who /never even tried/ here? KHV and I've never asked out

>>34301132
Same here. I just never saw the point. I don't even know if I'd be rejected or whatever, I just don't want a gf.

I asked a girl to prom once

she said

>>34301231
wtf cliffhanger

Yeah that's me. I've never asked out a girl or even shown any interest in them. I don't even really look at women, anytime they're nearby I glance away at something else.

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Yeah
I keep telling myself that I'll do it some day
But nah nigga I don't think I'm ever gonna do it

>>34301297
I do this as well, I just try my best to act like they aren't there.

I'm ugly, socially awkward, and I have a terrible boring personality

why would I intentionally embarrass myself by asking a girl out, lol

let's just save everyone's time here and I'll die alone unloved and untouched

>>34301132
I do try. Simply because I don't want to be a 60 year old man with a mind full of "what if"s.
Doesn't mean I succeed though, I get rejected erry time. But you make peace with your reality in time.

>>34301132
I've never asked a girl out, but a girl once came on to me, so I'm no longer KH, just V. It's been four years and I kind of feel like it was a daydream, as it lasted maybe a week or two and nothing like that has ever happened otherwise.

>>34301366
"What if I didn't try?"

>>34301132
I was pretty well aware of how pointless it would be from the start.

>>34301132

Yep. Never even spoken to a girl or woman that didn't speak to me first. I had two women tell me they liked me in high school but I thought they were lying to me so I avoided them.

No point in even getting my hopes up. I just assume women aren't in to me.

>>34301383
When he says "what if"s, he really means "regrets," and he thinks it's much more likely you'll regret a life spent not trying than the opposite

>>34301132
I am incredibly scared of rejection and I would almost certainly be rejected by anyone

I'm really such a fucking beta it makes me want to be dead

>>34301243
she said nothing

jdnwiwidb

>>34301132
Never spent any time with women outside of work/school either.

I mean in theory I really like the idea of a person I can be close with, can touch and be touched by, but the entire social process just seems too complex and fraught with ambiguity for me to succeed in it being who and what I am.

The most intimate thing I've ever done is a platonic hug. Last time I did that was two and a half years ago.

Me OP

I'm a 25 year old kissless virgin and I don't care about my virginity or not having a girlfriend at all.

I know how completely pathetic it is to be a virgin at my age. I understand that having a relationship has the whole "another person who loves you, companionship, etc" thing. But I feel like I should be one of the people constantly crying "tfw no gf" and hating women, but I don't. All i ever see about relationships from a guy's perspective, besides sex, is pain. the guy having to take initiative, do everything, pay for everything, getting upset at girls' mind games and jealousy, having to reject their friends to hang out with the girl, and how after a breakup the guy is usually pretty upset (crying about it to his family/friends/online/etc, following her on social media and seeing new guys she is dating and comparing himself to them, seeing her happiness and feeling bad, etc) for a while. meanwhile, the girl is usually onto the next guy within a week or two and doesnt give a shit about the guy.

I feel worse for seeing the guys who come on here to cry about their gf breaking up, or not having one, because it pains me to see my fellow guys in that position, being all messed up over a fucking girl. It's not worth getting upset over.

I even feel kinda bad if I happen to meander onto Reddit's gonewild board where hot ass girls post nude photos of themselves, and I see comment sections full of guys showering the girls with compliments and feel bad for them because it's like, why do you give these girls so much validation and boost their egos even more than they already are? it's not like they would ever give you a second look in real life

And i'm not trying to act like that whole "MGTOW" or "redpill" crap where women come to me and I refuse them all intentionally. No women approach me because I'm ugly as fuck, and I don't approach them.

Something is seriously wrong with me

>>34301411
>he thinks it's much more likely you'll regret a life spent not trying than the opposite
What if he's wrong?

>>34301411
>>34301383
This anon gets me. Thanks for explaining.

>>34301437
There is no right or wrong, all very subjective. In my case I am happier have tried and failed than to have not tried at all. It's an immediate closure.

>>34301476

For most of us, it's not a matter of trying and failing, it's knowing that there's no chance so don't try.

>>34301132
Some girl out there would probably say yes. I'm too lazy to find her though, and I'm a neurotic mess so it wouldn't last anyway.

technically i've never asked a girl out, but I've attempted to flirt before and all of my attempts have gone so horribly wrong that I've given up on women.

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>the only time I asked a girl out she laughed out loud
Do some people literally not care the least bit about how you feel?

>>34301547
Nah dude, empathy is a fuckin rare trait among people. Just gotta take it with stride.

>>34301297
Same here. Chads get approached by girls all the time. If I haven't, that just means I'm not a chad. And that means I don't have a chance anyways

>>34301132
I think I may have tried flirting with a couple girls I had a crush on back when I was in 3rd grade. They didn't like my dinosaur jokes and it scarred me for life so I never tried again. Now I'm 30 and still khhv.

The only time I've ever felt something for a girl, I've just thought: "Why would I even try? She's perfect, I'm not, She works hard every day of her life and I don't, anyone else would be a better option than me" and just let it go by. I don't regret it and I'm sure it was the best path to take.
Feelings aside anyways, I just can't give pleasure to women and that's undoubtedly a big part in that kind of relationships so yeah..

>>34301132
I never tried but a girl basically begged me to fuck her so I did

granted she was Chinese and just want me to enforce an open door policy on that pussy with my 7 inch femboi american cock

>>34301741
>I just can't give pleasure to women
Why? Could you greentext about it?

>>34302455
I mean, it's not really a complex story

I'm visually ugly, I'm boring, I'm annoying, I can't be sexy, I'm inexperienced, I'm poor, I'm stupid

there's nothing I really can offer

>>34301132
>tfw never tried because I don't really want a gf
I want one but not enough.

>>34301132
I tried a few times, but i also turned down 4 different girls, im too afraid of all that stuff. A girl even asked me if she could blow me and i said no.

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>>34303065
Probably for the best. I'd rather stay a virgin than face fuck a thot.

Never asked a girl out, but decent looking and smart
>gay and social anxiety
fugg

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I rejected a nigra, I bet if I kept in contact with the tall chick I was friends with in elementary school she would have gone out with me. But I purged my facebook of NORMIES years ago and she was caught in the crossfire

I've been suppressing my sexuality since I hit puberty. Every girl I've ever tried to push for something with has rejected me; some humiliated me on top of it. Now it feels weird to approach girls and even if they like me I overanalyze everything they do and take normal behaviors as a slight or lack of interest. Sometimes I wish someone experienced would just take interest in me and "show me the ropes" but that will probably never happen. Oh well, I've learned to live with my perpetual lack of sexual validation.

>>34302930
My exact situation

originalio

>>34303116
where do you go to make those images? I've been seeing them all over the show as of late and don't seam to have the agency to google it.

>>34301132
I can't say I have. I tried once and failed horribly and now my acquaintances mock me for it. But yes, I do not bother to try again at all but for different reasons that yours. Perhaps I might have a chance. Perhaps not. Either way, I cannot see myself in a relationship.

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>>34303524
https://photofunia.com/effects/retro-wave

Have fun my dude.

>>34301132
I have always lacked ambition and burning needs. I've never felt the need to work, to make something of myself or otherwise achieve anything at all.

This, of course is where most of my clashes with the /r9k/ norm come from. As someone outside the "tfw no gf" and "normies get out" circles I am an outcast simply for being less driven then my peers.

I have no ambition, no hopes or dreams. I simply exist and will consume goods and entertainment until I die

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>>34301132
I've long thought that getting a gf is a shitty deal for guys. What I can get out of it is not worth all that time, effort and money.

>>34301132
What really keeps me awake at night is thinking about all those opportunities I had to get laid and how I just wasted them
I cant even count how many different girls with my hands
and just like that im dying khv at 18

>>34301132
I never tried until my gf hit on me
All the years wasted because I thought no one would want to fugg me
still think she's stupid for wanting me but dammit, I could have fucked her for years already

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>>34303873
OH NO 18 YEARS OLD AND YOU'VE ALREADY HAD SO MANY GIRLS HITTING ON YOU BLOO BLOOOOOOO

>>34301383
that would be a nonexistence of experience, which you already have
you already know the outcome because you're living it right now
"what if I had continued doing nothing?" the answer is nothing, faggot
stop trying to beat normies with flawed fucking logic

Tried twice, failed miserably. There is a reason why some guys never try, they know they have zero chance. Same reason a 5'2 chinese man probably never tried to dunk a basketball.

>>34303911
Id much rather be ugly and poor like you are than so insecure, if I didnt live in a piece of shit country with no guns I would have already killed myself long ago

26 yo KV here. Only recently tried online dating but I can't really hold a conversation so it's been pretty rough goings.

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>>34303959
>ugly/poor and insecure are mutually exclusive

Almost 32

Should I just go to Nevada and fuck a prostitute?

I somehow had a couple gfs despite being an ugly faggot and massively autistic, however none of them lasted long and my last relationship fucked me up so much that I dont think I can or want a gf anymore.

dont do it guys

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>>34301430
you think somebody is going to read all that

>>34301583
Nah dude, empathy is a fuckin rare trait among people.Just gotta take it with stride...
and just kill everybody

>>34304099
Do you want to? or could you use the gas and whore money to treat yourself to something you know you'll enjoy?

I was in a very similar situation recently. I'm turning 28 in less then a week and have never seen a real vagina. I've done some minor fooling around as a teenager but it was spare and far between. I thought about going up to the nearest big city and getting myself a whore. Pay to pop my cherry and explore my ass fetish in the flesh.

Instead I spoiled myself with some fancy new hardware, a pair of fleshlights and some more commissioned porn. All of witch will server me better and longer then a few minutes inside a whore

>>34303845
literally and originally me, senpai

>>34304232
Is that supposed to be Johnny Cage?

>>34301186
>>34301132
Never bothered because they would all say no.

Oh well

>>34301361
Same. Women are a trivial thing

>never approached a girl
>turn down girls when i am approached, very rare but it happens

i have ascended

Always been terrified of intimacy and sex, pushed away girls that were practically begging for my cock in school. By the time i became an adult it was much easier since I no longer have a social circle and am not attractive enough for interested girls to do anything but look or maybe give a halfassed greeting. I wouldn't dream of approaching a girl myself, I'd rather die a virgin than risk the rejection.

I don't like my life but I doubt a woman would make me feel any better, I feel the void of something missing regardless.
Should have just manned up and lost my virginity back when I had to chance so I wouldn't have it looming over my head.

One time I asked an online female friend to be my gf and she said neither of us were ready for relationships.

Otherwise I've never tried.

>>34301132
>Never approached a girl except once
>She turned out Catholic so I felt like a piece of shit
>One ugly girl approached and made out with me and we dated because I did some weird shit
At least I'm attractive to a masculine woman

>>34301132
A girl was talking to me last year quite frequently. Assumed she just pitied me so I started ignoring her before I could've started to feel something for her and spaghetti all over the place.

I've been asked out twice and had a variety of girls attempt to befriend me over the years (no idea if any of them were interested romantically) but they all went away because I was too quiet and spergy. Never asked one out.

>>34301132
Me. I want a gf, but I'm too cowardly to ask any. I'd probably become a stuttering mess. Frankly, I wouldn't know what the hell to do with myself if she DID say yes. Guess I'm an evolutionary failure.

In 6th grade I learned that I was too beta to ever have a gf

i literally had a 3 way call with my crush and my female cousin who was a friend of her and had to have her tell her for me over the phone while I cried on the other line

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>>34304232
I've read it and I have a gf now, so what's stopping you?

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I did in 6th grade, and she said yes. Which really surprised me, but I think I was young enough to not be self-aware at all. I was a pretty ugly lanky preteen, and about 12 is when I started getting serious acne. Like, hardcore acne. My face was a crater. Then I realized I didn't know what the fuck the point was because I was 11 years old and "dating" while still believing if I touched her before we turned 18 I would go to jail. She ended it and then 2 years later on Myspace she messaged me saying she missed me. We went to the movies a couple of times and went for walks in the park, and talked over IM a lot. She invited me to a concert but I didn't want to have to ask my dad for permission and I didn't go. We went to the movies one last time and I held her hand the whole way through. I hugged her before she walked away and a few days later her friend IM'd me saying she really liked me but she didn't want to "date" anymore. We talked maybe twice after that over the next 3 or 4 years, and I never saw or heard from her again. Going to make a second post because I haven't thought about this shit in a good few years and it's hard for me to believe all of this happened 10+ years ago.

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>>34305764
Really shortly after this ended, my mom signed me up for some after school book club at the library because she didn't like me playing video games all day in my room. I didn't do this for an emotional reason or anything though, I've always been kind of a loner and liked staying at home not doing anything so don't think I was being some mopey cunt because I don't even remember crying, and I had been pretty much obsessed with that girl since I saw her on the first day of 6th grade. At the book club there was an older girl who wasn't that cute or anything but she would talk to me a lot and be kind of playful but I didn't understand why, and one day as everyone was walking out my mom saw her and said "Oh, ________!" like she knew her, and apparently when I was younger we had been in a lot of programs at the library together or something and I had no memory of her. We exchanged usernames and started chatting once in a while, and I was just talking to her because I was bored. I don't really remember every detail but I guess the topic of relationships came up and she said she'd like to date me or something like that, and I didn't really care so I said whatever. Basically what that consisted of was chatting daily. The library program ended so I never even saw her after that, and after a couple of weeks, maybe 3, she said she was bored so we should just be friends. I still don't get that, because all we ever did was talk online about random things. That was that done, and by this time I had moved to a new area so I saw no reason to keep talking to her.

I don't care if anyone reads this but I'm going to make a third post because I've never told any of these stories to anyone because I'm a friendless autist

Nice thread, guys. It's good to feel home at least once in a while.

>>34301132
Can't miss what you don't know. I might get a gf but I know deep down I am too retarded to maintain a proper relationship and I'd be too scared to try to find a new girl after our inevitable break up but I'd yearn it even more after experiencing it first hand. A gf would only lead to more pain and suffering in the long run and maybe to some extremely sweet short moments but that is not worth it to me.

>>34305764
>>34305896
Nice blogposting here norman scum

>>34301430
happy for you that you have achieved nirvana

maybe some day i will arrive at your understanding

I do not know any women, no women approach me and I do not approach them. It is for the best this way. No rejection, no embarassment, no wasted time.

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I asked a girl out once. That was 14 years ago.

I've been thinking about giving it a second shot

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>>34305896
Moving to a new place helped me fill a niche among my classmates. In my old school, I was just a weirdo no one wanted to be around apart from one or two other kids I talked about video games with and went over to their houses to play with their cool toys and game systems because they all had more money than my family. Because the school was small and in a rural area, I couldn't go unnoticed and people warmed up to me quickly because they thought I was funny. It was the first time I was part of a real group, and I always had a friend or two in every class. I got kind of cocky, and I would try to make some of the girls laugh too. By this point my acne was at it's worst point, and I was fucking NASTY as hell. But I still had no self-awareness and even though I was a lanky pizza face with bad posture and weird facial features, I acted like I owned the place. There were a couple girls I would get sat next to in certain classes, and while we never interacted outside of classes, they would laugh at my jokes and weren't outwardly repulsed by me, which was a first. None of them were too attractive, but I didn't bother trying to ask any of them out because I was enjoying myself just having a couple of bros to goof around with and some girls to pretend I was liked by. This cycle continued for a year and half, until the 8th grade graduation dance. For some reason, as I was standing in the hallway and everyone was getting their things out of their lockers to go home, I saw one of the girls who seemed to have fun joking around with me in wood shop. I yelled to her from across the hall, and asked her if she wanted to go to the dance with me. I don't know why I did, I think I had just had gym and I was hopped up from running laps or something. Surprisingly, she said yes. Later, when I showed up at the dance, I ignored her most of the time and was just dancing around and being a troublemaker.
>>34305995
One more for you, friend

Yep, 27 KHV, never tried.

I think at this point though if it never happened anyway, then there's no reason to try.

>>34301132
I don't even care. Only ones that make it an issue are my family. That's more about them being critical of me rather than being a khv though. They always find something to shit on me once in a while. I don't really get why, some of it is completely unreasonable.

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>>34306102
When the slow song came on, I spotted her and went over then put my hand around her waist and we sort of just waddled back and forth for a minute or however long it lasted. I don't think I even talked to her afterwards, I just walked away and went with some guys to stuff toilet paper rolls into the toilets to clog all of them. I don't think I even talked to her the rest of that year, and she moved or switched schools or something. 9th grade was pretty uneventful, I just fucked around and started failing all my classes because I just refused to do homework or study. We moved again that summer, and I started 10th grade at a new school like the one I had gone to before, where I was just an ugly weirdo. I got Accutane, though, and that really helped me out a lot. So much so, actually, that even though I didn't talk to anyone, and just asked the popular sports kids if I could sit with them at lunch the first day as my only social interaction, I had enough confidence to ask a short blonde girl with braces and huge tits in my morning science class if she wanted to go to the big football game or whatever it was because I had heard announcements about it and it seemed like what everyone was doing. I just kind of chased her down in a hallway and asked her. I don't remember what she said but it was something non-committal and like she was going to work out the details with me later, but as she walked into her classroom I realized that I didn't have a cell phone, and I didn't know her schedule so I had no way to talk to her again. I saw her later that day from behind talking to another girl and laughing, so I just gave up on it and that was that. There was also some punk-looking girl on my bus who I think said something to me once, and I gave like a gruff answer and she probably thought I was pissed off that she spoke to me. She was friends with the loud annoying normalfags on the bus though, so I just fantasized about fucking her for a week and that was it.

>>34301132

Me...well not in any meaningful way anyways Ive been plastered drunk and texted a girl in high school and she just kind of ignored it.

Fucking just now I was at the bar with my friend and his girlfriend & her friend. I was talking to her friend for a bit and actually being pretty suave, but I knew deep down it was just a show, she was being polite.

Then my other friend showed up and they instantly kicked it off and were talking to each other the rest of the night.

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I may fail at many things but at least this life is all mine and I go about it alone by choice
I cant stand incels

>>34301132
28 with the same status as yours

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I didn't talk to a single person the rest of the year, I never made a single friend, and the closest I got was smoking weed in the bathroom with a kid in my low-level math class. He gave me a pretty big piece for free, and I smoked it two more times before I flushed it. I ignored him every time he tried to speak to me after, and then I dropped out so that I could watch anime and sleep all day. I'm 24 and I've been a shut-in NEET since September 2009. I don't regret anything, or want to be a normalfag, but I will say I'm a little disappointed that my body and environment were on par with my mind when I was 11, because I was thinking like a 15 year old when I asked that girl out the first time. If I had actually been 15, I probably would have kissed her and had sex with her. But who knows. I haven't spoken to a female besides my mom since then, and I doubt I ever will. I just have no interest in them besides sex, and a quick fap takes care of that urge. I don't see how asking girls out or having a gf would improve my life at all. If I want to feel loved and appreciated I hug my mom's dog and give her treats. I'm pretty content with this life though. Keep your heads up bros. I wanted to get all that off my chest, some of that's been bubbling up for the better part of ten years.

>>34301132
when i was a kid my mom was never around and my dad always talked shit about women and now i can't develop emotional feelings for them its great

>>34306455
>Then my other friend showed up and they instantly kicked it off and were talking to each other the rest of the night.
That has to hurt

>>34301132
Literally me. I'm always baffled at how many robots post about their attempts, I mean it's commendable. But I can't imagine any girl wants me, I'm too ugly and have a horrible self esteem

>>34304595
It's Propane and Accessories Man