What the flying fuck /r9k/. I swear, you told me getting a gf was the hard part.
19 year old virgin here. I finally found a qt virgin gf and dated her for a while, got my first kiss and bj and everything, and now she wants to have sex. And we fucking can't. Her vagina just tenses up and hurts like hell, we can't get to the point of having sex because her vagina won't allow it.
What the hell do I do? I really thought i had this one in the bag. Am I just doomed to be a virgin forever?
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>>34137755
do it slowly, tell her it will hurt a little, but i really want to make love to you, i want to make you happy,
>>34137755
stick it in her p00per
Had the same problem op me and my ex just did anal instead.
>>34137755
go extremely slowly, try after a hot bath to relax muscles, use lube if there's issues there, she can try specific yoga exercises to stretch the muscles there too... she might have
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus
good luck!
Loosen it up with your fingers first dummy.
Of course she's going to complain, women complain about everything. They freak out at the tiniest discomfort and say it hurts. Keep going anyway. It really doesn't hurt that much, she's just being a whiny cunt.
>>34137755
Have her lay on her back while holding her legs spend open. Make sure she's very horny and both of you are well lubricated. Start with using as many fingers as possible till she tenses up then keep working it. Once she seems ready or close to, slowly slip it in.
It took my ex virgin girlfriend 3 or 4 sessions till she loosened up enough.
Lube dumbass
>>34137918
this is good advice; try this
I wanna hear guys do this more