Anyone else never even try?
I've never asked a girl out, because I already know what the answer would be.
>>34066840
You're a pussy anon, it's okay.
>I've never asked a girl out, because I already know what the answer would be.
You did well. I asked one girl in 2015 and the rejection fucked over my life. I'm still not over it. Probably never will.
I was living in a delusion where I thought I was average looking on to find out how unattractive I really am.
It's not worth the risk if you already know you're going to be rejected.
>>34066840
Try telling random girls they're pretty this week. If you feel awkward or anything, you can immediately dip, they already admire that you went up to them.
>>34066885
fuck that lol
are you crazy
>>34066885
Sorry, I'm not attractive enough to do this without getting the police called. I'll stick to not trying.
>>34066885
No they don't. Not if you're ugly. They will take the compliment as an insult.
>>34066888
What's going to happen? Are you going be physically hurt? If you face your fear, you will feel better. She says no, but you learn something towards your next girl
If there's even a slight chance that I might not succeed at something, I'd rather not even bother trying. I can't deal with rejection or failure of any kind.
>>34066876
God, is your ego and self-image that fragile to the point where one rejection simply shattered your self-esteem? Who cares, there are over 3 billion separate existences with a vagina on this planet.
>>34066840
I tried once because a co-worker said he'd hit me if I didn't.
She actually agreed to a date, but I blew her off to get high because I was nervous.
That was when I was like 20, I'm 32 now and haven't made the slightest effort since then.
>>34066914
http://www.mensfitness.com/hot-girls/why-do-hot-girls-sleep-with-ugly-guys
>>34066918
>What's going to happen?
every horrible assumption and fear about myself will be confirmed in one instant
>>34066947
Wow, is this a scientific journal? Fascinating stuff.
Wait, it's not. It's just some woman's opinion piece. Stop.
>>34066951
No, you will soon realize that these are just assumptions after you've talked to a few girls. Try hitting the gym, you will not only get more attention, but you will feel more attractive. That is key, you will feel like you have made their life better by allowing them to talk to such a confident and good looking person.
>>34066929
Dem shorts.
>>34067016
>such a confident and good looking person
Who? Is there someone behind me?
Yeah here's how it went.
>girl I like for a year
>sometimes she flirts with me
>never had a boyfriend*
>really popular
>I'm not ugly
>I ask her to go to a movie with me
>she says "like a date?"
>I said "haha why you want to go on a date with me?"
>"no I'm just trying to figure out what your asking? "
>I have a gift card so I say
>" I'll pay for you so yeah like a date"
>"she says look I see you as a friend and it will never be anything more than that"
>just text back
>ok and block her number
How did I do
>>34067096
Getting girls as a robot is hard..
But pretty good you tried to fake it.
>>34067096
Here. This for you
>>34067168
She's a meanie for sure
>>34066840
I do not try because I do not want to bother people.
>>34066951
Women aren't as evil as you think they are or as evil as they were in middle school.
>>34066929
I fapped to this, but I'm not gay.
Is it ok?
>>34066929
Not him but yes my ego and self esteem is that fragile. I know the worst case scenario doesn't happen often, but there is a chance, and that is a risk I'm not willing to take
>>34066885
You wanted what?
Ohh you wanted(you)
but the real questions is,
where is stanley?
>>34066840
I've never asked a girl out but I have been asked to the prom and asked out on dates by 4 different women.
Turned every single one down because I was afraid I'd embarrass myself.
Now I'm a 24 year old virgin.
>>34066840
Same, no girl ever shown interest in me and while I could make male friends females always kept me away since 1st grade, no point in even trying.
>>34066840
I want to go back
>asked out a girl once
>she was my internet gf for a little while
>she was shifty as fuck
>ended up leaving in a way that caused an anxiety attack and 3 days of illness for me
>am now afraid of growing attatched to females
>am now afraid of getting hurt like that again
Never asked a gurill out, never will; the best relationships usually got started by girl asking guy, same way my dad, and mom gone.
And besides that, I'm shy as fuck, thinking of holding hands makes adrenaline rush in my veins...
>>34069444
Greentext please, anon?nice trips btw
I know I'm not good enough for a relationship, so I've never bothered
no point in disappointing someone, yknow?
How can i ask someone out? How can i do it without sounding creepy/awkward? because i think my crush also likes me but i dont know how to start.. Thats really annyoing..
>>34069880
Step 1. Be attractive
Do not proceed if you fail this step
>>34069880
Roll a 20 on charisma check
>>34069880
If you think you're creepy, you're probably creepy. Sorry anon.
>>34069978
I am. What's step 2?
>>34070030
Ask her to come with you to some event. Or coffee.
>>34070015
I said creepy because i found her twitter and her college ID number
>>34069880
i guess when i see her next time (after a month) i'll ask for her number. fuck being shy it wont get me anywhere