I was told when I'm older all my fears would shrink.
>>32423957
Who the fuck told you that??
They don't just magically shrink, why would anything magically shrink?
gotta face them yourself, and gotta make yourself uncomfortable until you're comfortable being uncomfortable.
I wish I could shrink.
It is not the fear that shrinks, it is the ego that shrinks.
>>32423957
But now I'm insecure and I care what people think
>>32424177
Hello, blurryface
>>32424177
yeah, it's called life.
don't worry, you'll get over it when you're older.
>>32424192
I care what you think
>>32424305
I hope you're being ironic
>>32423957
No, they don't sink, they multiply exponentially, as well as your sex drive for porn
>>32424352
having your fears shrink and being socially insecure are two different things, even if you relate the two.
as you get older you'll see.. well.. you won't see, but you'll LEARN that social encounters are not only not that big a deal but that it's also not that difficult to hear a point and to simply express your honest curiosity and opinion.
now, obviously when I say learn.. >>32424120 gotta be comfortable with being uncomfortable for a bit.. it gets easier though, and when it gets easier, DON'T think for a second that you can mentally relax, keep your guard up until you're a full person again.
>>32424120
they could just tell us that, instead everyone acts like>>32424305, leaving us unprepared for life ready to get fucked over
>>32423957
they do, kind of. your fears sort of just metastasize into existential dread that you actively work against.
i wouldn't say they go away, but "shrink" sounds right. it's part of accepting that life is mostly shit, i guess
>>32424650
How many layers of irony are you operating on
>listening to 21 pleblots
>>32425055
not irony.
as I said, you "WILL". whether you like it or not.
or you can try and claim some retard cheques from the government