>"improve your personality" What does this even

>>34296584
they are telling you to conform and act like everyone else.

>>34296584
Clearly your brain can adapt. The problem is that most of that happens during your formative years and then to a lesser extent for the rest of your childhood. Once you're an adult making a change is way harder

Any changes you make now will be much more subtle, usually closer to coping mechanisms than genuine change. That having been said it can still be very helpful to try and make those small changes.

Also "your brain" isn't some singular entity that cannot change itself. You can change your behaviours, those will affect your environments reactions to other behaviours, those reactions will lead to different coping mechanisms and hence changes in personality etc.

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>>34296584
>falling for the personality meme

You a roastie or something?

Quit being a cunt is what they're telling you.

Most people don't realize they're total fucking assholes. I was/still sometimes am one of those people.

>>34296584
Are you retarded? How can you speak english? How can you use a computer? How can you do the vast majority of the actions you take for granted? The problem isn't that it's physically impossible, it's that you don't have the will to improve, which is what makes it impossible.

>>34296584
>What does this even mean
"be attractive"

Improving your personality is about one simple thing.
It is becoming less of the person that: makes the conversation inadvertenly end, is not invited, is not funny, is not useful, is not helpful, is not nice.
These things are all tied into each other and are all related to how well you are able to pick up social cues and what you do with them.
That is improving your personality. Why is it called like that? Because when you improve upon these things, people will like you and your personality a lot more.
It should therefore not be "improve your personality" but, "change your personality into something at least halfway workable and liveable".

>>34297120
I read that in normie voice.
that means you're a normie

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>>34296584
>How does your brain improve itself when your brain is the problem

Firstly by not being on this board. Your personality is a result of how you spend your time, what you think about, and who you spend your time with.

You choose to marinade your brain in a piss-mist of negativity and victimhood, surrounded by miserable cunts who will shit on you any chance they get. You spend your time here reading cuck threads and hypergamy threads all day you're going to carry on being a miserable shitter that nobody wants to talk to irl. Because negativity breeds more negativity, your brain is a shitty whirlpool of negative thoughts that are fed by the poison found on this board.

If you make the effort to leave this place and stop consuming toxic information and opinions all day, and break the cycle of negativity that you're trapped in, you'll improve, you'll be happier and nicer and people will like you more.

If you want to do this, try to go 10 whole days without dwelling on a negative thought for more than 2 minutes. You can't stop thoughts entering your head but you can choose whether or not to dwell on them. If you fail then start counting again at 0 days. This challenge could actually take months to accomplish, but after you do you'll feel much better.