>20 >still romance blue pilled and still think of relationships

>>33334839
relationships are romantically oriented
when girls meet a dude they actually like they think "I better not sleep with him right now so I he doesn't lose interest in me after having gotten what the average male desires, sex"

but that is to say, romantic relationships are romance oriented
sexual relationships are sexually oriented
those same girls can find a dude they would never want to associate with on a daily basis but still get thrown around the bedroom because he's handsome or a good lay

Guys are the exact same way

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>>33334903
>but that is to say, romantic relationships are romance oriented
>sexual relationships are sexually oriented
>those same girls can find a dude they would never want to associate with on a daily basis but still get thrown around the bedroom because he's handsome or a good lay
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>Guys are the exact same way

These lines are blurred heavily. I have trouble figuring out reality. At this point I'm starting to think that all relationships are sexually oriented and I'm just a lovey dovey blue pilled cuck.

Some people are just meant to be alone, not everyone falls in love or is entitled to it. I feel when I see a bum on the street that this is simply the way it is. Of course, looks matter, height matters, race matters etc. In a chiefly sexual perspective but I'm convinced we're just horny monkeys and romantic love was just make-believe for medieval nobles.

I feel like when I see a married couple, that they've just settled or married out of convenience or obligation. Historically men would marry off their daughters or arrange marriages, with the intent of bearing children.

And that's all I see now. I still wake up in the mornings wishing I had someone in my arms but it seems I'm the fool moping around in la la land while the true primal nature of the world sits before me, mocking me with feelings of loneliness and misery.

>>33335088
How old are you anon? How long did it take for the world to erode your beliefs in the magic of romance? I ask because I fear I'm slowy becoming you.

>>33335511
I'm 20, but it only began really striking me when I was 17 or so, around the same time that I lost interest in video games and anime because I realized that by playing old games and watching old anime I was just living in someone elses past, alone, where everyone else had already moved on.

>>33335555
CONSOLATION GET

>>33335555
FUCK YOU FAGGOT R5555555

>>33335555
At least this guy isn't a fag

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THIS IS THE EPITOME OF /r9k/

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>>33335555

CONSOLATION GETTED

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>>33335555
I hope Gwen makes you feel better, Anon. :)

https://youtu.be/NxNVPEKpOS0

>>33334839
>still think of relationships as romantically oriented first and foremost and sexually second
Maybe you'd benefit from dropping both and viewing them as goal oriented. The romance and the sex create a bond, but the most meaningful relationships are about what you can achieve as a unit.

>>33335689
>but the most meaningful relationships are about what you can achieve as a unit.
THERE MUST BE SOME KIND OF WAY OUT OF HERE