When does being a virgin become weird in this day and age? and

>>34163013
At 19 you become weird to have not lost your virginity. Even year after even more so.

>>34163013
At 30+ years, but it really depends on the person and their situation.

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>>34163033
>19
tell me it isn't so
I'm turning 20 this April

>>34163033
creepiness factor every year after 16 adds up by a factor of two.

>>34163081
Yeah 19 is when people will start being like "wow anon you're really still a virgin?" and every year after is even worse.

>>34163013
I'd say 19 if you're male.

>>34163013
lost at 22, girl didnt care at all. probably depends on girl and country, anyway i would say below 30 is ok

>>34163013
Honestly, probably starting in your early to mid 20s.

19 it becomes a little strange. after 21 it's really, really weird. after 23 you're a total freak. after 30, people will probably literally be scared of you if they know, thinking there must be something really, really wrong with you.

when of course, the only thing that causes it is physical appearance, not personality or weirdness or anything.

In the west? 19.
I had some people find out I was a virgin and they freaked out like I was some sort of impossible anomaly.

Now that I'm 27 nobody even bothers asking because who would be a virgin at 27 haha thats only in the movies.

>>34163013
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djvqI0bBgmg

>>34163202
>the only thing that causes it is physical appearance, not personality or weirdness or anything.
That said, your physical appearance does influence your personality, just based on the social experiences it results in. An attractive person probably won't be shy, for example.

>>34163156
To follow this up, out of my group of friends in highschool about half lost it during their final year and the other half lost it within 6 months to 3 years after highschool. I lost mine at 21

16 is the turning point. Every year after 16 you get geometrically weirder and it becomes proportionately less likely to happen.

>>34163099
Happens to me, i'm 20 but i learned to accept it and it isn't that bad. I just don't talk about it and i try to avoid any topic of conversation about virginity with friends and people i meet. I'm just honest, i don't lie about my virginity but i won't bring that out, nonetheless if someone asks me personally if i'm a virgin idgaf about telling them the truth.

I used to care a lot at 17-19, but now it just doesn't bother me, thanks to that i'm more secure of myself and even new girls i have met thought i wasn't a virgin because i don't look like one. And i'm not a chad honestly, just an average guy.

I just live without caring about that, i know that someday it will happen and i will be able to talk more about sex topics but it isn't a serious problem to me since the day i started to not care about it, even so i know it would be better if i lose it.

>>34163248
true, it can affect confidence which can make one appear awkward. but it's not like a major personality deviation. an ugly person can have a perfectly agreeable personality, get along with people well, be able to talk to people well etc, and still be a permavirgin due to appearance.

>>34163233
this. im 27 also, when coworkers etc. have asked me about previous relationships or i've been in small talk about relationships, i basically just make stuff up. normies really just don't get it. i mean i would think it would be obvious looking at me i've never been in a relationship because i'm too ugly, but that idea doesn't even enter a normie's mind -- at a certain age it's unthinkable that someone would still be a virgin.

>>34163305
>I just live without caring about that, i know that someday it will happen

make it happen NOW. it's not too late at 20. when i was that age i thought "well, of course it will happen eventually," but after a certain age it becomes really impossible. if you're average looking then it is definitely possible for you. and you only get ugly as time goes on -- when i was 20 i had good hair, maybe then it would have been possible if i tried, now i'm bald and theres NO chance ever. something like that could happen to you, so you need to get serious and work hard on it now.

For women? Never. A pure, untouched woman is always desirable and in almost all cases preferred. She's saving herself for Mr. Right and that's an admirable and respectable trait. That's probably because a virgin woman older than 14 is so rare now, but still.

For men? If you're over 16 and haven't gotten your dick wet at least once, then there's something seriously wrong with you and you're forever marked as completely undesirable to all women regardless of their /10 status. An adult male virgin is incredibly rare and incredibly weird.

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>>34163033
im 19 and can confirm this

>>34163013
Being a virgin at any age isnt weird. It's being an ugly loser at any age thats weird. A good looking guy/girl can be a virgin their entire life and no one will bat an eye. An ugly beta who has lost theirs will be suprising at any age.

The worst part is they're right. There absolutely is something wrong with me.
I have some deep fear of intimacy and closeness with others on top of my severe depression, social problems, anxiety, etc.
I've been asked out around 5 times starting in highschool and obviously flirted with more than that. I could have probably lost my virginity at 13 or 14 and 100% could have at 18.

I wish I wasn't a retard.

>>34163299
Its normal to be a virgin till your first semester of college unless you grew up in the hood where everyone is fucking and shooting each other at 14.

>>34163366
Right, I wasn't disagreeing with you. Just pointing out that ugly and weird often go hand in hand.

>>34163447
i don't think it's that rare, it's rare that anyone will admit it. for the current generation it will be much more common than usual thanks to dating apps that let women fuck chad 24/7 with no effort.

18. You're already still a little late even at that age since most people lost it at 14, 15 when they became more sexually aware.
I'm British so I finished school at 16, but to not have lost it at 18 when even you Americans have finished school it gets weird. All those parties you could have gone to and got laid at. You dun goofed.

I lost mine at 23

Age 15, I'd say. Most people lose it by then.

Believe it or not, but people can tell whether you're a virgin by your mannerisms. I would say 19 as that's the age of most college freshman and when you finally lose your "late bloomer" status and just go straight into "weird pathetic loser" territory

>>34163601
Parties aren't as common in America as you think, its something the popular normals held and invited other popular normals to. Us robots never really heard of when they were going down.

>>34163629
This is sadly true. It's not that they can smell your virginity, but if you're strange enough to not have any friends and be a khv, it's usually obvious.

>>34163533
I'm autistic and never leave the house so they are right, there is something wrong with me. I feel you

>>34163539
This. I knew quite a few normal people (both men and woman) who were still virgins after high school.

That said, they all lost it with that 18-21 range.

>>34163629
this is false. Most people would assume I am a virgin because of my mannerisms, but I lost it at a young age.

>>34163533
I repeat to myself good advices from normies: don't care what others say/think, be ok with yourself, you're worthy no matter what etc.
But what I fucking fear the most is that what they think is true and there's no real good advice for me.

Your post gave me shiver

>>34163366
This:
>ugly guy walks down the street and happens to take the same turns as a girl in front of him
omg he's a stalker!
>nice looking guy does the same
guy is just minding his business

I've been really fat from not giving a fuck and bloated from meds for long stretches of college: the contempt coming off women when we were in the same public space was fucking palpable. If I did anything that could even remotely be construed as "weird" behavior (yawning, looking for something in my pockets) you could see women show fear and disgust.

In HS I was a jock with abs and a 6/10 face: even though I was quite autistic - it was always seen as charming and cute.

>>34163013
22+

Senior year in college age is the last straw.

I'm from a conservatie European country:
Up to 18: completely normal, excluded from Chad status though.
19-21: still relatively normal, but don't tell anyone.
22-25: weird, don't tell anyone unless you're religious.
25+: people will think you are a serial killer.

>>34163013
Late 20s and above for women

18 and above as a male depending on where you live.

>>34163013
15-16

t. 21 year old virgin

i kinda forget when it went all wrong. it's a blur.

>>34163442
I will, the only thing is that i have to find balance in it, i have to make it but without getting obsessive over it.
And yeah you're right, i have nice hair now but bit a bit i'm starting to lose it and i'll probably be bald when i grow up too.

I just have to be slow and steady that is all thanks for your advice anon, and yes i'm average looking, i'd say a solid 6/10 and now even better since i've been going to the gym for like 6 months now. My body is much better now only thing i'm 5 feet 6 inches tall but that has never bothered me either.

How you doing dude? Are you still a virgin too? If not could you tell me how you did it?

I think i have a lot of things most of r9k would have but i still don't manage to get a gf or even fuck a girl, even so i'm not a kissless virgin thankfully.

I think there are varying levels of weird
Me, I'm a 20 yo KV and that's weird, but I honestly think a 20 year old virgin who has been in a relationship is probably okay in the eyes of a normie

>>34163961
>>34163442

>I think i have a lot of things most of r9k would have

Sorry i meant things that i have that most of r9k would like to have because they lack about it.

Like social skills, average interaction with anyone, not getting nervous talking with girls, secure of myself, etc.

>>34163013
It's expected that you lose your virginity by the time you graduate high school now. So by 18.

>>34163013
here in Aus it's about 20 that it would be weird. girls here normally lose it at 12-14, and guys at 16-18

once you're male and 20+ virgin you get relentlessly harried as genetic trash

source: 26y/o kv

>>34163961

im virgin at 27, probably forever now. when i was 18-21 i can remember a couple times when decent looking girls showed some interest in me and i probably could have been with them if i pursued something when i felt an opportunity. this was when i had good hair -- this stopped completely after my balding became obvious.

NEVER turn down an opportunity to have sex with/enter into a relationship with a girl. thinking about the couple times good looking girls showed interest in me when i was younger and i brushed it off makes me want to kill myself now. it will never happen again.

You guys need to clean up your act I'm a 27 year old virgin and look better than I have my entire life. I looked like shit in highschool and still had girls after me for some reason.

>>34163013
not really. just see statistics about virgins. in japan almost half the population is virgin.

of course bullies would exploit virginity to cause pain. just walk away from bullies.

>>34164258
Whelp. Looks like Japan just became less appealing with all the virgin around.

On the other hand. Desperate asain guys.

I just turned 25 this week and I really don't care anymore. I have Asperger's and finding a job or getting my life together are more important right now.
I hate how the media tells everyone that you absolutely have to loose it in your teens or you are doomed forever. Thanks to that, everyone believes it.

>>34163013
I'd say 13 is normal age for hood kids, 14 for chads, and 15-16 for normies and till 19 is late bloomer, after that its weird

>>34164258
>just walk away from bullies.
lmao
they literally just follow you

Where does one go to get laid?

>>34164426
the hood
prison
the army
the navy
locker room of a powerlifting gym

>>34164440
I'm not a faggot though
Really, I'm not

>>34164140
I will take your word for sure man, i know 27 is an age but did you really gave up? If there is hope for me it has to be for you too.

Balds fuck too you know, some girls even like it not even joking.

I'm honing my best skills for now, and seeing someone as you makes me want to do it for my best. Don't give up hope anon, you just gave a little of your to me, it means you still have some.

Honestly i think i have it all so i can make out with a girl, except i'm a little short in height but somehow most of my friends managed to do it except one that is a social outcast and somehow i have never done it. I have been close a few times though.
I dunno what i'm doing wrong but i'm 100% sure that i'm improving myself at least over the last two-three years.

What would you say are your best skills? Physically and mentally speaking, also social skills.

>>34163013
I reckon you can still get away with it in your early twenties, but 24+ will cement your status as "weird" with most people.

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>>34163013
In Finland the average person loses their virginity at the age of 15 so I'd say 18-19 here.

Also here's a video where people are shocked when a woman says she's a 18 year old virgin
https://vid.me/sZ8W
(I recorded this with my phone and it's kind of difficult to hear what they're saying)

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People on this board have experienced a brainwashing program by other anons.

It is infact not weird to be a virgin out of highschool, but you shouldn't be a virgin by the age of 25.

My mom was a stacy in highschool but now she's a /jp/ browsing washed up slut. I asked her, when did you loose your virginity but what is the normal, and she said 15 like I sort of expected, and she said that a lot of her not-so-good-looking-friends lost it in their early 20s in college.

If your lurking here mom, fuck you. I know you browse this place.

>>34164573
this normie thing got out a hand, soon the whole world will be made up of stacies, chad and robots on the other end of the scale

>>34163013
where I grew up kids were having sex with each other as young as 14 and were bragging about it.

>>34164573
>thats an 18 year old
eww, women do age like milk

>>34163129
What about female?

>>34163525
BINGO!! Couldn't agree more. Virginity doesn't define you, but being a loser does

>>34163442
Lol, don't blame being bald...i'm 23 and balding, just shave your head or buzz it to the point where you have virtually no hair, being bald isn't whats gonna stop you. Just dont fight the balding and walk around with a fucked up hairline looking like a goob haha...get back out there faggot, sex and balding are mutually exclusive

>>34163013
>16
Get a giggle or two, no one cares really.
>18
It's pretty weird at this point, people will make fun and some won't believe you
>20
Most people at this point think it's creepy and the innocence turn on is gone. People will mock you and look down on you
>25
If your above a 4/10 people won't believe you unless you prove it, and then once you do prove it they will ghost you

>>34163525
True, exactly what happens to me. I'm 20, good-looking but actually no one would say i'm a virgin at first sight, only my closest friends know.

Even a friend showed a photo of me and my friends and asked her which ones did she tought were virgins and i wasn't one of the ones who choosed, even she said one of them was a virgin even so he actually wasn't. It surprised me when he told this to me.

>>34163533
>>34165467
Shit i fucked it up. I mean a friend asked a girl who met at a party about the photo.

>>34165443
>He doesnt just say he's saving himself for marriage

why?

>>34165340
this works if you have an attractive face. if you don't have an attractive face AND are balding then you're totally screwed with no hope at all.

shaving would just make me look not only ugly, but weird. i would be a public spectacle. at least as i am now im ugly, but not freakish looking, which i would be with a shaved head.

>>34165726
and make people think i'm a religious madmen also?

>>34165778
What's it have to do with religion?

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>>34165340
lol, if you have an ugly skull, becoming bald is a death sentence
if your skull is top tier, than you have something to work with

18: Slightly weird, but fine, you are probably really introverted or awkward

21: Weird, I think I'll avoid him (especially if you went to college)

24: Seriously fucking weird nigga wtf

>be me
>19 soon 20
>never got a gf
>but paid for sex to not be a virgin anymore
Does that make me a creep still?

Also, not a bad looking guy, just assburger and weird tastes and not into mainstream shit.

>>34165921
yea, seriously, how has this not been addressed?
what if we lose our virginity to a prostitute and never had any non prostitution interaction?

or if we had gay sex through grindr even though we are mostly interested in females?

how virgin would such a person be?

Weird according to who? If you're a virgin you don't socialise anyway so who is judging you?

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>tfw I'm 20 in a month and a half
>still a virgin

I feel like I'm about to hit the point of no return

>turned 21 in November
>still khv
I have to lie to prevent being made fun of

>>34166101
same, I say I lost my virginity during my years in highschool to a neighbor (not someone in my highschool because I don't want to include anyone else in my lie)
admitting to being a virgin can only be a disadvantage

>>34166167
Yep. It doesn't help when family members and others know you're awkward and never had many friends

I'd say that after your teens it starts to get noticeable. The weirdness factor will peak during your college years, should you be doing that.

If you are still a virgin after that, the weirdness only increases. However, there are a few benefits at this point. For one, no one will ask if you are a virgin. Past a certain point, people just assume and it stops being edgy and cool to talk about your first sexual experiences, as that only really flies to bond with younger people. Also, unless you have the same friends or whatever that know you're a virgin, you can just lie about it should it ever come up and just claim you're "inexperienced" or whatever if you have to, though that's still a bit weird.

Really the one it has the most impact on is yourself. I'm a 26 year old virgin and I guarantee I judge myself for it far more than anyone else who knows about it.

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>>34163013
all these young newfags who think sticking your penis into a hole suddenly makes you a non virgin

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>>34166371
>I judge myself for it far more than anyone else who knows about it
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19 for male, 21 for female

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>>34166371

It used to bother me a lot but now that I'm nearing the end of my 30's, I've made peace with this idea of never having a family and being a Neurotypical good father.

> Tfw I'm lying to myself

>>34166992
how is it lower for male?
it is extremely easy for a girl to lose her virginity
you can lose it within 1 hour of installing tinder
whereas it is much more difficult for a male

>>34167089
if you're a man its harder to get sex, if you're a woman its harder to resist it.

>>34165155

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