>Get an attractive online gf with nigh perfect body. >She's

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I'm as anxious, depressed and obese as i have ever been in my life, Yet having a female in my life doesn't fix any of it.

>inb4 she's not in your life

I spend all day online so she more or less is.

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>>34129053
>I spend all day online so she more or less is.

>>34129053
Why don't you try to better yourself and attempt to get closer to her league? Your depression and anxiety will be a lot more manageable when you're happy with your image, so hit the fucking gym tomorrow and stick with it. Also, LDRs are one of the most stressful things a person can add to their life. Take it from a robot who fell in love with a girl on this board who had every aspect I had ever desired in a woman. Even then, shit is still not worth it. End the relationship immediately unless you can close the distance within a year.

>>34129004
You need to improve yourself. Go lift or something

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Some people will never be happy, no matter how many tricks they play on themselves.

>>34129004
>had this, fucked it up.

just improve yourself man, every day. That's all you need to do. You'll deserve her if you work for it.

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>>34129156
>>34129165

I can't stop eating, And i have social anxiety so bad i can't get out of the house. Some it mental, Some is physical. I can close the distance around next month, But i think i'll just end it, and fall to shitposting on /r9k/ for the rest of my life.

>>34129224
I am depressed as shit but I have the exact opposite problem, depression makes me not able to eat.

>>34129004
>online gf
there is your problem.
she is not your gf.

>>34129224
>I can't stop eating
If you actually wanted to improve yourself you could, but it seems like you don't.

>>34129246

I need food to be happy when am feeling down. like i am right now. I don't know how to get rid of this problem. I went from 127 to 153 in the past 5 months.

>>34129224
A month? Come on anon. You can do it. Surely you'll feel different when you're not on the internet all day.

I would say try to visit her for a weekend just to tide you over, but if it's only a month anyway...

>>34129156
>Take it from a robot who fell in love with a girl on this board who had every aspect I had ever desired in a woman

Sounds rough, anon. I hope you got through it okay. My first relationship was LDR/internet too, and I agree that a year is the limit. Luckily we were near the end of college.

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>>34129283

She's obessed with me mate. Whether the the healthy kind of love or not, I don't know. This is why i like her, But i'm not absolutely in love with her. She's seems as normal as women get in my opinion. I could be wrong, But i have nothing to lose. She does.

>>34129337
I will try man, Thank you.

>>34129283
What this guy said. WHAT THIS GUY FUCKING SAID. Actually cannot fathom how this wouldn't immediately strike you as the source of the problem. Human beings are not physiologically designed to register incoming binary messages as intimate female connection. You need a woman you can see in the flesh, smell, and have physical intimacy with, else she's basically a phantom. A chatbot could tell you you're loved in a message. It couldn't suck your dick though. Peace out.

>>34129004
I kind of have this.
>find girl that's interested in me
>more depressed than ever because I'm not good enough

>>34129512
>>34129458
>>34129224
>I can close the distance around next month

>>34129458
I understand,
about 3 years ago I met a very beautiful girl, I too thought she was obsessed with me and I let my feels of nogf get the best of me, she ended up being a complete disappointment the embodiment of the Stacy meme,
what I'm getting at is don't put her up on this pedestal and just be cautious and don't get obsessed with her.

>>34129774

Yeah deffo meet up with her IRL dude if you can but be lax about it when the occasion arises. Also, if you're insecure about whatever, remember you have the power to make a lot of changes. Ironically it would actually be irrational to think that you don't have that power. You can lose weight, you can overcome social anxiety, it's literally just a case of neural reprogramming. You might always have a natural disposition towards it, but you can minimalise the symptoms and take control and get what you want in life. A book that helped me a lot is 'The Solution to Social Anxiety: Break Free from the Shyness That Holds You Back' by Dr Aziz Gazipura Psyd. It particularly focuses on anxiety when approaching and talking to women, which you might find helpful. Self improvement should be a perpetual goal, but it must be built on a foundation of accepting your current self unconditionally,