How are monogamous relationships supposed to work?
In particular, how are people supposed to not feel resentment towards their partners and jealousy towards other couples when they see that other people are more physically attractive than their partners?
I ask this as someone with a cute, nice, loving gf whom I could picture myself very happy with, except for the fact that there are girls FAR hotter than her who I can't help but lust after.
i used to think my gf was sub-par looking but now she's the sexiest girl on earth to me, just give it time anon.
This is why "clingyness" i.e. loyalty is ideal, and also why it's despised by whores because it reminds them of their disgusting whoredom.
>>34032113
how long did it take? it's been 6 months since i first asked if she wanted to hold my hand and she said yes
>>34032217
i think i understand what you're saying. if i understand correctly, you mean having few past partners, so as to reduce the number of mental comparisons one makes against their current partner?
>>34032113
Essentially this, you'll eventually find them to be perfect, even if you know they are realistically not that good looking
>>34032113
basically this, once you fall in love with the actual person the looks start mattering less
>>34032063
You're supposed to do things as a couple and become invested in eachother.
You know, so the disentangling yourselves from eachother would be a painful and stupid decision causing huge collateral damage.
And grass is greener becomes less true because strange, hotter women won't have that sense of security, rapport or trust. Or your biological children or the like.
You should probably get to know your cute, nice, loving gf better.
>>34032113
Really? I never felt this way about my first gf. I thought she was okay at first but then i resented myself for being with her because I wanted someone else that looked a lot better.
i have no idea how girls date ugly guys or betas
even 7/10 fucks me up i can't look.
>>34032063
>except for the fact that there are girls FAR hotter than her who I can't help but lust after
That's how relationships work. You don't have to become loyal. The ones who do only do it because they realize they can't do anything but lust after other girls, and it's better to have a girl in hand. Loyalty isn't but the expression of desperation, that's why, in a weird display of general honesty, it's called clinginess and despised.
Women always do that. Your gf mentally compares you to every man she meets, and if you fall below average she won't doubt in changing you. A lot of girls are with their bfs just to not be alone and bid their time until someone better appears.