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Serious question time Why are 18-21 years olds so fucking timid?

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Serious question time

Why are 18-21 years olds so fucking timid?

Really, I'm 27 and re-doing some college courses, and I'm surrounded by kids right out of high school and they are scared of everything. Forbid one of them gets called on to answer a question because you'd just get an inaudible squeak from the corner of the room. Or maybe they need to explain something to the classroom and all you get is this weird pseudo-cool-but-still-a-pussy tone of voice.

On one hand I like it, because when I graduated high school a lot of kids were disruptive and it was tough to get them to quiet down, but on the other hand it's a big unsettling. Seriously, what will these kids grow into in 10-15 years down the line? It's like they are terrified of strangers or anything remotely unfamiliar.

Or maybe I'm just spoiled. I wait tables so it's my job to be warm with people and make them feel comfortable, and the best way to do that is to engage them. But even I can't get around to these kids, they're some serious weirdos.

Pic unrelated, but I'd like to build a PC and maybe someone can give me some pointers. The RAM is staying.
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No one is social anymore, yes even chad is only psuedo-social.

Also just get the 6700k. Cheaper, same speeds (or higher) and unlocked. Unless you are a video editor.
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>>34081570
Socializing is getting too difficult. There's a penalty for saying almost anything, so it's best to not say anything at all.
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>>34081655

That's dumb, they're all social. They post to snapchat and instagram and talk and talk before class and have a thousand friends. But it's when an adult or someone even slightly intimidating talks to them, they just clam up like they watched a dog get run over.

And I'm not into overclocking. I picked that mobo because it had a nice design and plenty of USB ports, but the K series would be a bit of a waste for my needs.
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>>34081570
Which college senpai?

OREGANO
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>>34081719
The pussification of the modern man.Men are encouraged to not speak up, to not be assertive.To listen to the voice of authority like gospel.Men get scrutiny for "beeing themselves" under these circumstances who would want to risk penalty by speaking up?

Feminism led to many problems and this is one side affect
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>>34081570
I used to be like that.

Then I forced myself to talk at least once a class, which was infinitely more than my classmates stuck at zero.

Now I've got brass fucking balls.
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small fish in a big pond
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>>34081570
>not waiting for zen

same. I'm 26 and recently re enrolled in college. Holy shit it's different. All the men have effeminate hair cuts. One was even wearing girls pants and had his nails painted. Who would have ever thought these girly men weren't just a 4chan meme. There were not nearly this many out homosexuals in 2008.
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>>34081570
Yeah I noticed the same, I'm a generally quiet person but when I went to University from the little amount of talking I did it made me seem like I was 10x more assertive and knowledgeable than I actually was as by comparison every other student was silent.

Got made team leader on literally every group assignment I ever had, it was weird as fuck.
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>>34081570
you're the weirdo for doing uni at fucking 27 kek
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>>34083259
Wanna know a terrifying secret? They're not homosexuals, they're straight men doing this because the TV told them to. They think it's what women want.
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>>34081570
It's mostly because everyone still wants to blow through class because they don't really care about it
I've had shit classes where nobody says anything and great classes where everyone is outspoken
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>>34082610
Kek! You keep hammering that nail nigga.
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>>34081570
When I went to college four years ago, that wasn't my experience at all. Only a few people were particularly quiet. Plenty of party animal types.
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>>34081570
26y/o here, they sound a lot like me when I was that age. Pretty sure it's normal for young'ns.
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They don't want to get things wrong. They also know they're surrounded by equals, so in their mind everyone around them already knows the answer anyway. "Why should I bother speaking up?".
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>>34081570
I don't know but:

>Be today
>At some college introduction/orientation
>Some 7/10 qt takes interdast or something
>Absolute panic ensues
>Nothing this direct has ever happened
>She talks about Inception and how it's her favorite movie
>Mention I have it on blue ray
>She basically invites herself over to come watch it
>She lays down on my couch
>I sit on the tiny couch
>30 minutes or so in she tells me to come hold her on the big couch
>Slight panic ensues but agree
>Laying behind her, with my left arm around her
>Can smell her hair
>Can feel her breathing softly
>Can feel her heart beating
>Oh no
>I can feel the early stages of boner
>Stop it, boner
>Move my pelvis away to try to keep it away from her
>7" boner can't be kept away
>The tip touches her
>Oh no oh God
>She says she should go
>Drive of shame back to her place

Why. The first time a girl remotely takes interest, this shit happens. How the FUCK am I supposed to not get a boner? Is that normal? I would assume so. I mean wtf. Why doesn't she understand it isn't something I control?
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>>34081570
Sometimes i think its how the high schools are now.
>decide to visit old high school
>walk toward a side entrance of the school realize the gate is locked
>from what i see breifly everything looks a bit different
>fat security comes flying up on golf cart (SCREECH!)
>guard: your not supposed to be over her why are tou here?
>tell him I came to just see my old high school
>tells me i have to go up front and get a sign in key card because thats the only way you can open any doors at the school
>proceed to go to front office and get key card, they also tell me a bunch of new rules i have to abide by
>walk through campus quickly realize it now looks like a fucking high security prison, every door the key card has to be used to open also cameras and security everwhere.

It was super weird and instead of the kids talking to their friends in the halls they would just quickly shuffle to the next class.

and all the kids had their id on a lanyard around their neck. Freaked me out.
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>>34085428
This seems hard to believe. School was nothing like that for me just ten years ago...
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>>34085465
It is real though, I remember teachers saying that things at the school were going to change after my senior year which was only four years ago and the school really changed.
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>>34081570
Hey, at least there's always a few vocal communists.
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>>34081570
Does an ATX PSU fit inside an ITX case?
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Yuri Bezmenov warned us about the social engineering that was happening decades ago. The product of that propaganda and subversion of academia/education was Generation Z.

Now we have VERY CONFUSED and mentally ill kids who have drank this Kool-aid since birth, they hate themselves and were designed this way to be trannies, trap/futafags, and pussy fearing homos.

They are nothing more than professional activists and virtue signaling zombies who form PC hugboxes and echo chambers for social media approval in which they were raised in. These are the first people that get purged in Marxist revolutions because they are loose canons who can't think... there is an actual name for them used in the former USSR "Useful idiots".

Being weak queers isn't an innate part of their identity for most of them, they were broken by the system of "political correctness" aka critical theory. They will reach the breaking point of all homos at 25-40 and will end up necking themselves, they fight against 200,000 years of human evolution, once their looks go so do their minds. The childlessness, the weakness, the mental illness, the hypocrisy, the self-hate, the national and communal destruction these people worship will force them into that noose. If that fails they will have a nationalist group do it for them, they are death destroyers of community, culture, furry porn, and worlds.

Western society is collapsing soon. It is being propped up with the recent NZIRP, globalization, and neoliberal internationalism. These systems have run their course with movements like Brexit and their boogeyman of "the alt-right" which is just sane society forming a stable base.

Just like the furfag community, real life accept these people without hazing them into strong people. Even the furfag community likes its "women" with dicks instead of pussies now, they are completely broken to their core and the rates of mental illness reflect this fact.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLqHv0xgOlc
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>>34084654
She wanted to have sex. She got tired of you not making a move and she decided to leave. Girls are very passive and they expect men to do all of the work.
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>>34084654
Sounds like she was interested in you and wanted to have sex.
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I saw a deal earlier today where you could
get an RX480 for $159 after rebates.

http://wccftech.com/amd-radeon-rx-480-absolute-steal-price-today/
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>>34081570

Because there's no benefit in being social anymore.

Why speak at all if a dick like you is going to shit on them for it?

The social game has never been more important in terms of success. People don't want to fuck it up. Any time you are talking to someone who is not a friend, you risk fucking it up.
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>>34081570
>>34086097

BTW
You don't need 32GB ram unless you are running multiple virtual machines. You don't a 1080 unless you are using CUDA apps (which you probably aren't paired with an i5), it makes more sense to buy a 6GB 1060/70 and upgrade in a few generations. Nothing is really GPU limited and won't be for years.

If you don't like noise get a better case like a Fractal R4/5. Especially so you can cannibalize it for easier building for decades to come. Great dust filters and usability.

250GB SSD serves my needs for OS/games, you can probably downgrade safely unless you have your entire steam library installed that needs the loading time increases.
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>>34081570
With access to the internet, youths inevitably encounter the behemoth that is the realization that they don't know shit and they become socially crippled because of it. Basically they're so scared of ridicule from sounding dumb that they end up unable to socialize with strangers whom they perceive as potentially being more in the know then them.
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I'm from eastern Europe so I actually get to witness the transition from a relatively normal society to an Americanized hellhole. The number of faggots, dykes, commies, green-haired abominations and all other kind of freaks is growing exponentially. The poisonous social media culture has almost completely replaced old-school socialization. It feels like everyone is living inside his/her own bubble, you can't even ask a young person what time it is without getting a nervous reaction and the impression that you're interrupting him, breaking his own little bubble. It's basically an epidemic of autism.

I'm at uni as well and I've lost all hope. Grew up in a very conservative household, taught to be extremely polite and respectful. You get the idea. It turned out that the vast majority still didn't/never will grow out of the teenage mindset, my colleagues are a bunch of overgrown degenerate kids. It is both sad and terrifying and I'm genuinely worried what will become of this society in 20 years, this can't go on for much longer.
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Just remember this society failed you before you failed it. You owe it nothing.
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>>34082610
You're an idiot, that's not why.

>>34081719
20 year old semi normie here, snapchat and instagram make people pseudo-social. They're too afraid to speak up because they constantly see people getting berated and made fun of by millions of people on the internet. Facebook, instagram and snapchat just encourage following the current trends and memes to fit in, as such nobody really knows how to socialise properly

we're in a post, post ironic society friend better start not talking to me before I have my coffee in the morning or i'll kill myself from depression xD
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>>34084528
>>34081570

yo mature age students are the fucking worst, if I re enroll this year or next at 20 or 21 or 22 at the latest, am I going to be one of those weirdo old fucks or will i be right on the cusp?
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>>34081570
might be because every possible interaction was grounds for discrimination charges based on sex / ethnicity throughout their life.
Regular old trouble-making and punishment doesn't exist anymore, everything is a potentially serious psychological issue landing you uncomfortably intimate talks (especially for teenagers) instead of ye olde extra hour of math or writing a page essay on some bullshit
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>>34081570
why would you buy so garbage proc with that monster rig
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>>34081570
>tfw no K processor
i like the 32GB RAM meme
I got Phanteks Enthoo Pro M without the faggy window. 8/10 good tower.
Also I am more of a be!quiet man. suits the thread more.
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>>34086755
also SSD is a waste of money
32 gig ram too if you arent planning on some special shit
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it hurts me when some kid volunteers a retarded answer and makes me think less of him, which makes him less of a person. i don't think anything of students that volunteer the correct answers because most of the time i know the answer too and if i don't then i'm not surprised or think that they're particularly intelligent because they got it right.

what's the point in taking this risk? it seems like 95% of the students say nothing so why would i put myself in the minority?
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>>34087078
1) boredom
2) politeness (it can get quite awkward for the tutor/prof if nobody is willing to answer his questions)
3) boredom
4) distinguish oneself from the others for willing to partake in a discussion (mostly for brownnosing reasons)
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