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Not married yet, but my girlfriend wants to keep her last name.

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Not married yet, but my girlfriend wants to keep her last name. What are /pol/'s thoughts/advice? Is it just a worthless symbol I should just let go or is it something that should not be compromised under any circumstance?
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>>91480088
nasty nas!
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What's her son's name?
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>>91480088
C U C K

J E W

KYS
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>>91480088
>that pic
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>>91480088
offer her a compromise on a mattter she will object to.
find a way to tie the 2 together.
then let her come to the decition she preffers the other thing over keeping her name
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>>91480088
It's best for her to keep your last name, though as long as your kids have yours it isn't majorly important in the long run.
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>>91480088
it doesn't matter at all. your child will have your name by law and she will be called yourname-hername most of the time. it's just some feminist nonsense that should not be something that ruins your relationship or even warrant making a thread about. also your picture is horrible, kill yourself.
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>>91480384
this

Maybe she can keep her maiden name as a middle name?
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>>91480088
>Is it just a worthless symbol
Yes, like marriage. Remind her of that
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My wife tried that shit to. Put your foot down. They all subconsciously want a dominate (not tyrant) man to be the leader. Be the leader.
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>>91480088
as long as she doesnt try hypenating your kids names, youre fine
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>>91480088
Leave the bitch
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its a shit test, she wants to make sure she has a good man, even if its not intentional
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>>91480485
fuckin smoked: "Honey, you taking my name is as important a symbol to me as our marriage"

No good way out of that one, bitch.
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>>91480384
This, the jew way to deal with problems.
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>getting married
Should have been like the guy in the OP. Now you're relegated to sucking your wife's toes. Hope she has some good ones, for your sake.
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My wife didn't change hers, but then life got harder and she changed it to mine.

Shree doesn't see you s her provider, basically. If she had saved her from something maybe she would.

I didn't care, I wanted kids only, and I got them.

The real shit test will come after marriage and kids when the romance dues completely
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>>91480088

Serious answer:

What will you name children? Some mestizo-style hyphenated shit?

If you're not having kids, do whatever you want. But the question of children should cut to the core of the issue; is she trying to emasculate you, or is it a matter of familial pride?

Also, please tell me that's a nigger sucking another nigger man's toes, because if those are supposed to be she-nigger toes...
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>>91480088

It's fucking simple. She takes your name. It's a form of submission. Submission makes her moist. Submission tells her that she can trust you because you are a man enough to make her to submit.
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>>91480088
My girlfriend wanted to keep her last name, because her mom had married like 4 times and she hated her mom always switching names.

The day I told her to marry me is the same day I told her that she would be taking my last name, and it wasn't up for discussion. Sure enough, she happily took my last name and has never, ever complained. It's not something she'll resent. In fact, it'll get the motor running when you call her "Mrs. <Your Last Name>", because it makes everything seem real, final, concrete, stable, and settled, which is what women really value in a marriage.
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>>91480088
anything to stay out of jail , I guess.
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>>91480088
>What are /pol/'s thoughts/advice? I
Depends on if she is from a prestigious family
Are you and Habsburg to your children's name?
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If she doesn't want your name, she doesn't want to be married. Marriage is making a family from two people. Families share a family name, period.

What do you get out of marriage? You're sticking your neck out to do this. You stand to lose so much, and she stands to lose nothing, and she's already got one foot out the door if she doesn't want to take your family name.

You absolutely must put your foot down. I did. My wife took my name. I wouldn't have gotten married otherwise.

Marriage is a sacrifice by the male. The woman gets everything. The least she can do is make a symbolic gesture of loyalty.
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>>91480088
As long as the kids get your name, it's okay
But if she want them to get dash bullshit, quit
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>>91480088
>Not married yet, but my girlfriend wants to keep her last name.

Not married but should I ever wife some girl up I couldn't give a flying fuck if she took my name or not BUT the kids would have my name, and my name only (no double-barrel bullshit), or there would be no marriage.
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Is she a doctor or high-ranking professional with a lot of name recognition? That's pretty much the one circumstance where it might be acceptable.
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>>91480088

I'd argue it's better she doesn't tbqh. I've never understood the point of your wife stealing your surname, especially given the hassle involved. Why can't she keep her own damn perfectly functional surname? Why aren't women ever happy with what they have?

I would insist on any children having my surname though for historical reasons. Irish surnames are old as fuck and I wouldn't want to sever that centuries/millennia-old tradition because of some fashionable but ultimately transient notions of political correctness. If I had some shit-tier English common-as-muck tradesmen surname though I wouldn't give a shit.
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>>91482553
>marring a career woman
>ever
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>>91480088
Lol shes already preparing for the divorce. Sure picked a winner.
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nas lost
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>>91480088
Break up with her, im 100% serious. I would never accept that, even if she had literature published with her maiden name i would not accept it.

Your ancestors would be ashamed.
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>>91481507
can comfirm

my dad is a cuck'd homo and ny name is double barrel'd. in spite of the faggot i took my mothers name
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>>91480088
nas??
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>>91480384
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>>91480088
It's extremely cucked to have your wife keep her own name or hyphenate. Sorry, but your fiance is a femtardo
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>>91480088
Is that a fucking Bigfoot?
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>>91482851
kek, ops kids will probably do this
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>>91480088
The clearest sign in the world that it won't work. It already is about her to the point where you're not a partner but an object or collectable. Her drama your suffering wait for better or nothing at all.
>That better be photoshop.
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>>91480088
Tradition states that she should adopt your last name, because after marriage she is now part of your family, not her birth family.

I wouldn't marry a women that do not respect traditions
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>>91482734
Seriously anon, you absolutely MUST insist. When she said yes to marriage, she said yes to taking your name. They are part and parcel.

She's modifying the deal as if it's a negotiable component. It isn't.

If your wife has a different last name, everyone will know what it means. She wears the pants. She runs shit and you're just tagging along. It's an embarrassment. DO NOT ACCEPT IT.
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>>91482892
in quebec you have to hyphenate
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>>91480088
>but my girlfriend wants to keep her last name
kek you're as cucked as you are fucked if you marry her
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she doesn't love you enough to enter in to a proper union, you should not get married to her to begin with, what it says to me is that she doesn't want the trouble of changing it back once she inevitably divorces you
anyone who would pull something like that is also bound to have a ton of other red flags as well
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>>91480384
bro that is some shakespearean shylock for that ass holy fuck
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Been there desu. It's not so bad.

My wife compromised and kept her fathers (who had died 5 years prior to our marriage) surname and hyphened it with my surname at the end.

Both of our children took my surname with no discussion otherwise.

The best option is to talk openly about the issue, whatever it may be, and come to an agreement on a decision.
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>>91483002
>de Alcântara João Carlos Leopoldo Salvador Bibiano Francisco Xavier de Paula Leocádio Miguel Gabriel Rafael Gonzaga
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>>91480088
> my girlfriend wants to keep her last name

So she wants to keep her father's name. Right?
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>>91480088

Don't let a possibly good marriage go to waste because of your or her last name.
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>>91480384
fucking jews man why are you so smart
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>>91480266
>that reaction image
fuck off to reddit
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>>91480088
Is this how "Nasty" Nas got his name?
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>>91480437
I FAPPED TO THIS HELP ME /POL/
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>>91483121
That's a nobility thing.
Nobles don't use surnames.

The portuguese kings used "de Bragança" in their names, but it wasn't a surname, just the name of their property
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>>91480088
I'm in the same situation

throughout our years together I've convinced her to hyphenate, but I will not be taking her name at all. Her argument is that originally it was to show the husbands ownership of the wife, but I argue that that's not the purpose anymore, and that it's just a traditional thing.

I don't get it, because she wants to have a traditional marriage, but is the minister going to say "ladies and gentlemen for whats probably the 1000th time, Mr. Bennett and Mrs. REDACTED"?

That sounds fucking retarded.
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OP has already abandoned thread, he probably got a little sore when he realized how big of a cuck hes being even ASKING this question.
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fuck it I'm saving that picture that is some powerful nightmare shit for some house of horror Halloween fun.
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>>91483349
dump her, christ my gf would never do any of this shit. Are you a recent reddit convert out of curiosity?
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>>91483348
Except they dont own most of the names they have
They just come from that house
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>>91483349
She is obviouslly not traditional.
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>>91480088
Let her keep her first name.
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>>91480088

Missus wanted to keep her last name when we got married.
> I told her I would leave her if she didn't take my name.

Our first child together she wanted to have a double barrelled last name mine/hers
>I told her I would leave her if the child didn't have my name.

Funnily enough the chopsy cow now has my last name and the kid has my last name.

>MFW posting on Poland as a Brit with a fit Slav wife and have polish flag for 2 weeks

KURWA PIEROGI
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>>91483481
Nope, been on 4chan since around 2010-2011 in fact.

Started on /b/ like any newfag would, went to /int/ and eventually found my way here about a year and a half ago.

I don't plan on dumping her over the fact that she has some childish opinions that don't matter. I don't get into a relationship and give it up over something dumb like this. I get into a relationship with the intention of starting a family, and until she proves she is incapable of doing that, I'm going to keep trying.

>>91483551
Yeah, but her family is, and I think that's why she wants a traditional wedding.
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>>91483515
Of course not.
"de Bragança" was just a important property, the Duchy of Braganza. Their heir apparent use this title because it is a important one.
They sometimes used the names of their ancestors or os the saints(de Alcântara cames from a saint) to honour them.

Some habsburgs used the "of Austria/von Osterreich" because it indicated their most important property too.

The Hohenzollern from Romania used "of Romania" as last name.
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>>91480088
My fiance has an awesome last name that speaks to get heritage and sense of family. When we get married, she'll take my last name because she understands that having out family is paramount and she respects me as a man.
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>>91483930
>tfw it's a tradition in my family to have the first son's middle name be the fathers name
>tfw this is pretty important to me, but my gf might want to have her maiden name be the first childs middle name.

I will make a compromise, my first daughters middle name will be her maiden name, but my first sons middle name WILL be my name.
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>>91483975
Then how is it not a surname?
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>>91483954
>Yeah, but her family is, and I think that's why she wants a traditional wedding
Then dump her. That confirm she is unfit to be a wife and mother
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>>91480088
What will the kids names be? You going to hyphenate their last names? What happens when they have kids? Is there going to be three last names? So the kids won't have the same last name as both you and your wife? Don't you think that's going to be confusing?
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>>91484148
>>91483975
Just to be clear I am not disagreeing I am just pointing out there are times it is acceptable to add her name
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>>91480437
Holy shit that picture
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>>91484148
Surnames are a thing for plebs, so state could identify people easily.
That's in most of West europe
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>>91484383
Only if you're a poorfag and she is from a Rotschild-tier wealthy family.
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>>91480088

If your family history is shit then let your family surname die.
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>>91480088

It really depends. If she has a higher class name, keep it for your kids, as it will totally help then in life.

Both of my parents have old German nobility names that were made pseudo illegal in Germany proper. My mother's maiden name/family is respectable, and I personally wouldn't have mindes bei g hyphenated.

9 times out of ten it is an absolute shit test though, if she wants her name but your marriage she's a hypocrite.
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When I got married I asked my wife to keep her own name. When it comes to taxes, splitting stuff up, being beneficiaries the name you have doesn't matter at all.
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>>91484373
Hispanics already do that.
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>>91484612
How "pseudo illegal" is that?
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Think of it like this OP.

If she doesn't want your last name, she really doesn't want you.

So you think a girl would object to being named Mrs Pitt? Or Mrs Decaprio?

Fuck no, they would kill to have that opportunity. So you gotta ask yourself, why doesn't she want YOUR name?

Well the answer is simple, she doesn't really respect or want you that bad, sounds like she is just settling so she doesn't want to go all the way.

Anyways not taking your name is more then just a small symbolic thing, it states the way she feels about you as a whole and what kind of future you can expect.
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>>91480384
Lel that's exactly what I did.
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>>91480088
It's the cuckiest thing ever.

Don't marry her if she won't take your name.

In fact this might be grounds to just break up with her.
It's a red flag
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>>91480088
Don't marry her. She keeps her last name. You both win. Also dump her.
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>>91480384
How to Jewing.
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>>91483037
>in quebec you have to hyphenate
is that a surprise to literally anyone?
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>>91483146
>smart
It's called being manipulative. Even stupid women do this.
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Seriously, women that keep or hyphenate their names have one foot out the door. Prepare to be divorce raped and have Chad visits in 2 years.
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>>91483954
On the one hand your being nice and calm, so i feel for you. On the other hand you are objectively a major cuck.
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>>91480088
Don't let her. If you let her she will sense weakness and use you until you are dry. You need to be firm so she gets into this with the mindset that she is not getting your money for free.
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>>91484836
The German nobility was abolished after WW2 and the use of noble names was frowned upon for awhile, probably even more so today.

So America cadet branches, those of us descended from the seventh sons of seventh sons are more common than our senior line relatives.
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You anglos/europeans are so weird with the surname changing thing. Here no one ever changes their surname
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>>91480088
My gf is the same, but because she has a unique last name and wants to keep it. Apparently it's one of those really cool, rare last names that goes back forever and ever in Ireland. I told her if we ever get married she has to change it or hyphenate with my name first.

To be determined.
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>>91480437
Not true. I know many children at the school I teach that have hyphenated names.
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>>91480088
Whats wrong with her keeping her last name?

Makes sense to me, it will look like two people who got married, not look like you married you cousin you sick fuck.
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>>91480088

The only reason a woman should keep her name is if she is older and TRULY established in her profession. I knew a scientist that had 20 years of publishing under her belt, and would literally have to start over in her field.

Personally, she uses his last name, because she is traditionally minded.

Also, every young woman who wants to keep her name is trouble. I've seen it to many times. They are not expecting to spend their life with you if they are already planning on post divorce planning.
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>>91480088
oh yeaaaaaa
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>>91488686
you obviously dont grasp the point of marriage
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>>91480088
>What's in a name
Ask yourself that.
I'd only be willing to compromise if future wife's last name was "White" so she has a double making it "White"-"Power"
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the same name makes you a team. Its your uniform as a family. Children get put on your same team. It unifies.

If she wants to keep her last name, you wont be the same team in the same way that a fully committed couple will be. Its a step away from the team, not fully leaning in.

Get a pre-nup.
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>>91480088
You can just have a double barrelled surname if you both care that much
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>>91489168
and what name will your kids take?
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>>91488926
What do you not understand germanon?

You marry someone, file papers, there is no need to have legally change her last name. People will still call you mr & mrs _xlastname_.
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>>91487042
German nobility never was abolished. Only Austria did that. Every second minister of defense is a noble. They still are a major part of the elite.
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>>91489336
like i said you dont get the point of marriage
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>>91489278
the double barrelled surname obviously that's the whole point
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>1 post by OP
>important issue that all patriarchs need to be educated on

what do?
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>>91489531
So if this shit becomes the norm the kids after that are gonna have eight last names right?

Cant we just stick to fucking tradition for once?
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>>91480088
Allow her to keep her last name but also take yours, since she's part of your family now
Anon Y. Mous marries Femanon T. Shekelberg
She becomes Femanon T. Shekelberg Mous
Spanish people do it
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>>91489468
To let your wife sleep with arab and african "refugees" your stupid chancellor let into your country. Start ww3 again kraut or have you been neutered?
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>>91480088
Cuck
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>>91480088
when I got married, I told my wife that I didnt care if she changed her name or not, but my kids would have my last name.

she changed her name so her kids would have her name too.
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Don't ever marry a woman who doesn't respect you as a man. You should walk away before it necessitates a divorce rather than simple breakup.
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>>91483037
>Frenchmen are cucks

And water is wet.
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>>91488579
there is a law that prohibits merging names that are already extended. how would you think this will look in the future? hi i'm Bill smith jones johnson williams millis taylor davis.
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>>91480088
She drops the name or you drop her. You want hypencuck kids?
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>>91490210
Whoa you sure showed him. Please tell us more on how to save Western civilization from your 60% white country.
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>>91490657
She keeps her name, why dont you marry your sister or your cousin if you want a female with the same last name as yours. You inbred hick.
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haha prepare to get cucked. her mindset is already in divorce mode lol
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>>91480088
>he thinks he's getting married
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>>91490903
There are more Whites in America than Syria-lite where you hail from. 65% of like 330 million is more than the whole population of your shitty muslim hellhole.
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>>91482851
>double barreled

What is it? Potato-Munchkin?
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>>91490635
>Caesar Imperator Lucius Aelius Aurelius Antoninus Commodus Augustus Pius Beatus Sarmaticus Maximus Germanicus Maximus Britannicus Maximus
If royals get to have long names, why not normal people?
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>>91491197
Really? This is coming from a country where big cities literally have to be abandoned because they are overrun with shitskins. Also you classify Arabs as whites, it doesn't get more pathetic than that.
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>>91480088
It's just a worthless symbol.
No need to get married.
Just live in the same house together.
Same effect.
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>>91484646
A FUCKING LEAF
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OP here. Just for clarification, we're still in uni. This is just something I thought would be good to consider. I think part of the reason may be because my surname is esoteric and hard to pronounce (Basque). Her's is Irish. I don't think she'd object to letting the kids take my name. That said, so many of you harbor absurd and unhealthy amounts of resentment. To think you all would throw a tantrum over an issue I'm calmly reflecting on is both empowering and disgusting. Too much time on /pol/ has led you to conflate masculinity with brutishness. Stop chimping out, damn. Thanks for the input.
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>>91491333
because it's forbidden by law?
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>>91491197
Bro, you don't want your wife to take your name?
>No anon, U r the cuck
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>>91491456
Hey dumbass, you just answered your own question. We keep niggers confined to cities and make flight to the White suburbs. It's also a non-issue because unlike you we can legally own guns easily. I don't understand why Germans can't own guns, yet companies like Walther make tons of great firearms right in your fatherland. We can also say kike out loud without being imprisoned.

How does it feel taking in over a million unvetted terrorists?
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>>91492135
Wtf are you talking about? Read my post here: >>91490525
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>>91480088
Why you care?
Seriously , WHY YOU CARE?
Whats the point?
Does that show how much she loves you?

Really?

Do you really think that?

And I'm ask to all you muricans.

What's the point of forcing women carry your surname?

Does your ego rises or something?

Majority of woman in my country (and I can safely bet 90 of 100) keeps her maiden name and their man don't get angry or sad.

We simply don't give a fuck.
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>>91480088
We know this is a red flag, you know this is a red flag, that's why you're asking.

I would put my foot down, tell her that she's taking your last name or there is no marriage. If she accepts lawyer up and get an ironclad prenup.
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>>91480088
My situation is pretty much entirely inverted. I don't want to marry but want to have my gf's name. What do /pol/?
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>>91492278
So it's ok to let your country be overrun and slowly become a minority when you leave the cities and fuck off to the country like a coward?
Also we can own guns, it's harder but it's actually not that uncommon.
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I'm going to give my child the option, but he will not inherite several million if he take my wifes name. I don't plan on telling either party.
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>>91480088
Dont be a cuck anon
This is only okay if you are mexicans
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As a barbaro who came to Spain and married a local here in their heretical church, there was no real choice about it, and my wife de facto kept her own name, and the kids are de facto McWhirter Lopezes. When it comes to getting Scottish passports for them, I'll just try to get ones with the first surname.

My brother is engaged to a South African, though, and she's somehow persuaded HIM to take her surname as a middle name, in "exchange" for taking our surname and relegating her maiden name to a middle name for herself too. When he told me about this, she was there too, and I didn't really have time to formulate my reaction. THe more I think about it, though, the more cucked that sounds. I wonder if i can persuade him out of it?!
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>>91493221
Family name goes back many generations. A lot extremely fucked up shit happened and I gotta let the blood that didn't flow find its place. Like hell I'll give that effort to a name that means nothing to its history. Also, I'm black, so if this is a racial feeling. Oh well.
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>>91480088
Don't get married you retard.
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>>91493206
We didn't let in niggers. They used to be useful as slaves, but are too poor and enabled by gibs to leave. They don't use condoms, so their birthrates are high.

IDGAF about how many niggers or spics there are, because I have always believed in and practiced self-segregation. Besides, interacting with niggers is easy once you figure out respect is the currency they deal in. Once you earn their respect, they don't fuck with you.
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>>91488693
How many cats did she have?
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>>91480088
>current year
>even considering getting married
anon pls
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>>91493858
>'m black, so if this is a racial feeling.
LoL, you probably have my surname, thanks to some distant many times great uncle of mine who bought your ancestor.
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>>91494205
Rural, home schooled to hell. Same farm for 9 generations. Have to start somewhere dude.
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>>91480088
Damn that pics hot.


>tfw no gf with giant feet to suck and slurp on
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>>91494184
what alternative is there? how else do we preserve the family unit?
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>>91494184
>getting married in america
>to an american woman who's not a virgin.
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>>91480088
Kek that conversation came up with me too.

She literally said
>You wouldn't want me to change anything about myself, like my last name

I said sure, you can even keep your unmarried status too. That was the end of that and now she begs me to marry her and take my last name.

Fucking bitches man I live in a country where this isn't even thought of and she tried to pull this shit with me. I take a shit on her about this every time she talks about marriage now. I've removed the feminist tendencies she had. It's pretty surprising that the feminist cancer managed to spread all the way till here.
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>>91480088
> chk'd
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>>91480088
Is that Kanye West?
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>>91480088
easy solution, don't get married. She keep her last name, you keep all 100% of your money. Fair deal.
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>>91480088
you probably have an irrelevant last name. be a man and don't commit. Or be her bitch whatever...
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Just hyphenate it
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Each of my girlfriend's parents died when she was 12 and 15, and her father's last name is very prominent and respected in our city, so she is keeping her name as First-Middle-Mothers last - Father's Last- My last name

It's one hell of a long last name, and she'll still be referred to in short as her first name with my last name, but legally it will be a 5 name long name.
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>>91480088
holy shit gross
its like im reallly on /b/
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>>91480088
This whole feminism thing makes me uncomfortable. I married my guy, never once thought of keeping my name. What's the point in marriage if your not wanting to take his name?? What would your son's think anon?????
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>>91480384
>look at flag
I don't think I have laughed this hard in a long time.
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>>91480532
this
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>>91499127
Why are women so bad with English? You don't know your from you're or plural from possessive.
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>>91480088
do you and your gf understand why this is or is it just for sake of tradition?
honestly, i didn't give a shit about changing names, it seemed unnecessary and a hastle, yet everyone makes a big deal out of it.
when i started thinking about it, and talked about it, i realised it's about what a name is.
your first name identifies you as an unique individual, and your last name shows what family you're from.
when you get married, you're part of a new family, and so your last name must change. and that's why i think it's important.

now, as the man is usually the 'caretaker' of the family, it's the mans name that gets taken / passed on to kids. i suppose it's for you two to decide who that would be in the relationship. it's most likely the latter, or not understanding the reason why, or feeling as if she's not part of her family anymore if she does change names, that she has a problem with.

just talk about it, depending on your realationship stability, it'll be fine
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>>91480088
I almost said its no big deal, but I have a lot of leftist tendencies on certain things naturally. What makes me cringe is hyphenated last names, or a man changing his last name.

Legit disgust.
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>>91480088
I have two last names thanks to my mother...
For the sake of your children's well being she has to take the FAMILY name.
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>>91480389
>>91480437
>>91480538
>>91482480
>>91482500
>>91482557
>>91483120
Too many cucks to list, don't listen to them OP
>>91483086
>>91482433
These guys get it, to even ask you that shows she has little respect for you. This is a major red flag.
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>>91499943
Sorry for shitting up your day with my grammar anon. Now if I was a feminist you would have got a completely different reply. The only people I know with hyphenated last names are the bastard children of single mothers who are at the next party looking to get pregnant for child support.
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>>91492967

Dropping your last name means dropping your family. This shouldn't happen especially if you are the only child. Last name is meant to be carried and passed down to your children with pride and respect.
How cucked can you be, or does your girlfriend have a fancy rothschild-tier nobility family name? (Which still shouldn't be the case of dropping yours, unless your family is cucked)
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>>91480384
I'm an Amerikike and this happened when my mom didn't like my dad's last name. Now I have a last name that has no meaning and no history. GG Isr
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>>91504186
Just change it to your dads.
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in my country it's now custom for the woman to keep her last name.
if you have kids however, it was law I believe (until recently) for them to have your last name.
Law changed recently and now you can "choose" if your kids have her last name of yours.
As of now, unless your last name is "gaylord", or you are a massive cuck, or she is massively richer than you, the kids have your last name.
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Major red-flag. She's not fully committed.

My ex-wife insisted on keeping her name because she had started her career already, whatever that means.

> Don't do it.
> Get a pre-nup if you do.
> Still don't do it.
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>>91480088
As long as you or your kids don't take her name it's fine
If your kids don't have your last name then your a kike
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>>91480532
And now Mrs Rosenstein is perfectly content!
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My wife kept her last name. In fact, she wanted me to take her last name. I decided not to just because of the scrutiny I'd get. Some women are just alphas, and there's nothing wrong with marrying one if you can hold your ground when it counts and get her to respect that (I've never cared much about traditions, so I relented on the last name.)

The guys on here are idiots. What's so superior about a submissive wife? I like a girl that can challenge me. Emotionally fragile men that feel like they have to prove something crave submissive wives.
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>>91506854
how did you find 4chan
CNN?
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>>91480088
wtf is wrong with those fingers? they are huge
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>>91483194

I'm here since enough to tell you that pic was common here before going to reddit and then back here so you could shitpost about it.

Fuck off YOU and lurk more
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>>91507055
I like the Wild West, flagrant nature of this place. Been here a long time. I also enjoy being hated.
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>>91492060
Time to Anglicise it famalam
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>>91507314
well it's not like anybody can stop you from coming here
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>>91507314
>>91507592
You would think
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>>91508207
You're voting for Clinton, r-right anon?
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>>91508530
But can we agree that Ron Paul was better?
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>>91508530
comfy
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>>91508768
If Ron (((Saul))) was in power these bastards would be jailed in America under full protection under US law...

NOT MY MAN!
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>>91509334
good thing you arent american
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>>91510226
Good thing too
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>>91484906

Nice, what compromise did you use for the deal breaker?
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>>91511223
He wouldnt pay for her nose reduction surgery
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She wants to keep her last name linking her Daddy.

She has father- daughter issues and probably was touched when younger.

If she doesn't change her name, leave her.

Simple
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>>91506854
How often does your wife hit you?
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>>91512587
Just when we engage in steamy S&M. Typical pol users don't know the pleasure of the male G-spot. It's science!
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>>91513061
>Male G-spot...
So she pegs you?
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>>91513346
Not quite.
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>>91513410
she punches you in your stomach?
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>>91513410
Fists you?
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>>91513975
My, my. The curiosity over such a degenerate act. It's almost as if you have repressed urges. But what do I know?
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you're getting married, so you're already cucked
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