I left the comfort of r9k to search for advice. These were the

>>34150736
>"Women see self-confidence as the most attractive trait in a guy."
not really but don't be beta and afraid to ask a girl out
>"Being funny and having a good personality trumps looks."
true
>"Your race doesn't matter as long as you have a good personality."
for normie girls this is true
>"You shouldn't 'try to get a girlfriend'. Relax, live life and it will come naturally."
this is true. you will know when you find the girl you want to be with forever.

>>34150736
Here's a secret tip that neither /r9k/ nor most normies know about:

Women have different tastes. There are traits in men that are generally attractive, like self-confidence and humor, etc. But some women care more about looks, while other care more about personality. I.e., the first three of those statements aren't ALWAYS true.

>"You shouldn't 'try to get a girlfriend'. Relax, live life and it will come naturally."

It's true you should be content to live life without needing a gf, but there's nothing wrong with trying.

>>34150906
Also, women have different tastes in physical appearance.

Some women like stereotypical buff Chads, some like skellingtons, hell some like "dad bods". Again, there are things which are generally attractive (clear skin, not being fat), but you don't necessarily need a chiseled jaw and cheekbones to find someone who's genuinely attracted to you.

>>34150736
>"Women see self-confidence as the most attractive trait in a guy."
Yeah, IN a guy. What's outside matters a whole lot more though
>"Being funny and having a good personality trumps looks."
Only if you're above her cutoff for looks and social status, and only if someone of better looks and status doesn't drop in and wants a quick fuck
>"Your race doesn't matter as long as you have a good personality."
If you're dating lefties maybe, even then it'll have an influence. I don't even really think of non-whites so I guess I never considered being another race
>"You shouldn't 'try to get a girlfriend'. Relax, live life and it will come naturally."
Only works if you meet and flirt with girls anyways

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>>34150736
>>"You shouldn't 'try to get a girlfriend'. Relax, live life and it will come naturally."

I guess this just goes to illustrate just how different normal people's lives are from our own.

>>34150736
It's complicated. These tips seem great to an average person but to a socially awkward dude you might be missing some fundamentals that a normal person wouldn't think to bring up.

My advice? start talking to people. little things. Talk to men, talk to women. Look people in the eyes. Don't switch which eye youre looking in, don't stare, but don't shy away from someones eyes. Give passive compliments. If you like your friends scarf, say it's nice. You don't have to only say nice things to people when flirting. Be chill, don't seem on edge. Dress well, remember personal hygiene. Even if you're fat and ugly, people won't think you're gross if you make an effort in your appearance.

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>>34151364
>I guess this just goes to illustrate just how different normal people's lives are from our own.

Yup, normies can't conceive of an existence without a social group of their own. Actual loners are literal sub-human tier to them. To them, we basically have no souls.