I got my first dui at 26 two days ago. I'm probably going to lose the job that I love. My mom died around two years ago, the only stable connection I ever had. A girl finally showed interest in me and that will probably end too. I have two court dates and will most likely not be able to drive for a while. I'm not blaming anyone else, this is all my fault and I deserve everything I get. I see no real reason to live. I have no idea how to even kill myself, but it is all I want to do. There's no silverlining, I just wanna go, you guys...
It's going to be okay man.
I know that sounds like bull shit, but it will.
>>34447862
Does your job require a drivers license? If not, don't fucking tell them about your DUI. keep it under your hat. And they might not care anyway, DUI's happen.
>>34447888
Yeah it does I'm a pet sitter. I have a meeting them on monday. My friend who had a dui said it was taken from him for 5 weeks.
dude its just a DUI .
got one years ago.
didn't give a fuck.
you shouldn't either.
get over it. it's a basic ass ticket desu.
dont be a pussy and keep driving even if you don't have a license
>>34447907
>Pet sitter
Distances too great to take the bus, walk or bike? First time, particularly if it's low range you might only lose it for a few months at most. Don't forget about interlocks and hardship licenses, if you have them in your country. Get a lawyer, you need a mouth to speak for you, makes court so much easier. Start going to AA, every fucking day, take a card and get them to sign it with the date and place of the meeting. Trust me I had three DUI's, you need to tackle this shit head on.
>>34447921
drunk driving >>34447960
Well, if I'm still around, i will, I really don't see any reason otherwise, everything is falling apart. My mom was everything and the last two years i've been in a self destructive fog. The more bad things that pile up the less I want to be here. There's a family that cares about me, but I've never had a girlfriend and likely never will. I have to pay rent and if this job goes away, and it likely will, I am done. I can't see a positive here.