Who else here is scared of moving out on your own and getting a job? I don't know anything about the real world, I would fuck up so much it be too embarrassing. I don't know how to get an apartment or write a cv, my social skills are terrible from the anxiety i feel. I'm fucked, I have no friends or hobbies really (just sit on computer all day) so even if I did get started on my own if I tried to date or make friends it would be so awkward. They would wonder what was wrong with an grown adult never having these things before.
I moved out when I was 18, feels great TBQH
>>34192334
do you have any depression or anxiety, are you lonely? at least you can cope on your own that's a good thing, i couldn't
I've got a job, but I still live at home. Getting a job and a way of money is one thing, but finding your own place and having to be the one who has to cover bills, rents and all that on your own is a scary thought in itself.
It would probably be easier way of life if I had a roommate to cover half but i've no friends to live with and living with complete strangers is intimidating.
>>34192270
embarassing? awkward? try caring less about what the haters gonna think
>>34192270
Me. Two more years of dodging everything by being a lazy student and then I'm gonna get rekt. I'm as inexperienced as a 14 year old yet I'm suppossed to be an adult for years now. Never worked, no connections, social skills zero, probably of mediocre intelligence, anxiety...
Don't wanna an hero much, but it's an option if things get dire. How do we avoid that? I fell in he comfy-depression trap.
>>34192417
It's fine as long as you can get along with your parents. You have a job, and more money at least.
>>34192369
Ive always been alone. The space is great, and the freedom to disappear is awesome
I would figure your main concern would be rent. Whenever I think about rent, my lesser fears of social anxiety disappear for a good hour.
I was a scared little NEET, afraid of people and the world, until I got on SSRIs
>>34192670
Its just me and my ma since my dads in the ground, we get on fine and I still put in "rent" money to improve the way of living. Its a good lifestyle and I still keep like 3/4 of my wages, but i'm afraid knowing it wont last forever so i'm enjoying it for what its worth until something bad happens.
>>34192270
>moving out on your own and getting a job
that's the best thing in the world anon
no more parents bothering you and never having to worry about them suddenly going in the room and accidentally showing them the porn / cringey shit you read/watch
and being able to blare your shitty music out loud through your monitor/speakers
the next step is to stack so much money in the bank you never have to work again for 5+ years, and become a full-time self-employed freelancer working 10 hours a week or as many hours depending on how much money you want to cough up, so you'll never have to leave your house or have a schedule and DO ANYTHING YOU WANT, WHEN YOU WANT
>>34192270
I'm in the same situation but I had no option like you and now I'm staying with some coworker but I don't know how long I'm gonna be here. I have a job but not enough to live by myself. I've lived in the streets before and I don't wanna go back to that again, the thought of it terrifies me.