Hi guys. I don't really post here often, but I need some advice. I'm on holiday right now with my wife in Poland and we're having a great time. The problem is that she told me once we go back that she wants us to adopt a baby, ideally one that is diverse (she actually said this). We've been together for over 7 years now and I always assumed that we will have at least one, but she told me that she doesn't want to go through childbirth. I wouldn't mind adopting if I couldn't have kids, but we haven't even tried. Also, I don't really want to adopt a "diverse" baby.
So, what should I do? I really like being with her but I think what she wants is simply too much. Do you think she will let me change her mind?
>>34304940
>I'm on holiday
It's called vacation you massive faggot
Also fuck off normie
>>34304972
Across the pond we call it holiday, sorry for offending you... not. Either pipe up some good advice or keep your cock gobbler shut.
have a surrogate mother if you can't afford that then you can't afford a chilf in the first place.
>>34304991
What the fuck are you even doing here? No one cares about your relationship bullshit.
From 1970 to 2017, the US population more than doubled and you want to create more mouths. You and everyone else.
>>34304940
don't you think your wife would find you not wanting to be cucked by a little chink a bit offensive?
>>34305025
oh shit, when i first saw this i assumed i was on /pol/
> ahem
yeah op why the FUKC would you post here cosnidering there's literally a social board?
>>34304940
Wow. She's literally telling you that she would rather raise another man's child than yours. She does not want a baby with your genetics. That's kind of low for her.
>>34304940
You need to be the man and put your foot down. It's already a huge compromise to accept raising an adopted child merely because she doesn't want to go through childbirth (btw the pain of childbirth is blown out of proportion, my 110 lb sister told me it was only a 7/10 on her pain scale), but asking for it to be of a different race is simply too much. Tell her that it needs to be white, and maybe even push for a surrogate mother so that the son is at least yours.
>>34305042
>create more mouths
He specifically said adopt, if you want to discuss the merits of actually creating children make another thread.
>>34304940
>you want your wife to at least try going through a tediuos and stressful medical procedure instead of adopting
>this is the person you're supposed to love till death
kek
how self absorbed can one normie be?
literally but muh genetics tierfuck off and post your b8 elsewhere