How do you avoid feeling love for someone?
>Bonus points: How to only care about certain things
Protip: don't
Follow your heart, have it get crushed, repeat process until someone decides to not crush it, carry on happily with them. Easy.
>>34433539
Years of emotional neglect and abuse through your early childhood.
>>34433592
But I already did that.
>>34433581
>Easy
That's what I'm doing though, and my heart is getting harder to repair.
>want to kill myself a whole lot less when I am falling in love with someone, regardless of whether it's unrequited or will end in pain
in a way it's kinda worth it - gives me hope for a little while. still has yet to end well for me, though, no gf no kissing no sex just rejection. but hey!
>>34433592
Not true
Didnt work in my case
Love everyone unconditionally. That way it doesn't hurtso much.
>>34433611
(Easy was a joke, this is one of life's hardest kicks in the balls. I know it's tough and I know how it gets tougher each timr, especially since we're not getting any younger. But statistics are on your side homie, keep charging forward as if you didn't know any better. It's the only way to make it. I'm sorry if this sounds like normie advice, but this is one thing they're correct about)
>they said getting /fit/ would help with girls
>they said getting /fit/ wouldn't have me depressed again
>>34433777
are you /fit/? Mirin?
>>34433777
Getting fit doesn't make you better at communicating.
Getting fit won't be the entirety of your happiness (but it does get endorphins going off which can help depression)
>>34433539
I...I'd like to feel love . I'm just so cold and sad that I take drugs to have this feelings even for a bit