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https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/3n24ge/my_adult_son_is_a_lost_cause_and_i_feel_ashamed/
What do you think your parents think about you?
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>Guy is probably depressed as fuck
>His mother calls him extremely lazy
>Now the whole internet is talking shit about him
>"Why don't he get out there into the real world? :^("

I fucking hate normies. She probably hasn't even tried to line up a job for him or helped him to learn to drive or anything like that - probably just outright said "go do it" and expected the best because that's how normies think.
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they're pretty disappointed in me but for some reason they're clinging to the idea that i'm secretly brilliant and can succeed. they also dislike my political ideas and try to shit on them when they can
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Tough to say, I'm not really sure. I Still live with them, but have a shitty job. I also do some yard work around the house, which my dad doesn't do. They say they are proud of me, but they might just be trying to convince themselves. I think this guys only option if he is kicked out is suicide. That's my go to if it ever happens to me.
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I think they have given up on me and blame themselves at this point.
They used to hold a blowtorch to my ass constantly though.

>that feel when none of us actually respect each other
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>>34057129

Why is it someone else's job to find him a job though? He's not looking because he doesn't want a job and actually doesn't need one. The mother is completely enabling him by buying vidya for him, providing meals, laundry, all the other shit she provides for him for free
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>>34057080
im almost certain if they could have a 3000th trimester abortion they would.
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>rich parents
>have had everything i've ever wanted, first car was a porsche, etc
>extremely depressed and unmotivated because I realized everything is pointless and I already have what every other human is striving for
>after high school alienate friends because they only wanted to be friends for my money
>have only ever had one friend since forever
>he's a mixed black guy
>he's chad as fuck and extremely motivated because he was poor
>he's a junior in college, going to become a physical therapist
>we hang out every year or so
>he came over last week
>go out to eat with dad and him
>i've never seen my dad look more disappointed in me than he did while my friend told him about how his school and life was going
>mfw

yolo
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i'm pretty sure I'm a disappointment to them. I've been the black sheep ever since I can remember.

>>34057129
god i hate this mindset in people. they terrorize you with their depictions of "the real world" as you're growing up and then get mad at you for feeling scared. they're like dogs who chased a cat up a tree and then act like it's the cat's fault for getting stuck
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>>34057080
>see that title
>this better not be about me
>oh thank god
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>>34057080
>What do you think your parents think about you?
"Why don't you have children yet." "Your siblings have given us grandchildren, but not you." "Get a girlfriend."
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I'm 21 and identical to that woman's son, I suppose my mother feels the same may about me
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>>34057679
>grew up poor and got ridiculed for it as a kid
>parents slowly climb the income ladder
>become lower middle class in high school
>dad lands obscenely good job in last year
>apply for student loans because parents think I'll be more motivated to study if it's my bills to pay
>get denied due to family income
>parents still won't pay and request I work for it myself
>get mediocre job but literally cannot earn enough to keep up with tuition hikes
>can't declare financial independence until I moved out
I just wanted to go to college
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>>34057862
>I already have what every other human is striving for

But you didn't. People certainly do strive for material things, but they also strive for things like achievement and human connection. You dun memed yourself.

>>34057862
shit thats rough, what are you doing now?
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>>34057623
>Why should someone who is his parent, probably has more social contacts and hates her son living at home help him find a way out of home

Next you're going to tell me he should go in and look the manager in the eye and give him a firm handshake
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>>34057936

>they also strive for things like achievement and human connection

you fell for the jewish meme my friend
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>>34057679
Oh boohoo. Kys.
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>>34058050

don't respond to my posts poor kid
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>>34057623
Parenting isn't about doing it for them or doing nothing, it's TEACHING AND RAISING. If she raised him well as she claims, then she shouldn't be worried about kicking him out because he will be able to use the skills gained through his developing years to make something of himself. She is worried because this is clearly not the case and she didn't do what she was supposed to, so now her son can't do what he's supposed to on his own. Notice her lack of elaboration on his pre 20 years or any specifics on what she has actually done to turn him into a productive person.
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>>34057080
Copied from another thread:

I'm by no means successful but I'm better than I've ever been. All I want is my family to be proud of me but literally nothing satisfies them
>2 year long suicidal tier depression
>0 friends
>haven't left room in months
>NEET, spend all day in bed either sleeping or watching porn
>Parents talk shit about me being lazy
>Find motivation to get a job
>"Anon you can't just go back and forth from work and home and have nothing else going on in life"
>Start leaving home in search of friends
>Finally make friends at comm. college
>go out with friends at least once every 1 or 2 weeks
>"Too bad you don't have any real friends or you could move out and be roommates with one of them"
>become a normie, get invited to parties, go out to watch sports games, eat at restaurants, go to gym, normie shit
>"You're wasting away in your room anon, we worry about you"
>Stop working part time at job and begin full time
>"You need to get a real job"
>tfw your family will never get off your fucking back
Even if you successfully become a normie, the people closest to you will still find some fault in you

JUST
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>>34058739
Kill them maybe?
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