Is it better to stay a virgin or lose it to a fat chick?
My personal situation is that I'm kissless virgin about to turn 20 and a female friend wants to have sex with me.
I'm thinking I may aswell keep waiting for someone who isn't a foot shorter than me but weighs several pounds more.
>>34046429
What level of fat are we talking about?
Chubby / curvy is no problem.
Lardgut level and above is an abort.
Pics?
>>34046429
Are you attracted to her? That's all that really matters.
I wouldn't say curvy really but she has nice boobs.
I would estimate 5ft and ~160lbs
No pics of her worth sending, she has a pretty face, its just her weight stopping her being attractive I guess
>>34046429
Get practice asap, just make sure that 1.) she isn't disgustingly ugly (in case people find out) and 2.) make sure to make it clear that it's a friend with benefits thing. You don't want to look like the bad guy, once she falls for you (she will or even already has).
>>34046429
Do it if you don't really have to see her socially.
Could be amazing and you find you grow to love eachother get married etc.
She might just be a big mess of a person like her large exterior would lead you to believe.
So long as you can cut loose if shes terrible I don't see the problem.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
>>34046590
THAT'S A WHALE SON
>>34046594
That was my thinking, practice makes perfect.
I've made it pretty clear that I am in no way able to have a relationship right now but I do know that she at least had a crush on me when we were like 17
do it
tap dat thicccness
>>34046648
Then do it. Use protection though. Don't believe women, when they tell you that they are on the pill unless you can trust them 110%. My buddy has to pay for a child that he didn't want because he made that mistake.
>>34046429
I mean if you have the opportunity you might as well. I'm a virgin though so what do I know.
>>34046594
The friends with benefits thing sounds like sage advice
>>34046674
She showed me her implant so I know I'm good there. I guess STDs are a risk, she told me before when she tried to have sex with me that she doesnt like condoms (i said i didnt have any condoms on me as an excuse to not do it at the time)
>>34046729
Proceed on your own risk. Usually you can insist on both of you getting tested before leaving away the condoms but if she knows that you're a virgin she might be butthurt because it translates to "I don't trust you" instead of "both of us should be save".
>>34046762
I can't think of anyway to make sure she's STD free. It would definitely suck to get an STD first time too.
If I decide to wait, is their an age were being a virgin is weird or can I just say "i'm waiting until x"
>>34046819
It depends on how easily you get into situations like that/how hard of a time you have with girls. I know guys who didn't lose it until their mid-twenties because they chose to wait. They obviously could have gotten laid sooner though.
From my own experience, all I can tell you is that I don't regret practicing with a less than stellar girl. It helped me becoming more confident to the point where I got really good with girls. If you're in the same boat, you might want to take advantage of the situation. At least finger-bang her and get your dick sucked etc.
>>34046869
>practicing with a less than stellar girl
That's funny because OP's girl is roughly the shape of a sun.
>>34046894
I guess round is a type of curvy though right? at the very least 1 curve
>>34046942
An hourglass is curvy, a keg is round.