>tired of being alone
>meet cute girl who wants to go out with me and do crazy stuff
>suddenly not sure if i want her as a gf/uninterested in not being single
I dont know why this happens.
>>34130482
Are you a lesbian? My girlfriend hit me, all the posters who say lesbians just beat eachother are right. Don't do it.
Because you fantasize over a perfect image in your mind then you see the reality and its actually pretty shit
>>34130574
This might be the reason. I get an idea of a gf that is more like a creature i can summon to have sex, cuddle and look good with my family only when i want to.
>You are scared of her not actually liking you once she gets to know you
>You are scared of disappointing her
>You are scared of falling for her, then her leaving you
>You are scared to let your happiness hinge on another person's actions
>You are used to being alone
Probably one of those
>>34130482
It isn't worth it. As >>34130574 hinted, your idealism will keep you from having a good relationship. Don't settle anon, be alone.
I got a gf once because I wanted to stop being single and it didn't last for more than 5 months.
>>34130661
>>34130616
But i feel like if i might be trapped. Because i dont want to settle with someone i dont like, but i dont know if i really dont like her or if like >>34130616 said im just too used to being alone.
>>34130665
I can see this happening to me.
But honestly, this girl should be perfect for me. Maybe its that she is not "geeky" enough, i dont know.
i sometimes question why im in a relationship. but she is nice and does nice things for me and cares about me. she also likes cuddling and sex. she makes me feel loved and wanted. if things were different, like having arguments and stuff, i'd be done. but she genuinely cares and even covers date costs half the time. she's really cute and takes good care of herself. and like r9k's fantasy, she was a virgin when we started dating.
>>34130537
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qpsx-OWHfNc
>>34130482
I know you're tired of being alone, OP, but relationships suck horsecock.
Women being fucking nitpicking psychos is not a meme.
They get pissed for the tiniest thing.
If they get mad at you for some shit, they'll simply stop talking to you (and claim they're not mad) until you somehow figure how why tf are they mad.
Then you have to make a proposal-tier apology so they stop being mad.
Also they're almost never in the mood for sex. You'll be the one who initiates it 9 out of 1000 times.TRUST ME I KNOW
Just hire a hooker or something.