland, drinking is the culture and no one wants a sober boyfriend
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>>34454644

It's creepy if you're a sperg about it or unattractive
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I am ugly. Nothing else matters. If girls dont like you its because you are ugly.
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>>34454766
>>34454766

"Ugly" to men is sub 8/10. Average is considered ugly to all women.
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>>34454791

I'm a guy and to me ugly is 4 and below
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>>34454755
Yep

Remember the two most important rules of dating
1: Be attractive
2: Don't be unattractive
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>>34454644
Make a move dumb dumb. But, when a guy's unattractive he knows he'll be slapped down immediately. So he orbits because at least he's in contact with the 'sexually attractive female." Then gets butt hurt with the rage of a thousand suns when she declines to show any romantic/sexual interest in him. Fucking loser.
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I am too self conscious.
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I bet that some do but Im so spergy I blow it (or jusr am oblivious and don't try)
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>>34454837
but you're a guy. Women get dick all the time, so they are used to choosing the most attractive male
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>>34452952
>implying it is
It's even more pathetic that you assume it is.
Go on, you can post it now, since you want to.
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>>34451997
The first thing I do when I see a girl crying is walk away, let her other female friends do that for her, I'm not a shoulder to cry on, and unless you're close to me I wouldn't be there like a faggot trying to emotionally consent her. If it's someone who helped me in the past, I would do it, but just seeing some random bitch crying then walking up to her to listen to her, hell no fuck her, she has her friends for that
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My penis is small
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I don't get my hair cut regularly. I don't care about grooming. I am not that friendly. I do not care about drinking and going out. I do not care about money or fashion. I have a dark sense of humor, am overweight, and do not care about my reputation. I spend my nights watching documentaries/movies/writing/shitposting, women find that boring.
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>>34451997
I have no idea, Probably I appear really boring because I have no normie interests and I of course avoid talking about my actual interests, my appearence is barely average which doesn't help matters. Last time I met a girl was like a year ago though.
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>>34451997
>What's the real reason women don't like you? Speak for yourself.
Prob because I'm not white
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>>34452153
>7 inch dick
>most girls compliment it
>the last girl said i was really good at sex and having "good equipment" definitely helped
sorry your dick is small anon, but unless you have like a 2 inch dick i doubt a girl would say anything unless she was really mean
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>>34451997

I'm weird and a miserable fuck. It doesn't matter that I'm tall, my personality is strange because of being an outcast most of my teen years/early twenties I can never return to being a socially adjusted person. I have learned to cope with humor and being able to force a smile and pretend that I don't hate everyone around me but dear god I just want to be alone.

Women aren't worth shit anyway anons. 99.99% are trash don't even fucking bother.
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>>34454733
Yeah I totally hid behind excuses too. "I'm shy, my clothes are ugly, girls are stupid". Compared myself to the wrong people too, like ugly highschool nerds. tfw some of those ugly nerds are married with children today.
I also avoided mirrors and cameras. I guess I knew subconsciously that I wasn't attractive.
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>>34451997
I am an average guy who barely gets out, and is incredibly boring.
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>>34455528
Could be worse anon.

>though I was 2/10 ugly during middle and highschool
>my confidence was so low that I was 100% sure no girl would ever look at me
>as such I literally threw away a chance to do something with the girl of my dreams and a couple others in high school
>now 23 and khv

I was average looking though as it turns out and not quasimodo ugly.
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>>34451997
Because im autistic and freak and when approached by them
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>>34455715
Average ;looking guy here as well

Some times I wish I was ugly. Then I'll have an excuse to not getting any woman at all. Tired of people wondering why Im a kissless virgin
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I am good looking but silent. They consider me a freak.
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>>34456005
>silent
Why?
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>>34455715
>Could be worse anon.
Well, the outcome is still the same: we were both khv at 23.
I'm not khv now but I remained one until 26 and even then I lost the v card to a freakin prostitute.
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>>34456038
Yeah it's the same but I still have regrets. If I had been like you I would probably be a normie by now, or at least not a khv.
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I have niche interests
I'm vulgar and perverse
I'm a manlet
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>>34451997
>assumes that she will be amazed and will want to have sex him because he is not like the other guys

why is it all about sex with normalfags? I don't want sex, I just want someone to watch movies with and go on dates with and buy gifts for and all that sappy stuff. But no its always "well you just want sex you are just as bad as those Chads you virgin loser!"

If I could get a gf, I would not care if I never got to have sex because just the idea of having someone to love me and to love means much more then some gross desire of wanting my dick to feel good.

Sex is not love, its just lust. You take away that and you start to see how much people really "love" each other, they are weak, they have no true sense of loyalty. Thats why I think having a 2D waifu is the purest form of love, because when I tell people about my waifu they first thing people say is "BUT YOU CAN'T FUCK A CARTOON CHARACTER! "

Its not about sex, its about having commitment to a person. My waifu will never hold me, tell me she loves me or go on dates with me, but at the same time she will never tell me I an ugly or a loser or hurt me.

This concept is completely alien to normalfags, they are too dumb to understand it. It all about "nah brah gotta get my dick wet lol 420 pussy slayer gotta get sex brah"

Sex makes people blinded to want real love is, like how a junkie gets high.
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>>34451997
I don't even fucking know at this point. And I just hate them for this.
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I don't know. I think a lot about it. Maybe I'm searching in the wrong places.
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low value, like Elliot Rodger but with less money
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Fat, autistic, ugly wizard who doesn't want to change my ways.
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>>34451997
I refuse to play the mating game. In the sense that I don't aggressively look to kill it financially, socially, physically, over other men and then have my pick of the bounty (women). I find women's attraction patterns primitive and disgusting and I refuse to participate in a world like this. If I die poor, alone, and mocked because of it, I will take upon myself that burden rather than become an ape who looks to get women by subjugation of other men. Because once you remove all the bullshit, that is what women want. They want to attach themselves to brutal power in a man who has (symbolically, though even literally would work as we see with fangirls of mass murderers) mercilessly killed other men. Yes, I will die alone and poor but with a clear conscience in that I didn't want to actively put others down for my benefit.
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>>34451997
>very low confidence
>extremely poor social skills
>move in jerky motions
>walk too fast
>poor posture
>underweight
>get overly attached if you show the slightest bit of attention
>(usually) unconscious tendency to do favors for people in hopes they will like me
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>poor
>5'3"
>weak chin
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>>34451997
I'm so used to them not liking me, I assume it's the default response I'll get from women

Plus I've wisened up to their bullshit, so on top of thinking they collectively don't like me, I find them repulsive at the core as well.
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>>34451997
I'm really just ugly, ugly as in ''you never ever got a single compliment or a girl liking you'' for 20 years now

except a few months ago where I sent a pic of me to this fat girl I was chatting with, like ''long distance relationship'' or something, she said i was handsome but honestly it doesn't count
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I don't know what to say in conversations so I don't give much attention to girls, who in turn don't give attention to me.
Most of the time my self confidence is low and I find it really hard to believe there's any girl out there that would like me or want to even fug. I'm not overweight but I don't have a very attractive body, I've seen plenty of pictures of myself and my face isn't as handsome as I grew up being led to believe.

I don't do drugs, rarely drink, etc. and have a few productive hobbies and I'm somewhat smart but I haven't gone to college and have a hard time focusing long enough to learn something like programming so I don't have skills. I'm not really desirable.
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Because I went full asexual after turning widow fml
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>skinny, long hair hippie with dark spots under eyes - junkie vibe
>blank, dry, cold, stoic personality
>few young women I know at work I talk and treat them as if they were dudes
>unpopular opinions
>no normal hobbies other than jogging but that's nothing to talk about
But the biggest thing is that I do not want to bother people. In my mind I think it is just considerate since why'd they care about me - I'm nothing to her and she is nothing to me.
And I do not think I'd be much of a boyfriend anyway and such do not deserve a gf.
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>>34452153
Do you actually have a micro penis? How big?
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>>34451997
i've got a vagina
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I have no confidence. I'm ugly. Overweight. Little dick. Poor.
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>>34452184
>terrible social skills.
Apparently social skills arent really a thing.
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Im overconfident and my ADHD sperginess makes me kinda annoying. Also Im not the handsomest dude out there
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I'm boring and awkward.

Wish I knew how to change.
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>>34454592
>Women in my "range" don't want a guy like me, they want a 10/10 athlete model.
Guess what. That's all women.
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I'm not handsome, popular, or successful.
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>>34451997
I'm a complete recluse/hermit.
I'm average looking at best
At one point in time, I was at a healthy weight and I looked decent enough to attract some women.
I'm an introvert with social anxiety issues and a bit of autism. I don't go out at all unless I'm with my older brother.
I work overnight shift and then I come home and relax and do my hobbies when I'm not at work.
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>>34452241
I'm sure you look fine, this guy is just an /edgefag/
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I feel like if I approached a girl, I could get a girlfriend pretty easily. The thing is though, I have crippling anxiety.
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>>34459554
Don't worry, when you get over your anxiety you'll realize girls want nothing to do with you, so it didn't matter anyways.
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>>34451997
I recently had a bad and my friends introduce me to a girl the same day. I was a dick the whole time we where all out because of said bad day. At the end of the night she called me a "little bit of a jerk" then sucked my dick. Being a jerk works dude
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>>34452416
I know these feels man...

Try talking to people more- I know it's hard, I used to have similar issues- but it'll help, I promise.
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>>34459572
This. >>34459554's anon only thinks he can get a gf easily is because he hasnt faced the truth of how women treat men.

Pic related should give you some insight.
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>>34451997
I have an aura that attracts introverted aspies, but being an introverted aspie myself doesnt help progress a relationship
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>personality is too shit to not disgust normies
>need to dissociate when talking to women
>it never fucking works
>if a woman approaches me when I'm not prepared I will always turn her down
I've given up. This shit is not worth it.

>>34452416
Similar situation except I drink. It doesn't help anxiety, but it makes me feel less shit for being alone.
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Because I have a big nose
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>>34452105
ever try starting convo or no?
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>>34452076
This

A friend of mine, who is similar to me in a lot of ways had a 4-5/10 gf. Had to chauffeur her everywhere, buy her things, DD her almost daily, and she eventually broke up with him because he's too christian.

The most hilarious thing is, he still does 60% of these things now, just without any sex, hoping to win her back.

Most men are just tools, built to be used, and thrown away when their purpose has been served.
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My turn

>7/10 female
>Mid twenties but in college
>ADHD so annoying and childish
>kinda mean and bossy to guys because I'm jaded
>deny them sex
> still live with parents
> don't have tons of friends
> work all the time or in school
> have slightly above average amount of bodily
>shave all the time/wax/laser
>skinny fat
>only b cup tits
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>What's the real reason women don't like you?

Because I'm ugly and short and they just aren't physically attracted to me, but insist it must be MUH PERSONALITY
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>>34460303
date me i guess
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>>34460425
You fucking idiot. Dont reply to "FEMANON HERE" posts. They'll keep attentionwhoring on the borad unless people like you fucking stop giving them attention.
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>>34451997
I'm too awkward, to be honest.

Being initially nervous is fine but if you don't start taking charge and know what you want then she'll lose interest quickly. If you don't know how to make idle chit-chat, flirt, or if you're bad at keeping in touch without looking clingy it's game over. Also being confident does not mean acting like an arrogant retard. You'll just make an embarrassing joke out of yourself as you reveal your power level and people will see how much of a try hard you are. Being confident mean not tripping all over your words and not being too nervous or shy

Learn from my mistakes

t. 24 year old decent looking virgin
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>average
>manlet
>chinlet/jawlet
>boring, no hobbies
>awkward as a result of never having many friends
>no friends
>standoff-ish and bitter
>can't hold a conversation to save my life anymore
>forward head posture
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>>34460453
i said i guess which means i dont really care, but i wont do that anymore, they dont need the (you)s
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I try to be a good caring person and the things required to be a good person make me come off as a wimp or pussy, etc.

Also fat and no woman on the planet is into that (ofc fat women have no issue tho xD )
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>>34460457
>she'll lose interest quickly
>If you don't know how to make idle chit-chat, flirt, or if you're bad at keeping in touch without looking clingy it's game over
See >>34459110. Apparently that's not really the problem.

>You'll just make an embarrassing joke out of yourself
I'm sorry to say this anon, but you're an average (ugly in women's eyes) to ugly person. If you were good enough, they'd pick up the conversation too.

HOW STRANGE THAT WOMEN DATING STRATEGIES HINGES SO MUCH ON BEING AN ATTRACTIVE MALE.
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>>34451997

>What's the real reason women don't like you?

i'm too upfront about wanting to fuck the ones i like, and too distant to be civil to the ones i don't care for.
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>>34460556
>ofc fat women have no issue tho
REEEEEEEEEE

of course the dude is buff
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>>34454644
Literally pretend you're not interested in them and have better things to do, while giving occasional compliments. Guys who make sexual advances before a woman is interested in them are to be viewed as creepy.
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>>34456591

thats a good point, do you want tho?
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>>34456717
I totally get what you're saying. It's like the "Bebe's boobs" episode in South Park but sad rather than funny. I hate how savage we become around girls and I hate seeing girls enjoy that savagery. I hate the rules of the game but I'm still playing it. I'm not ready to quit yet, I don't want to die alone goddammit...
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>>34460599
You're making a whole lot of assumptions there. I never said I was Brad Pitt or Chad, but I have been told by no relatives I'm better looking than the average eggman. You sound really insecure and are lashing out against individuals you perceive to be threatening and erode your fragile self esteem because. I'm a far-right wing racist NEET that only likes talking about racial politics and pseudo-philosophy and deflects conversation away from myself whenever possible out of low self-esteem and mumbles barely audible noise when a girl talks to me because I'm so nervous. There, is that better?
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>>34455272
Are you me? Except if you lift weights, that gives you another board to frequent, brah
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I'm a loser with low self-esteem, terrible work ethic, and no immediately endearing qualities.

Women make snap judgements and stick to them forever.
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>>34457252
I'd like to hear your story. Was it because of immense grief? I've seen young widows get completely withdrawn before and I always admired it.
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>>34460869
These 2 boards you are talking are practically the same :,)
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>>34461020
Dont forget /pol/, I thought I was a special snowflake by visiting all 3, but they seem to be merging.
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cause I'm an ugly asshole
no other reasons
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>>34451997
The real reason is that unless they are single and attractive, I have no use for them and will avoid interacting with them. They HATE this, and will shittalk me to any of their friends. It doesnt bother me because I know that I do not have the looks or money to get someone I would be willing to settle with so I do not waste my energy interacting with them which is the ultimate sin in their eyes.
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social skills, personality, being interesting etc is a meme

these things have no baring on a girl wanting your dick in her

if you want girls to like you, improve your looks. that's all you can really do because it's the only thing that matters
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>>34455099
>It's even more pathetic that you assume it is.
I haven't assumed anything there is no assumption needed it's a fact.

>Go on, you can post it now, since you want to.
I dislike your attitude and you haven't asked politely. You may not have some of my oats.
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>>34451997
You know how most people you meet don't feel quite like they're real people? Either you're not interested in them, or they you, so both of you methodically act out conversational courtesies.
This is what almost all my interactions with other people are. I'm generally liked, in the sense that I'm polite and agreeing, so people talk to me at places like work. Few people are mean to me, and I just kind of get by, but I don't see myself ever having a girlfriend.

The reason women don't like me romantically is the same reason I don't have many friends - my lack of interest, masked in conversational courtesy, makes me seem to them as fake and empty as they seem to me.
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>>34451997
they just plain hate me, they always have.
>>
Because I'm against abortion unless it endangers the mother's life apparently.
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I'm quiet, nerdy, and would rather do my own thing than give out constant attention
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>>34451997
they're too intimidated by what a catch I am
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>>34451997
I am 5'6" mate
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>>34451997
I don't show them any of the special attention they get from a billion other males if I'm not interested in them and am very direct if I am.
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>>34452153
Kek not sure I believe you. mine is like 5 + 1/2 inches and this has never happened. I'm tall too so that makes it look worse
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>>34456591
i would agree with you if you weren't such a weeaboo faggot
>>
I'm genetic trash and too high maintinence because of it.

What girl in her 20's wants to go out with someone who is legally blind and can barely walk around outside unassisted?

Girls like me, but they always, always see me as just a friend because they know that going out with me would be a challenge that's not worth the hassle.
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>>34451997
Women do like me. I'm decent looking, tall and fit, and my autism is mild enough that I can hide it well.
>>
>quiet
>socially awkward as fuck
>social anxiety
>terrible flirt
>insecure
>mental issues (including depression and bipolar disorder)
>virgin
>no real interesting stories or experiences to talk about since my life has mostly always been pretty boring
>hobbies are video games, comic books, music, and anime
>don't have a lot of confidence
>obsessed over sex and desperately want to get laid
>despite the above, almost NEVER make a move because I always want to take things slow and slowly get them to like me over time (which never works)
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>>34462560
How old are you anon? Fjcdhvfh
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>>34451997
I don't go out much and i'm not really engaged in many social activities. I'm fairly isolated.

Also, i think that i'm a walking paradox and girls don't like that. It takes effort to know my true inner self and i don't have the looks to make girls want to get to know me more
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>>34451997
They do.
The problem is that I have such a problem with my strange combination of insecurity and narcissism. I genuinely believe I would ruin any relationship and hurt the person I was with.
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>>34461812
>so both of you methodically act out conversational courtesies.
Oh fuck, I just got my first real job and I know exactly what you mean. I'm terrible at interacting with people so I mostly just smile at people and say hey or whatever and they politely acknowledge me and that's abut the extent to most of my work relationships. I wish I had the social graces to actually make people laugh at my jokes and be interested in me but I suck at talking to people.

Funny thing about that is, I'm pretty sure I wasn't even that bad in high school. But suddenly, I just can't talk to people now. I'm afraid of saying something stupid or making them dislike me so I keep them at a distance. My mind also just goes blank and I can't think of anything to fucking say most of the time too.

>>34462588
Twenty-three years of age, sir.
>>
>behaves as a straight male
>expects to be treated as a viable mate for a straight female
WOW, THE ARROGANCE

JUST SIT IN THE FUCKING CORNER AND GO OUT OF THE GENE POOL
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>>34462686
That sucks but you're still not at the hopeless stage.
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>>34452335
Same here bro. Been told many times that I'm super cute, but its never in the good way.
>>
>>34451997
>hates women
>>
>>34455425
>tfw literally have a sub 3 inch penis and look about on par with
>>34454733
I'm dumb as a sack of bricks and have no accomplishments
>>
>>34451997
because i treat them like the worthless subhuman trash they are
>>
>>34462741
I don't see myself ever changing, honestly. I feel like it's way too ingrained in myself, to the point where most of that is just simply 'Me'.
>>
>>34451997
I like to banter, way too much banter and women are too weak to handle it.
>>
i had three girls interested in me. the thing is one got uninterested in me when she found out i played video games, the other one i got cockblocked, the recipient seemed offliy smiley to me.
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>>34460457
You sound exactly like me anon. From being awkward to acting like a tryhard douche to cover it up. Now I just act awkward, dont see it changing in the future.
t. 21 year old virgin
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>>34451997

Fat, ugly, boring, forgettable. I was always the 'cute friend that'll find a great girl someday but not me lol' until I quit allowing myself to be an emotional tampon. Then they all fucking disappeared entirely.
>>
>>34451997
I'm 5'6"

And that's about all that is needed to be invisible, honestly
>>
>>34463302
Funny that, your post applies word for word to me as well.
t. another 21 year old virgin
>>
I literally don't have any contact with females. I always thought that women don't like me but since I started my new job I talked to some coworkers and it seems that they aren't as disgusted by me as I thought.
Still, I will remain a virgin until my death bed probably since I'm way too autismal to form a regular relationship.
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>>34463592
same as me except my coworkers are all chad's, fucking sucks man.
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>>34463626
What's your job? I'm a software dev and my coworkers seem pretty unchadly so far, I started this month. I'm probably still the most virginal person in the office tho. At least I don't stick out like the previous job or in mandatory military service.
>>
>no desire for sex
>see women in a completely nonsexual manner
>think without my dick and see them as all completely awful people
>treat them all like dirt and not in the way that they like
>>
>>34463690
The silicon valley "app" hipsters are alt-chad
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>>34452560
>Why do they always assume that your priority is to bang them?
Because the vapid whores that spew this only have men talk to them to get sex out of it. Seeing a man as a nonsexual object isn't something they can do.
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>>34463690
i work in mining, its all chads dude.
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>I don't know how to brag
>not rich
>not handsome
>still live at home
>nice guy (not a Nice Guy)
>voted Trump
>prefer solitude
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>>34463790
just think of high school chad on 150k a year, they are even worse when they are on big bucks.
>>
>>34451997
Human females require a human male and I'm barely a human. I just exist and feel terrible.
>>
Because I'm boring.
At least men like my company.
>>
> married
> ugly anyway
> poor
> socially awkward
>>
>>34462841
oh man tell me about it
in high school these girls in my class would occasionally talk about how cute i was in an innocent, little brother kind of way
i used to ignore/laugh it off and then fantasize about ruining their lives

my youth has been very unfulfilling to say the least
>>
In a change of time, I became;
ugly,
antisocial,
hates everyone,
-can't speak/imagine from her point of view;
>>
A complete lack of self confidence.

It's a pity, because I am actually somewhat good looking. Whenever there's a "tfw no gf" thread, people keep whining about how it is all decided by looks. A good looking dude can be a total asshole, and still get laid, right?

Well, I'm here to tell you that this is not the case. Being good looking doesn't make up for social retardation and a low opinion of yourself.
>>
>>34464594

you're not as good looking as you think
>>
>>34451997
I'm good looking and tall and quite funny and friendly.

One, I can't make any decisions for myself. This shows as being extremely non confident (i'm not very confident) and submissive, where a girl wants somebody who can take charge once in a while.

Two, I don't know how to make a move even if someone is interested in me. If left up to me, we'd just remain friends forever with me wishing we could be more.

My one gf I've ever had was 3 years younger than me and a best friend that I had for years. I basically guilted her into dating me and we never kissed at all the entire time we were dating (after the breakup we got drunk together and made out though). I was only able to finger her/eat her out because I would take it extremely slowly by touching her knee first and moving my hand slowly up to her crotch, then into her pants then underwear. This was over the course of maybe 3 mins and she liked it cause it was like teasing, but I don't think I'm capable of more without being afraid of rejection.
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>>34464630
30 mins not 3 mins lol

Basically girls don't like me because I come across as insecure and distant. I don't know how to hold a conversation.
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>>34464630

you're not as good looking as you think you are
>>
I'm too boring, and I don't let women manipulate me.

I'm an average looking dude, make enough money to support myself and have an above average dick and average(ish) body.

I prefer to go to work, then come home and play vidya while saving my money in the meantime, which is why I'm boring. Not being a cheater doesn't make up for that I guess. I also don't stand for over the top drama and crybaby shit which has lost me a few females, but I simply do not care. I just want a simple life.
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Women like me, Ive been told that. But most women like to be asked out and I'm too much of a pussy to do so. The few times I have asked a girl out, its always been a yes. I dunno why I'm too retarded to do it more
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>>34464626

Obligatory response.

I'm no Bradd Pitt or anything, but I am above average in the looks department. Understand, I don't say this as a boast. I said what I said without a hint of arrogance. Looks alone really aren't enough.
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