Is it true that there are virgins in their 20's who aren't

A lot of them exist on Imgur.

>>34442665
I am one of those virgins. I have no particular interest in sex or a relationship, maybe one day I will find a girl but until then, I don't really bother with it. Also, why would I be bitter and sad about my situation? That doesn't change shit and makes everything worse.

I'm a virgin and I am jaded and bitter, but not about my virginity. Everyone around me assumes that I am some kind of womaniser who fucks a bunch of women because I spend a lot of time in private with women, but really I just can't make friends with men anymore because they all seem like such enormous faggots with no sense of loyalty or decency.

When a woman is a stupid cunt, that's what I expect. It's a part of their character and I know how to deal with it. When a man is a stupid, pathetic, writhing worm? That's what makes me bitter and jaded. All the young men around me are either fucking morons with brains like bricks, or effeminate faggots with limp wrists who think they can get a girl by acting gay.

I am a jaded and bitter 29 year old man, but not because I am a virgin who has not been in a relationship. I decided long ago not to seek a relationship until I was reliably supporting myself and consistently maintaining an orderly home, records, and finances. I have yet to do this on an ongoing basis, so I have not attempted to enjoy the dating scene. I am jaded and bitter about my failures. I consider having the discipline to at least maintain celibacy while I'm still fucking up my life to be prudent, and one of my few successes.

>>34442925
You can't just decide not to be bitter about something that's affecting your quality of life. You don't care and that's good for you but when anxiety keeps you up at night because you're so starved for touch and connection you can't just tell yourself "hey, this isn't helping me, I'll just stop wanting what I want and be happy instead".

>>34442665
I honestly don't think it's possible to be over 20 and virgin and not be jaded and bitter. You missed out on so much of your life and teenage years that you will never get back and will never experience. I know that even by some means I managed to get a gf I still wouldn't be happy knowing that she had something I didn't. At best you become indifferent and just move along with your life, at worst depression consumes you.

I'm 26 and probably no one would think I'm a virgin. I've had guys show interest before but I didn't feel anything for them so I didn't do anything. I just go to work with a bunch of catty older women, go home, watch movies and repeat. Even if I found a guy he'd probably be weirded out if he found out I'm a virgin.

23 yo virgin, not planning on getting laid. Everyone believes im not because im somewhat good looking and good at lying. I do fap a lot but i dont think women are worth the effort. If i feel lonely i hit on a girl until she is obviously interested, then realize i dont want her and continue to enjoy being alone.

I might regret this in 20 years.

>>34443180
That's not how it works. All guys prefer virgins at whatever age.

Why so many people on r9k blame women, Tyrone, and Chad for their sexual problems?

>>34443270
Maybe you guys do. A guy in real life wouldn't want me to 'get attached' and would stop calling

>>34442665
>Virgins in their 20's
Mormons?

>>34443304
Guys don't think that way and you know it. Through all forms of media everyone well knows that male virgins gross women out and female virgins are a holy grail for men.

Being a virgin in my 20's doesn't really bother me at all.

Not having friends I can hang out with regularly is the real downer.

In high school I joked about having had sex right before school once and everyone believed me without question. That was 5 years ago.

I've thought about seeking out virgin robots but it's impossible without feeling like a stupid foolish roastie.

>>34443407
>Tfw I'm not a virgin
>Tfw how I lost my virginity is fugged up
>Tfw a Cyborg not a robot
>Tfw don't even want sex anymore
>Tfw just want someone to watch kino with and be my writing partner so we can create and get money together
>Tfw I've never had a gf that wasn't online
>Tfw I've only had one gf
>Tfw I'm mentally ill
>Tfw I'm a guy
If I cared about sex and was a virgin, I would take you up on your offer, unfortunately I'm tainted and uninterested in sex

It's weird. In some ways I'm bitter and jaded. In other ways I'm not. I'm self conscious, so I tend to confront or change negative thought patterns. Sometimes I'm not succesful, and sometimes it's a huge frustration. That's life, I guess.

>>34442970
dude u sound like an actual fag

If you're not jaded your autism is so high your no longer self aware.

>>34442665
>I work for Amazon packing boxes day in an day out, 10 hours a day with seldom breaks and a half hour lunch
>Was an awkward teenager with no attractive features
>Got into drugs in college and dropped out

I'm just trying to make money. If a woman wanted to come into my life right now, sweet. If not, well, I guess I keep slaving away to buy myself expensive bottles of wine.

One way or another we all perish in the rat race, the overall scramble for resources.

>>34443242
wew lad i do the same
im 22 tho
i don't want a realtionship but i do enjoy female attention
feels pretty good to be desired

obviously i have to lie a fuckton to achieve that

I'm 22 , a Virgin and bitter but I'm not bitter about being a Virgin. It was by choice as im female. I just hate reality to the point it drove me insane.

>>34443275

Because it's easier to blame someone else than yourself

>>34443361
The media is not real life. In real life most men that actually have sex avoid virgins as vomit mentioned is usually involved.

i'm not bitter or jaded. i was raised to be this way. in a way, the old religion prepared me for this.

it's weird to actually be able to harness religious values and use them but not really consider yourself religious.

>tfw >>34443180 will never be your gf

>>34445246
>The media is not real life.
It kinda is with hard truths like this. You're gonna need to offer more than a little anecdote to convince me otherwise when every mark of the world and personal conversation tells me the opposite of what you're peddling.

I'm 23 and not jaded and bitter

ask me anything

>>34445211
You're bitter about being foreveralone, right?

>>34443270
Wrong, anon, nobody wants a 26 y. o. virgin. Well, except some people on this board who fell for that Christian virgin gf meme.

>>34445532
Virgin hunters think that when they find a virgin girl, it's because she has been saving herself for him. And not because there is something seriously wrong with her.

>>34445074
me too anon. all of this.
pack department at RIC1

>>34442970

You might need to get to know blokes a little better. My mates are all who you might think are dumb as bricks but pull back layers and find integrity.

>>34445575
I'm not a virgin hunter, I'm a lifelong relationship seeker. The girls that I can have a lifelong relationship with are ones that have something wrong with them perhaps, but they probably aren't going to be ones that have dated or slept around in the past.

>>34445878
Why would any girl have saved herself for you? What makes you so special and better than all other men?

>>34443129
That's strange, that's exactly what I do.

>>34445962
I have more important shit to worry about then getting my dick wet.

>>34442665
That's me. I stayed virgin until age 32 when a nice female friend fucked me (I didn't start to make friends in my life until after age 30).

Basically I remember being a natural optimist as a child. Then somewhere along the line depression and anxiety came in and fucked me over from ages 14-30. I spent most of my 20's in my room and I'm not sure how I made it through that period.

After over a decade of dealing with it I sorta learned how to manage it better, so I feel that natural optimism coming back a little. It's the only reason I'm able to work on myself now in my 30's instead of putting a bullet through my brain. It does disappoint me that I started from zero life/social/career/education experience at age 30 however. But that's just the way shit goes.

>>34442665

I'm 28 y.o. virgin. I'm kind of lonely but not bitter at all. I really like people, I think they're all interesting. It's just that I can only handle them in small doses because my emotional world is really fucked up.
I actually wish I was a little more hateful.
Sometimes when I'm in isolation I think I am learning how to be really angry and hateful, but then when I go outside I just can't sustain it because I like people too much. I have a really easy sense of humor so it's hard to stay mad.

>>34443584
are you me? FML

>>34443129
Then you do indeed choose the bitterness, friendo

>>34445934
It's not about competing with other men but I feel sorry for you that you see things that way. I think people who save themselves for the person they want to stay with for the rest of their lives have better and more successful relationships. I don't have to be better than any one other man, I just have to be the person that one girl out there wants to stay with.

I'm sorry the jews gave you an inferiority complex but you're not just some guy that women either do or don't want to fuck and you don't need to be special to deserve a partner who values a good long-term relationship with you

>>34446200
Hey, you seem like a good lad. I find myself the same way. I focus on the positive and I think everyone has something interesting about them. People are likeable and good, just often ignorant.

I was beat up at home by my step dad who spent his entire time trying to find reasons to beat my ass. This conditioned me to be afraid to displease because displeasing=get my ass beat. He also spent my entire childhood telling me I'd never do anything with my life. My dad is bipolar so, when I went to live with him, it was just trading a toxic environment for another. There was constant drama between us because I sucked at school, so I dropped out at 17 and became a NEET, I turned my back on all my very few hs friends.

My mom dropped her abusive bf too and accepted that I go live with her again, she helped me remake my life as an apology for putting me through that asshole stepdad she dated. She gave me everything she could give because she regretted all that shit. This has also helped me a lot.

But there's one thing that drove me forward: The totalitarian refusal of staying where I am. My power of will is my greatest power and has always been. I will never accept to stay still and not move forward. I've done it for far too long as a NEET and have alreayd lost precious time because of it. Now, no matter the setbacks, when I want something, I get it.

I was always a failure with women and I've tried anything, the MGTOW way, the "I'm too smart for relationships" excuse, the "women are evil", I've been through every mental gymnastic possible, but I wanted to get laid. So when I had no excuse left and was forced to face my awkward ass in the mirror, I just put myself out there and it happened. I got laid with a girl I had known for a while who I didn't know had an eye on me. A shy, awkward girl like me who doesn't like to take much space and is, visibly, uncomfortable in social situations.

It just happened, I guess. I consider myself lucky that good things happen to me, though, even if I work for them, I never take things for granted.

Well I do have friends and a job while being a 23 yo virgin. Im not bitter either, just a bit sad, but who isnt nowadays?

Turned 20 just recently, have been a virgin in Australia aka normie central. My life has been turning around since 19 and recently had a "date" with this qt viet girl. I was a full on unifeels guy during 2015, but after dropping out twice and being way to self aware I realised that I don't have to give a fuck about whatever other people think of you. I stopped carefully measuring the words that came out of my mouth and along with that came great friendships. Studying again at a technical college and having lots of plans. Next year will be my first trip overseas by myself and I believe this is the year I am going to get laid.

I am by no means bitter and jaded as I still have hope and managed to change my mindset at the right time.

People like me people hate me but I don't give a fuck.

All the best to the others. I will always take away what I have learned from you guys.

>out there are sad and lonely people and all they want is a friend, I am here to be that friend

Hey I know that actress.
She's in WP right?

>>34442665
There's no point of being butthurt about it. Virginity doesn't define your life. It seems to be because modern culture has made it so sex seems more important than getting a successful career.

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>>34443270
Not true. My one female friend was broken up with when she said she was a virgin, "Not worth the effort" he said.

The guy was a douche though, desu.

>>34442665

Im almost 30 but I sure as hell am a bitter bastard lol.

Who the fuck feels good with himself for living in a house arrest regime (apart from the occasional college appearance which is basically the same as being mass processed)?

No soft skills whatsoever. Im kinda fucked, but life goes on.

I'm 25 and a virgin (KHHV) and I think people think I am jaded or bitter but I disagree. I just don't care about anything. As a kid I was never massively into anything and that hasn't changed the older I've gotten. At the age when everyone was losing their virginity I wasn't even thinking about it, or really anything. People sometimes ask if there is a reason I am this way but I haven't bothered to think about it.

The only things I do are work, chill and just exist, nothing really matters and there's no point getting worked up over things. It's quite nice desu, means I'm never discontent with anything in my life.

>>34443275
>Why so many people on r9k blame women
Robots actually blame feminism and the sexual revolution more often than not
>Tyrone, and Chad
The concept of Chad and Tyrone go hand in hand with the sexual revolution and the 80/20 rule. Quit projecting, loser.

>>34446851
Ok in that case he should just blow his brains out.

>>34447126

The same argument could be used in reverse.

It takes a special kind of hedonist to constantly believe your life is a constant string of unfortunate event.

It's a mix of both. There are things out of your control, there are things that are. What annoys me about many robots is that they are so deep in their victim complex that it is impossible to show them that there are things they CAN control. Everything has to fit their narrative that life is that horrible experience that you're either lucky enough to get a good hand or you are forever fated to be miserable. It's all about being a special snowflake victim who has it worse than everyone else and no matter what particle of success you experience it's all luck and being born fortunate. It's hedonism. It disgust me.

I pulled myself out of an extremely deep hole and I know some are deeper and I'm aware I have taken opportunities that have come my way out of luck, but I worked hard to pull myself out.

I know not everyone can pull themselves out, but I encourage people to ask themselves a question.

How deep ARE you actually? Are you as deep as you percei e? Is it that impossible to pull yourself out if only an inch?

I can believe some are realky fucking deep, but I don't believe it's impossible to pull yourself out unless you are really disformed, in a wheelchair with no genitals and alk possible dissabilities.

I wouldnt be so bitter if we didnt live in hypersexualized times and kids ten year younger than me are having regular sex

>>34442665

20 y/o virgin here, not bitter and jaded at all.

I'm in uni (law school) and doing pretty good so far, never failed an exam so far and I'm in my 3rd year now.

Got lots of friend and stable social life. My (non-virgin) friends often say shit like "how come you're still a virgin yet? Isn't it about time you lose you V-card? You're 20 y/o ffs, when are you finally going to get a gf?". I usually ignore their bullcrap. I learned not to care anymore about what other people think about me being virgin.

>>34442665
I am a non-bitter virgin. I'm currently working on a master in computer science and I'm doing pretty ok. I have zero friends and I think that's the reason why I'm doing well. I noticed a strong correlation between the amount of social interactions I have increasing and my grades worsening.
I also tend to stay far away from /r9k/ nowadays. I almost entirely replaced 4chan with hackernews and lobste.rs and I think it helped me feel better.
I still come here from time to time when I'm bored.

>>34445351

>The media is not real life.

Have you seen Wedding Crashers? Vince Vaughn's character, the perfect 6'4" Chad, gets grossed out when the girl he had sex with on the beach tells him it was her first time. When it is later revealed that she just says that to make betas feel good after she uses them and is really into kinky sex he gets all turned on.

The media is there, the problem is that you don't watch mainstream romcoms.

>>34442665
I almost qualify because I'm in my early 20's and it's been 6 years since I had sex. I just decided to be single for a while after losing the woman I loved for various reasons, none of which included hating women. I want to be strong enough to weather any storm, to handle anything the universe might throw at me with equanimity. I think I've made a lot of progress in these past six years, and I think I know what to do with my life and I think if I just get my shit together, I'll meet a cute girl and things will go from there.

>>34447664
Statistics show that kids are actually having less sex. They're turning to porn too and getting insecure too. Teens have always traditionally been horny as hell and had tons of sex, it's just kind of what they do naturally, but they're doing it less and less these days on average, it just seems like they're doing it so much more because of the internet's ability to cherrypick and misrepresent data.

>>34442665
>m
>27
unemployed for 3years. most of the time it feels good but i have some depressing days. i talk on skype to best friend. torrent latest games play ps4/wiiu. watch movies and some good animes like NGE. i started playing magic. i played a lot of league and now csgo is my 3h a day game. i also played a lot of mmos.(tera BnS wow). but now im thinking i have to change something. it cant go on like this

>>34442970
how to deal with a bitchy women?

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Jokes on them I was already bitter about life in general by the time I was 11.

I don't even care at this point because I don't lack the self-awareness to why I am a virgin. I'm a manchild NEET and at no time in history have women ever had the intention of being attracted to me or someone similar to me.

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>>34442665
I will be 21 in 5 months and its now starting to feel bitter/ full of hate.