okay, now, how do I find a mommy gf or a gentle femdom gf?

>>34408002
You don't, this fetish goes against female nature.
Fix your self-steem issues and maybe then you get rid of it.

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>>34408002
You will not find this. Such relationships appear exclusively in fantasy. No real woman would accept a man that is anything other than an alpha for sex or a beta for money.

I want it too but this is the truth

>>34408031

Before she dumped me, and especially when we first met, my gf worshipped me and did EVERYTHING I said, probably because of her insane self esteem issues. It was amazing. Gradually I developed this fetish, and she, wanting to make me happy, took me up on trying it out.

It eventually made her disillusioned with me and she grew to view me as a disgusting pervert and ended up leaving me for the first chad she met in grad school.

It's simply not possible to live this fetish out dude. Sorry.

>>34408079
This, she will get disgusted with your submissiveness when she's ovulating and thirsty for chad's seed.

>>34408079
>>34408098

And in fact, what makes it even worse was she was originally a cute, sweet, trad grill who wanted me to be the only man she slept with, and eventually wanted to be a qt housewife. So I live with the knowledge that not only did I fuck up a REALLY good thing I had going, but I corrupted her and turned her into yet another future roastie.

>>34408187
Eh, a lot of women are good at seemlying like they want to be with you forever, till they go to grad school and move on. It likely wound have happened, no matter what, just for a different reason.
>>34408002
Scuase? So hard to find good flavor of this fetish brand

>>34408043
what chinaman comic is this?

Like other posters already mentioned, femdom is purely fictional, acted-out fetish. It doesn't exist and happen naturally. Women, even "strong, independent" ones are submissive. The stronger the woman is the stronger, more dominant man she wants, but she'll never dom you.

Some women do it for money, other like some roleplay with their Chad bf's, but he's always in control. It's called topping from the bottom or something, look it up. It's just playing. But it doesn't happen naturally.

The only scenario I can think of is maybe a female pedophile abusing a young (pre-puberty) boy, but there'd be nothing gentle about it.

Also, men with this fetish are infantile. What you want is a woman to come and replace your mother. You're afraid of life, responsibility etc. You still want a mother figure to take care of you, but now you want sex too.

This is one of the wierdest and most tragic fetishes. Tragic because it's impossible to fulfill naturally. You may pay a woman to dom you, but you know that she's just faking and her "bitchy boss" attitude is just an act, in her private life she's still submissive to some alpha man who chokes her and fucks her like a piece of meat.

>>34408079
>it didn't work for me, that means it won't work for anyone. ever.

Kill yourself, you self-centered retard.

>>34408079
pro tip: she would have left you anyway. Keep blaming your shitty fetishes in the meantime to feel better.

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>>34408002
you basically have to get lucky with finding someone, and that search starts with finding anyone

>>34409559
>It doesn't exist and happen naturally

You're an idiot. Scat happens naturally? There are people into that, men and women. You're just a retard that grew up on the internet thinking he knows shit about anything. Just shut the fuck up.

>>34409777
femdom is different because it's supposed to be psychological not just physical. as I said, you can get physical femdom, but NEVER psychological one. there are NONE naturally dominant women. you could take the most dominant, bitchy, powerful, feminazi woman on the planet and she'd turn into a submissive fuckslave kitten if a right alpha male came along. it's their nature.

you can torture a bear to ride a bicycle in circus, but he'll never naturally want it, enjoy it or do it of his own

in fact most "dominant females" do it for male attention, which by itself is sign of submission. just like plenty of "bisexual" girls who kiss other girls at parties only do it because Chad's think it's hot.

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>>34409559
>Like other posters already mentioned, femdom is purely fictional, acted-out fetish. It doesn't exist and happen naturally. Women, even "strong, independent" ones are submissive.

You are very, very correct. There is no "true" femdom unless the woman is messed up in some way (hormones out of balance and shit).

>The stronger the woman is the stronger, more dominant man she wants, but she'll never dom you.

Yep, even the "dominant" women become pussy cats if man is alpha enough. Women want a strong man to submit to.

> You still want a mother figure to take care of you, but now you want sex too.

Fuck, this makes so much sense. So this is why throughout my teens and early twenties I fantasised about Fujin from FF8 overpowering me physically and making me her slave.

>This is one of the wierdest and most tragic fetishes. Tragic because it's impossible to fulfill naturally. You may pay a woman to dom you, but you know that she's just faking and her "bitchy boss" attitude is just an act, in her private life she's still submissive to some alpha man who chokes her and fucks her like a piece of meat.

Yep. I lost this fetish one I actually got into a relationship and realised I have the body of a dominant as fuck alpha male and can in no way submit. I once hinted to my exgf for her to "play with me" which might have sounded a bit like I would be submitting to her and she said something like "I'm your toy, you should be playing with me". Women love to be fuck holes and toys for sexy hunks I tell you that. Eventually I left her because she had no tits and bad physique.

I mean it's never going to happen in that exact way but it depends on what you want. I basically have this but most people would call me a cuck but I am happy. I've lived with this girl who's my best friend for like 3 years. It's always been an open deal where she can fuck any guy she wants and it doesn't bother me. But she basically treats me like her child, I have rules, bedtimes, ask permission for things. There's punishments for punishment and also sometimes for pleasure but we never have full on sex. She has found this guy she says she is really in love with but she told him the first night the deal with me and her and if he's not cool with that not to get involved and he's cool with it. We've talked about her adopting me even though she's only 5 years older but the state we live in luckily allows it so we will probably do it this year.

>>34410774
How far does she go with pleasure? Will she use toys on you? Verbal dom?

>>34408043
Senpai my gf gently dominates me all the time. Quit dealing in absolutes

>>34411027
Well it depends on how you look at it. I find the spankings and paddlings and such to be quite pleasurable when that is the intent. We also have a flogger and riding crop. Sometimes the punishments are not for pleasure and that can be painful or embarrassing. As far as other physical contact there is cuddling and sometimes kissing. I sometimes have touched her butt or breasts or rub her feet but never more Than that as far as that goes. Other than punishment toys we have experimented with a chastity belt but it long term wear is uncomfortable for me. No toys on me, I orgasm from masturbating when I have her permission. As far as verbal most of the time she talks to me like a submissive or child. Tells me to do things like she would her other real children like chires and things but when it comes to serious or even life changing decisions we talk more adult to adult and she values my opinion. We own a house together.

>>34409699

Is this taken from a doujin?

>>34408031
You must be joking.

Being motherly and nurturing is literally the female instinct. When I love something I want to take care of it.

I always want to keep my bf safe, happy, well fed, and comforted. I know I can guide and support him and being a "mommy" type gf really plays into these natural desires.

It also fills a need to take care of someone and breast feed them without having to have kids.

The same passion I have for taking care of animals plays into the feelings I have for my bf. Anything that makes him sad I want to wipe away. I would do anything for him but taking care of him is good enough.

>>34408043
>>34408002

Don't listen, just keep looking. I firmly believe that there's so many people in the world that there's got to be someone of the opposite sex for just about everyone out there, you just have to find them.

I think I might've found mine so wish me luck lads.

>>34408002
i have me a qt trap mommydomme and shit is hella cash fampai
check somewhere like /D/ or /ACO/ in the ABDL threads you're likely to find someone.

>>34411218
It really does sound great but honestly I dont think this kind of relationship is stable or even safe long term. Eventually there will be resentment and just like a spoiled child you might end up physically attacking your friend, or worse. Its kind of like when people raise chimps and spoil them and let them grow fat and happy and one day they forget to give it a candy bar and the pent up aggression just lets itself out and its biting off faces.

>>34408079
My baby and on off GF of two years would care to disagree. If you see a cute girl, don't be afraid to share your fetishes, you weren't going to be in a happy relationship if you can't be honest with her anyway. I mean, I did and now I have an adorably baby girl.

>>34412281
Lesbian mommy kink is a patrician tier fetish anon.

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Loving 2D is the only way you will find true love and happiness, and if you desire, a relationship like this

>>34409537
If only I knew
>>34411189
Internet, lies, etc.
>>34411940
Stop trying to give people false hope
>>34412281
>baby girl
>b-but she dominates me I swear

>>34408002
I-I wanna be talked to like this...

>>34412558
>implying 2D is better than having a real mommy taking care of you
>implying waifu's are better than never having to worry about anything and just pleasing mommy
lmao you're retarded

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>tfw she will never hold you and tell you it's gonna be alright and that you're safe with her
>tfw she will never tell you what a good little boy you are

suffering

>>34412730
you can find someone anon, i believe in you!!!!

>>34412749
Y-You really think so? Going out and looking for people is hard and scary, which is part of the reason I need a mommy in the first place, but if I don't look then she'll never find me...

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>>34408002
Just take the 2D pill, OP.

>2D women can be older and stronger than you, yet cuddly and soft
>2D women won't belittle you for wanting to be submissive, and in fact will find it attractive
>you'll never have to worry about getting NTR'd by a more masculine man (unless your imagination allows you)

>>34412794
hentai boards, try and find mommy/abdl threads and talk to people, i'm sure you'll find someone for you!

>>34412828
That's what I've been doing since I was young, but it's so hard not getting a response, anon. I don't know if my brain is just getting numb to my fantasies or my imagination is getting worse as I get older but I just haven't been able to visualize things in my head as well lately. I can't hear their voices as clearly, and I don't get the feeling that they're actually there as strongly. What do I do?

>>34412856
I guess I could try that...! Thanks anon!

>>34412919
i wish you good luck!!!!
oregano

What would having a mommy gf be like?

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What type of person wants someone to take care of everything for them?

>>34413084
its amazing!!! basically if you can find a good mommy she'll take care of you and be like hella caring for you and protect and help keep you safe, and also do lewd stuff if thats what you're into :P

>>34412856
How do you even "talk" to people in those threads? It seems like people just enjoy posting porn and shitposting about some drama garbage on occasion
I also very highly doubt I'll be as lucky

>>34413149
do you have a mommy gf? Do you have any stories?

>>34413176
i mean i doubt it would hurt to try and strike up some conversation, try and see what happens.

>>34413147
Me. Being an adult is hard and I hate it, I don't think I was ever cut out for being an adult. My body keeps getting older when I don't feel old and I hate that too. I just want to play video games and be happy and loved and learn how to be cute

>>34413147
I don't want a mommy gf, but I do want someone to take the lead. I'm tired of having to be the man and doing the chasing. I just want to be cute and desirable and be lusted after.

>>34413205
yep i do!! me and my mommy been at it for i thiiiink 5 months. i'm not to sure we have many stories beyond us just hanging out and doing ABDL stuff or sex, like we went out once to build-a-bear and got plushies but thats like the most interesting thing, she's hella nice and caring and takes care of me like always and treats me well, so long as i'm a good girl obvs.

>>34413229
but would potential mommygfs even actively post or even look for a potential partner online? I mean they have their pick of the litter.
How the hell did you do it? Just posted on /d/ or something and then started talking out of the blue?
>girl
Oh, that makes more sense. If you're a girl (male) or just a regular girl then your chances are probably way higher

>>34413245
I'm a mommy gf and even then I express this sentiment, my life goals are currently get enough money to get a place for me and my gf and then go hikikomori together.

>>34413310
What is ABDL stuff like? I haven't gotten much into it, but I'm interested.

>Tfw complete opposite of you guys
>Tfw submissive-eager to please me-took her virginity-gf
>tfw can legally tie her up, gag her, blindfold her, call her nasty things and tease her for hours

>>34413353
it's great!! a little weird at times when you feel a little more self aware but just, letting go and going with it is probably the most fun and comforting times i have these days (esp with mommy) diapers can be a bitch though, comfy as fuck though, but unf im incontinent now so im kinda stuck with them, onesies and pacifiers are hella comfy tho,

>>34413353
diapers, baby things, cuddling, breast/bottlefeeding, depends on how into it the person is
also spankings and humiliation on the flipside of that, but that's a tertiary aspect of it
for the caregiver side it's the control, the feeling of taking care of a completely vulnerable person willingly, lots of hugs and looking at your little being adorable

the big thing is diapers, both as a sexual fetish object and an object of emotional comfort

>>34413390
>tfw your mommy gf will never take your virginity

D-Does she like it when you do those things to her?

>tfw reading this thread makes my heart hurt with desire
I want to be babied and hugged and be told I'm good sometimes, it wouldn't even be a sexual thing for me since the idea of that seems weird when I'm being a babby

>>34408002
Femdoms exist- I've met them-although that was lesbians (best sex of my life)
Not sure about mummy gfs though.

>>34413445
Yeah. She calls me daddy (her idea not mine) which kind of weirds me out a bit because my mum to this day calls my dad "daddy" because she started calling him that when we were kids so we would stop calling him by his name.

Its weird because she complains about how her real father makes her do "women's work" cooking and cleaning etc but then she does those things for me for free.

Just ordered a spanker whip thing that are meant to be used on horses because she wanted one.

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>>34413415
>>34413439
That sounds nice...I might feel a little guilty for letting someone take care of me like that, but being able to let go and be vulnerable in front of someone I trust and feel safe with sounds really great. I don't know about actually using the diapers, but just having them on sounds pretty comfy. I know I'd be too shy and embarrassed to ask about it first, so maybe if I find a mommy gf she'll know more about it and try to ease me into it...

>>34413558
You mean a riding crop? I'm sure they're fun but I've only used one, never had it used on me.

>>34413575
dont feel guilty for what you enjoy anon, you are doing nothing wrong, hell if you find the right person they'll love having you like that, i know my mommy loves me being her baby.

>tfw have an assignment due by midnight and I keep putting it off
>tfw no mommy gf to take those things away and tell me just to relax and that it's all going to be okay and that I didn't have to worry about those things anymore

>>34413612
Th-Thanks anon, that makes me feel a little better...I hope I do find someone like that one day.

>>34413575
>>34413787
Trust me, mommies love to feel loved. Just express your gratitude and love and that's all that a mommy needs.

What is your ideal mommy gf like?

>>34414226
the one i have right now is basically my ideal mommy desu
cute, caring, nice,overprotective, dominant in a mistress/owner way sometimes(a lot of the time really) and has similar tastes(maybe worse tastes in vidya ngl) and in general just really good at being a mommy!

im curious for the mommys browsing, whats your ideal partner/baby like?

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>tfw you had a tall tomboy gf that made you sit in her lap

>>34414467
How did it make you feel when she made you do that, anon?

>>34414448
Possessive and encouraging of me being possessive, can hold an interesting conversation when not in littlespace, supportive and understanding when I'm feeling down, waits for me when I'm busy. As fun as it is having a baby, it's pretty exhaustive being a mother constantly and I'd like to be able to see eachother as mutuals at least a few hours a day. Generally I'd like them to be good, I don't care much for giving punishments, though once in a while is okay.

I hate Oscar.

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>>34414484
It was a little bit humiliating because she'd always tease me about popping a boner and the fact that she was alot taller than me.

>tfw no mommy gf to hug me and let me bury my face in her shoulder like in OP's picture when I'm hot and bothered and don't know what to do with myself before she lays me down and takes care of me

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>>34409537
>>34408043
Boku No Mendoukusai Ojousama | My Troublesome Lady


Please thank me, I need the social interaction since I'm very lonely

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>tfw ugly
>looks are a huge part of gfd (cute, small, boys)
>even if I met a girl into this she would never want to touch me

>2017
>people still not being part of the mommy domme masterace

>>34408043
>tfw even this beta of a man ends up fucking the stacy at the end
>tfw I have yet to hold hands/kiss a girl

>Sometimes when I think about having a mommy gf a weird feeling runs through my chest and arms
>It's sort of tingly and makes me feel a little weak in those places but it also feels kinda comfy and nice

What does it mean?

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>>34412695
>implying this perfect mother figure exists outside of animus

>>34415721
it means you belong with a mommy silly!

>>34415833
Th-That gave me the feeling again...maybe you're right!

>>34408043
This comic is cuck shit. If you only turn to 2D out of desperation because you can't get a real GF then you can't really say you love 2D. For real men there is no other choice.

>>34416021
ur a cuck shit

>Been looking for things to make me feel little
>Used to play Minecraft A lot when I was younger
>Decide to play again

I feel ashamed

I'm sorry

>>34411902
Post more things like this it's very heartwarming senpai

>>34414939
Thanks anon, can't wait to read :)

Women dont know what being dominant is
If you ask a women to act dominant she will just be mean

>>34416552
And male dominance isn't mean?

>>34414639
As a little who has big feelings somewhat often (I guess I'm a switch?) I pretty much feel the same way about having/being a little and your post hit a lot of things on the head for me.
It's probably asking for too much, but I'd like to be loved as a person while being indulged in being little, and really just spending time as mutuals like you said, doing normal couples things, cuddling, and having nice conversations.
For being supportive and understanding, I really like the idea of a mommy needing some baby time herself, because even thinking about being a caregiver all the time is exhausting and I love the idea of just taking care of/comforting her or waiting like a good boy (also because role reversal is amazing). Mommies need to be comforted too and break times are pretty important I feel.
Being able to spend time with each other both inside and outside the dynamic is my ideal relationship, but I'd most likely have to have concessions on one end, because reality isn't as kind.

>>34416743
Male switch here. I hate mean dominance and prefer it to be gentle. You know, like gentle femdom. I think women generally like gentle maledom the same way.

>>34411902
That female instinct is for children, not for the partner. If you want to make your partner your child, there's something wrong with you.

Not that I mind, because I'd like to have a girlfriend like you, but hey, don't go around telling people it's normal. As long as I don't know you personally, I can tell you I'm not normal and neither are you.

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>>34416839
It's the best when both partners can let themselves be kids with each other, so to speak.
Both with taking care of each other, and just acting silly together.
I believe everyone has their inner child side to them, And being able to let it out with someone is a sign of major trust and compatibility in relationship.

>Mommies need to be comforted too and break times are pretty important I feel.

Truth.
Doesn't even have to be sexual.

I'm a mommy type gf (even though my qt doesn't call me mommy which is a shame but I can live with that) and I like to be in charge sexually.
It still felt pretty nice when recently I was sick and too tired and didn't even have any strength to take a simple shower, and my qt just sat me down in the bathtub and washed me completely like a little child.
Sometimes where are moments when even taking care of yourself is exhausting, And having someone do that for you is priceless.

>friend landed himself a mommy gf a few years back
>what looked like a mommy gf at least
>cuddly, caring, sweet talking, always with him
>few years passed
>"cuddly" turned out to be "possessive"
>"always with him" turned out to be "shutting out his friends and family"
>"caring" turned out to be "knowing better what's good for him"
>she gets physically abusive at times
Watch out anons, when you think you struck gold, you might actually have encountered a real life yandere. Do you, with your submissive nature, think you'll be able to dump her after some years have passed? My friend isn't. So you better think thrice before commitment.

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>>34417435
I'm not, I know I wouldn't be. I know I should stick with 2D but I need a mommy with me to make everything better so bad anon I don't know what to do

>>34417392
I wanna be held just like that

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>>34417435
>irl yandere

Does she have any sisters?

What went wrong? Why am I like this?

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>>34417435
Do you have any advice on how to find an irl yandere? It would be a fucking dream come true for a girl to completely takeover my life.

>>34417435
you act like thats a warning but its really just giving more incentive.

>>34417643
She found him as far as I know. And it certainly doesn't seem like a dream come true from the outside, but hell, who knows, maybe the guy himself is happy, it's hard to tell.

>>34414939
A great read. Love you ~<3

>>34417732
Do you know the details of how they met, and got innitiated in this type of relationship?

Goodnight mommy...

>>34414939
Thank you very much anon. I hope more people talk to you.

>>34417812
They worked at the same place for a year or two, and one day I was told he has a girlfriend now (I'm pretty sure he was a KHV until that point). He's not the kind of guy who'd go around bragging about his life and I never really asked myself either so I can't tell you the details.

He wasn't tall, like 5'9 maybe, and he had a strongfat body at the time, maybe that helped?

>>34414939
Nice doujin, thanks for providing the sauce anon.

Not even looking for a mommy gf or anything, just a gf I can treat as an equal. 5'11 studying engineering any my only real hobbies are cooking and weightlifting so my last two ex's were expecting me to take the lead pretty much all the time. I want to relax too sometimes.

>>34413147
is your image from SONICHU?

>>34417392
>It's the best when both partners can let themselves be kids with each other, so to speak.
Both with taking care of each other, and just acting silly together.

Yeah, I agree with that. It's no fun when 1 person is doing 1 thing all the time, variety is the spice of life after all.

The bathtub story was really cute, hopefully I can find someone who babies me and whom I can baby sometimes too.

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>>34408002
I have a mommy gf, we met in a /gfd/ thread and now we're married. So I guess I actually have a mommy wife. I'm cuddling up with her right now under a nice heated blanket since it's kinda cold in our apartment.

She's completely perfect for me and I think we're perfect for each other. We both take extra good care of one another, she even took me out for steaks the other day.

How do I get into littlespace? Is it harder to do alone?

>>34418630
Got any cute stories, anon?

>>34418738
uhh, hrm. I guess I have one cuteish one that happened recently (not really mommy related though).

we got a bunch of ice rain and we had to go out to my class (she was coming with me) so I had to clean all the ice off of the car. She was inside the car while i was scraping the windshield. I had to scrape the side windows but i hadn't gotten to it. The heat was warming up inside the car so the ice sheets started to separate from the window and she was able to roll her window down and the whole ice sheet stayed in place like a second window. I was still scraping the window when she did it so i had no idea, she started calling for me inside the car but i couldnt hear her so i had to open the drivers side door and when I did it made the whole sheet of ice collapse in her seat and lap. I felt really bad at first and tried to help get the ice out and then we both laughed about it a whole bunch. I dunno, that's just one thing that happened recently.

she comes to classes with me a lot and stays up late to help me with homework and studying, she even came to one of my senior presentations and sat in the audience so i could focus on her and not get nervous, she does a lot of really nice things for me

>>34418961
How about some lewd stories?

>>34419404
Every day for us is pretty lewd, we do something sexual every night at the very least. My favorite are when she sits on my face for sure, she likes to sit on it and play with/suck on my cock and watch me squirm. The best part is when she grinds her hips harder onto me and I can't even breathe. It makes me very hard, very quick.