Someone on the jpsphere once told me, "I feel bad for the

Talk to people and listen to them without saying anything about yourself.

faggot alert

I think you're looking at this the wrong way t b h. Being "boring and irritating" are traits of failing to respect context. Being a "good person" is a trait of successfully respecting context.

I feel your wording says you got it already actually but you have to consider someone else first, and from that create content which respects them. When you say "shed all the terrible things about myself" it's exactly that, though at least only when introduced to someone else. Basically stop imposing yourself, and instead work to affirm the extent of those you care about, which is all "good" action is.

It's the difference between (in the context of being good for someone) defaulting to picking someone up and carrying them safely, vs. defaulting to whatever action you've selfishly decided feels best to yourself. Being a "good person" to another should be a selfless "you first" thing, so ever doing anything without first ensuring it respects whomever you care for means you've failed. You have to "shed" that selfishness, as you say.

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>>1453449
I don't know how to be myself

>>1453563
Yourself doesn't matter. Be who you must for those you love.

>>1453567
I don't know what I must be

>>1453570
Ok well I'm sure you're avin a giggle at not reading a word of my original post, but my message was a person provides context. Respect the person. Do for the person. Being a bastard to someone isn't doing for the person, it's doing for yourself, which is why it fails and may hurt them. But you're on your own after this

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>>1453570
Become who you are.

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