I'm 23 yo neet living with single Mother. I have gone for

>>34404577
Get a job and move out
>emotional resources
No wonder your dad left

>>34404610
I'm getting a job but movin out won't be an option for a few years. I mean I can hold my temper well with everyone except her and to avoid fights I take a step back because there's no way to communicate

>>34404629
>but movin out won't be an option for a few years.
It doesnt take years to find a shitty apartment.

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why do women have kids they are incapable of loving, raising and caring for? I really wish they'd stop doing that.

>>34404654
It does in Singapore where rent is crazy expensive cos there's no land. The majority of kids stay in the family home till marriage or beyond

>>34404654
And anyway I want to fix this or find a way to co exist instead of estrangement

Try to rent an apt. with roomies or something like that.
Are you going for minimun wage or a job related to your grade?
I lived this shit with my mom too and it will just get worse with the years.

women are not the loving gender anon its a meme

>calls me a coward if I leave the house to avoid an altercation
i'll never understand why women get pissy about de-escalationtactics like this. its almost as though they want to be beaten.

>>34404779
I'm gonna be teaching and working at an ad agency. Good idea I'll try to gather what few friends I have lol

>>34404852
I feel it must be a combination of me growing up and her life conditions getting shit and mistakes on both our parts that have made it what it is now. The only difference is I'm trying to make things easier short of kowtowing and it seems she takes it as a license to vent all frustrations on me. Even my Sister will call me after being complained to by my Mother to rebuke me until I elucidate to her the true extent of each situation. My Mother is a bully and a martyr

>>34404914
I wish you the best in this sempai. If you manage to work but live in a shity enviorment it will just hindrance your perfomance at your job making it risky to maintain it.
Try to open a bank acount to save for your own house or flat, many banks have special acounts just for that.

>pushes me when angry
>calls me a coward if I leave the house to avoid an altercation

I had the same kind of mom anon. It is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT that you don't loose your cool and get yourself in jail. #1 priority is getting the hell away from her. You can't live with someone who's going to treat you like that. Go be homeless if you have to. If she gets her act together in a few years, then maybe start being family again, but until then you've gotta get out.

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>>34404673
Women are incapable of loving anything but themselves. Their lives are literally so empty that they result to taking it out on their own kin / loved ones.

If they don't want a child, they'll mindlessly murder the one growing inside of them. Ask yourself: would a loving person be capable of either of these things?

Women need to be categorized as creatures instead of human.

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>>34404673
I really wish my mother hadn't done just that

>>34405054
>>34404852
I don't agree and it wouldn't help the situation to believe this but thx

your mom has narcissistic personality disorder

it's common among boomers. move out or grow a spine/thicker hide to adapt to her lunacy.

>>34405040
There are no homeless in Singapore and the ones that are are taken to prison

>>34405096
I think so too. I'm dread going home Everyday and spend a lot of time outside. But I look at my girlfriends families and think that's how it should be. It's just difficult to deal with her Rage at the slightest provocation. I think it might be a response to my own past anger but not for a while now

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>>34404903
Women don't know how to de escalate, their brains just done work that way and they literally can't comprehend how to roll back a bad situation.

Once the situation happens a woman will not be satisfied until there's a cataclysm and it is because they're the most entitled pieces of shit on this earth who can't comprehend why someone doesn't want to interact with them.

>>34404577
God damn the Ufc dude is ugly

>>34405097
Why don't you leave your fucking totalitarian shithole and move to Malaysia?

>>34405352
Chinese are niggers in Malaysia and anyway we are enemies I would need a job or investment first

I imagined a white trash mom until you mentioned singapore. Unhinged tiger moms sound terrible. Maybe apply for study abroad or get a scholarship that will pay for a small apt or a dorm room? I actually might move to sg next month for a new job.