>tfw you think you're really good friends with someone
>tfw you get tossed aside for no reason
T-they're just really comfortable our friendship right? W-we don't need to talk every day to know we're friends, right?
>>34325889
Yeah, I've experienced that. You're friendship is over, OP. If they blatantly ignore you for almost week it's time to move and find someone else to chum with. Sorry, dude. Good luck.
>>34325889
honestly unless they straight up lied to you about being busy when you offered to hang out, you're being retarded about this.
I have friends that I would kill somebody for and we don't hang out everyday, hell sometimes we don't even talk for days. You generally stop talking/hanging out with friends everyday once you get out of highschool (unless you roomie up with them)
Understand that you don't need to spend every waking moment with someone in order to be best friend/close with them.
Have a wallpaper since I have few/no meme faces b/c new pc.
>>34325889
I will be your friend and not toss you aside, I promise.
why don't you just ask them? Just say you're being paranoid and could appreciate knowing if you're annoying them or something, no big deal.
all good OP, I was best mates with a kid for 12 years which I is a good portion of time especially at my age (I'm 19 btw). Introduced him to another mate who was selling retro gaming stuff which he was collecting at the time. Basically never talk anymore, they go out to bars, clubs, have chill seshs, go camping with gf and other mates from the friendship group who I also indroduced each other too etc. All happened in the span of 10 months. 12 years of mateship out shadowed in 10 months just because they we're both interested in retro games. Feels good man
welcome to my life, OP.
>>34326420
At least you have friends to toss you aside. Haven't had one in over a decade
>>34326088
Lies. You're a liar just like everyone else on this board.
>>34326494
You mean online or IRL?
Because all my so-called friends IRL tossed me aside over a decade ago too.
The online ones dump me off as soon as they can.
My best friend and I can go a few weeks without talking to each other only to pick up a week long texting conversation about something stupid like a video game or the like
>tfw when no friends that like the same things you do
>tfw will never find anyone that does
>>34326525
Never made any online. Had one "friend" in high school who went away to college and that was that
>>34325889
I couldn't imagine talking to my friends everyday. I need some time to recharge
>>34326524
I'm not a liar I'm willing to dedicate every day to talk to you I'm a NEET with no friends.
>>34326811
>>34326524
That wasn't me. Funny. I'm not a NEET either. I have two (online) friends too.
I was not lying though. Assuming we get along I don't see why I should just toss you away.
>>34326558
just because i'm using the word "friends" for the online folks doesn't mean it's accurate if they'd just toss me away so easily
>>34325889
Invest time in your friendship and stop running away from them. Message them once in a while too.
One sided friendship is sad and really draining for nothing.
>>34326878
Yeah. Shit's pretty fucked up
tfw everyone you ever talk to, stops talking to you after a few days
h-heh i idc
>>34325889
This is one of the most aggravating things a human can do to another human. I know because I've been on the recieving end of it multiple times. I don't even bother to say "hey what gives" anymore, I just accepted people are very selfish and do not care as long as they get their way. That's why when in the future when they need me, I won't be there to answer their messages because what goes around comes around.
I really wish people would be decent though.
In high school one of my "friends" said I was like a replacement friend for when their other friends weren't around. Accurately describes every group of friends I've had since really. I'm always the guy walking behind when there's only space for two abreast.
The worst thing about being fucked in the head socially is the awareness that its permanent. Everything is infinitely worse when you know it'll never get better. Yet I still have some hope I guess since I haven't killed myself yet.
>>34326994
>replacement friend for when their other friends weren't around.
lmao that's what I was in high school too