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Why do white people abandon their parents in nursing homes?

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Why do white people abandon their parents in nursing homes?

This would never happen in other cultures.
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Why do black parents abandon their children immediately?

This would never happen in other cultures.
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Anglos kick their children out of their homes the day they turn 18
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>This would never happen in other cultures.

Yes it does.

I did work experience in an old persons home and it was a mixture of australians, chinese, japanese, vietnamese, greeks, italians, lebanese etc.

There was no black people though, but for some reason I don't think we've had a generation of blacks that can live till 85-100+ range yet.
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same one that kicks kids out at age 18. a culture where adults are expected to live by themselves in order to borrow more money to buy or rent more land from (((them)))

one extended household is not independent enough, my good goyim
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I never got it either.

These people gave up all kinds of things for damn near two decades (nowadays more) to raise their children, but they don't return the favor when the shoe is on the other foot.

The family as a unit that depends on each other has been eroded away. A family should be able to care for its members, as opposed to casting its weak out to be dependable on the government handouts. Disgusting times.
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>>135735354
fpbp
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>>135735289
Because eupenzation is consider murder in kike society at the moment. When an oldfag is no more use to society the honorable thing to do is to give them a peaceful send off so that oldfags may spend their eternity in Heaven where they get their real rest.

But currently oldfags are parasites of society and stealing the resources from from the next generation with entitlement programs such as Social Security.
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>>135735289
the same reason they aren't having kids. Indolence, greed, and immaturity.
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Boomer greed mentality

Same reason why boomers think 18 year olds should be chucked out of the house immediately even if they work at denny's minimum wage
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>>135735354
kek

but srsly, i work at a nursing home in fucking California. 8/10 clients are white.

it's just sad desu
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they do it to lengthen their life spans. whites live the longest happiest lives. that's why educated whites laugh when other races think whites will go extinct because the shitholes that are south asia, africa, and south america have huge families that will probably starve or expire in a generation
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>>135735418
>23
>live with parents
>mummy doesn't even bug me about gettin a job
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>>135735737
Niggers can't afford that shit.
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>>135735843
you better be lifting you bastard!
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>>135735354
/thread

I don't think the thread can even recover from this fucking 11/10 banter. Get fucked OP.
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>>135735858
They're covered by medicaid and medicare
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People who abandon their parents in nursing homes were usually forced out of their homes as teenagers. What goes around comes around. Pushing kids out of the nest may be just what they need to succeed, but don't expect them to welcome you into their home with open arms when you need a place to retire.
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>>135735445
>Lebanese
Thought you said lesbian for a second.
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>>135735737
It's quite simple really. The demographic change had not happened yet in the past. Of course all the old people nowadays are white, they are from a time before "applied" (forced) multiculturalism.
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>>135735289
Emt here.

Your statement is false. In any city, the shitty nursing homes are full of blacks, hispanics, aged retards, white trash, and a handful of decent people that just can't afford good care.

The good nursing homes are almost exclusively white and Jewish with a handful of Asians.

Almost all of the incompetent nurses I've come across are fresh off the boat African. One bitch tried to flush a G tube with Clorox, to keep it clean.

A g tube is a small tube that carries nutritional fluids directly into your digestive system via a small incision in the abdomen. She was pouring bleach into it.

She still has her job.
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My parents didn't put their parents in a nursing home, and I won't be putting mine in one either.

My father cared for his father - up to and including wiping his ass - right up until the day he died. In his own home.

His sister did the same for their mother.

And I'll do the same for them. Not because of how I feel about them - truth is I still have some resentment toward my parents over shit from my youth and I rarely speak to them.

I'll do it because I loved my grandparents, and they did right by them.

As for myself, I want to be in a nursing home. I've seen enough bedridden old people to know that it doesn't really matter much where the bed is.
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>>135735289
White people are the only ones who can afford it. Aren't nursing homes like $20,000 a month? If you parents don't have a house to take, I guess the nursing home can use them as a tax write off, or some other gubbament program
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>>135736110
>flush a G tube with Clorox
What the fuck
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>>135736173
Good ones are expensive, but there's plenty of super shitty ones for people living off of welfare rather than retirement money.
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My father is never going in a home. I will wipe his senile ass if I have to, just like he wiped mine when I was a baby.

The trend of abandoning our own is over.
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>>135735843
Go find a line on some steroids and dedicate your life to becoming uber-chad. Then you can boxblock roasties and laugh at their feeble attempts at swooning you. Or you can just keep fapping to porn and getting your mother to clean your crusty socks.
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>>135736173
just the best ones.

my facility is a 4 bedroom house converted into a nursing home. everyone is covered by the government
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>>135736305
god bless your heart anon.
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>>135735843
>parents keep asking me what i'm going to do after i graduate HS
>get sick of it, tell them i'm going to apply for frontline infantry
>talk to marine recruiter, go take test
>can't do 1 pushup or pullup LOL
>they still say they'll take me, go home with recruiter
>he tells my parents not to worry about my future anymore
>parents beg me not to join
>never answer recruiters calls
>nobody asks me what I want to do anymore
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I know I'll be throwing my parents into a retirement home. not to sound edgy, but I hate them
I assume the same has been for whites who do this
but I have to say I'm jealous of my Hispanic friends and their relationship with their parents. Maybe it's because I'm just a guest in their houses but they're always so nice to each other.
Even if one does move out they're always still around each other.
My Cuban neighbor is engaged, still, lives with her parents, and the husband to be moving in with her. Their family is lovely
I wish I could like my family that much.
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>>135735588
No concept of filial piety
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>>135736201
Different nurse, who looked like an extra from ace Ventura 2: when nature calls, decided that the loud popping noise from an elderly woman's arm during physical therapy was just her arthritis.

They called for an ambulance after 4 hours because the resident kept complaining of excruciating pain.

On scene, patient is pale, diaphretic, O2 saturation of 80%, and has an obvious physical deformity on her left arm.

The bitch managed to dislocate her shoulder and break her humerus. She's normally on oxygen therapy because of COPD, but was taken off because she thought it would, "quiet her down, because she was bothering other residents trying to sleep."

She's dead now due to complications stemming from the humerus fracture.

The call wasn't for arm pain. It was for a psych eval because of her screaming in pain.

These things happen ALL THE TIME, and they are taking care of your loved ones.

If you can afford it, take care of your parents. There's no way to know which rehab or nursing home is good, because they will lie to your face and intimidate people who have no way of protecting themselves.

Have fun sleeping.
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>>135735445

Longer lives are certainly part of it - comorbidities accumulate with age and there comes a point where it isn't feasible to provide the care required at home (e.g. something like very high falls risk on top of a dementia or other cognitive impairment).

Multi-generational households are also less-feasible in a heavily-urbanised environment where space is expensive and purchasing power stagnant.

That said, we don't have the cultural institutions that create the obligation to look after family members anymore and the wholesale entry of women into the workforce has more or less left the home empty of anyone who could provide care at home.
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Americans throw/used to throw out their kids at 18 so why should their kids take care of them later on?
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>>135735289
Because white people can afford to.
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>>135735289
Individualism means that people can't be forced into something, which means that even though they love their parents, they feel no duty towards them and hate supporting them (MUH SLAVERY), so they drop them off at nursing homes.
In the future, government will have to pay people to have children, raise them, educate them, to take care of others and to help others, society will be extremely materialistic. Why? Because any obligation, any duty towards other people is infringement on their own individuality - they ALWAYS have to get something out of it.
Feminism and individualism are slowly killing the family and the society.
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>>135736913
It was ok to leave at 18 when you could find decent work out of high school.

This is no longer an option, and the elderly are slowly starting to realize this.
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>>135735289

The American Indians use to leave their elderly out in the cold or snow to die.
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>>135736775
Fucking dumb fuck nurses. It's really hard to lose your license if you're honest.

I've done shit load of mistakes in my career but I've always reported it and I still have my job.
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>>135736775

What the fuck man. I've seen some unfortunate stuff in aged care, but it was mostly dodgy medication admin practices and horrendous manual handling. That and I heard about an African personal carer get deported for trying to feed a sleeping person. Flushing a PEG with bleach is a new and terrifying level of incompetence.
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>>135735289
It doesn't happen in your shitskin countries because your parents died at 35 years old.
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>>135735289
Two reasons. The facilities are there and they are affordable, including intensive medical help. And white families are not pyramids so often the burden is too great on a limited amount of children.

But it is a shame.
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>>135735289
Because white parents abandon their children at 18 and every other culture doesn't
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>>135737161
I pity Millennials' parents

>>135737275
Fed while sleeping? GTube is fine as long as head is elevated. I'm taking care of 100% dependent clients btw
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>>135735354
>>135735354
>Why do black parents abandon their children immediately?

They can take care of themselves.
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>>135735737
i mean, you guys take good care of them right? Or are you just taking the government cheddar and treating the patients like shit.
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>>135737240
>>135737275
You're now aware that our healthcare system is being used as a weapon of mass African immigration.

Obamacare guaranteed that.
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>>135737506
I'm assuming they meant regular oral feeding. Which is ridiculous. I get that they need to keep their beds full, and don't want to send anyone out for failure to thrive, however, they're just going to get sent out for aspirational pneumonia if you orally fees an unconscious or dysphagic patient.

Most nursing homes are operated by Jews and retards. Money first, care second.
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>>135737607
I get paid $12/hour. In California.

Of course at first it's all about the money but fuck who's gonna take care of these old fucks if not me. Everyone is either quitting or getting their nurse degree
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>>135737971
All my clients have gtube so we have these drip feed machines. Oral feeding a client while asleep is just plain dumb
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Naw they put me in a mental hospital which causes my life to turn to shit. I look forward to returning the favor.
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>>135735289
idk OP it's sad and disgusting.

I remember when I was a young adult I was still in a phase where I hated my parents because of how they messed up raising me. I told myself (and was serious) that when they got older I would just put them in a nursing home and move on.

Basically I got older, went through a lot, saw how much my parents loved me (they weren't perfect, messed up in some major ways raising me, bu they tried their best), and I ended up forgiving them of their shortcomings. Now I would gladly take them into my home or future home as long as need be, even if that meant for the rest of their lives and even if they turned into the most annoying/cranky old people on the planet.

Family comes first and they are the closest thing you can have in this world. Even if you can't stand them, remember God knows more than you about what your parents sacrificed raising you and their deep love and He will bless you for having patience and bearing with them.
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Actually some retirement homes are better for old people. My mom is basically a prisoner in her own house because her eye sight isn't good enough to drive. So she spends way too much time alone becuase the house is in the suburbs.
Meanwhile my aunt is in a home with lots of group activities, social events, leatures, new friends nearby. And the family can visit a lot
I feel it actully makes a lot more sense to be in a home in cases like that.
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>>135737584
>They either start robbing people or living on gibs me dats.
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>>135735289
You think people want to? Often the amount of work it takes to care for them is so immense / intensive that there is no other option. Plus, they've got a life to live too you know? It's not fair to expect your kids to retire early / spend their retirement years tending you and changing your diapers.
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>>135735354
fpbp
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>>135738990
Asians never had that problem and they earn more than whites
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>>135739218
do asians have the same mental health problems as they get older? Do they live as long? Lots of factors
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>>135739308
Yes.
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>>135735289
>Why don't two adults working 35+ hours a week each, with no children in their house and not living with 4 different immediate/inlaw family members not keep watch of their 75-80+ year old dying family member that requires immediate attention at all times?

The real answer is that the average age of black adults is lower because they keep shooting each other too young and the average age of black parents is younger because "imma pullout king senpai."
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>>135739390
https://nutritionfacts.org/2015/11/12/where-are-the-lowest-rates-of-alzheimers-in-the-world/
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>>135737275

Feeds running via NET/NGT/etc while sleeping is obviously fine (I'm an RN, not aged care though) - when I say "fed while sleeping", I mean they attempted to feed a sleeping old person by mouth with a spoon who then choked.
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>>135735354

FPBP.
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In the medieval times during winter Latvians would put their elders (when they were too old to be useful) on a sled and leave them in a forest during the night.
Nowadays because of lack of jobs and decent the younger generations are less useful and the grandparents are the rich ones with their commie pension and private property.
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>>135740000
*Decent pay
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>This would never happen in other cultures.

my friend right now literally volunteers as a nurse in an all-asian nursing home
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>>135738990
don't make excuses. it's cheaper to have them live with you than to send them off to a place you have to pay for them to rent.

hell just have a caretaker for them in your home if you can't do that.
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>>135737506

Accidentally replied to my own post like a mong.

See:

"Feeds running via NET/NGT/etc while sleeping is obviously fine (I'm an RN, not aged care though) - when I say "fed while sleeping", I mean they attempted to feed a sleeping old person by mouth with a spoon who then choked."
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>>135735289
Because their parents voted in the governments that opened the doors to mass immigration and therefore deserve to die lonely.
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>>135739701
>The real answer is that the average age of black adults is lower because they keep shooting each other too young and the average age of black parents is younger because "imma pullout king senpai."

It's mostly nutrition. Diabetes, heart disease, obesity, and drug use tend to get most of them before they reach retirement age.

Inner city ghettos are nutritional wastelands. I mean this as, a niggas gonna take better care of his shoes, phone, and rims, while sacrificing personal health. In most cases they are grown children. People here joke about tendies/white people food, but no black person wants to admit they consider ketchup and mustard on a corndog as "having a salad."
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>>135735289
Because historicaly old people (if they even got up to there) died around 60 to 70 years of age
while now with modern medicine it's more like 70 to 90 years old, where they can't do anything by themselves anymore and can be afflicted by many neurological or motory diseases that make them a burden.
And not only to the family but also to society due to social security
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>>135739741
see stroke and Asians
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>>135735843
>flag

Pathetic. Why don't you want to develop a lucrative skill and buy your own land to farm, build, shoot, have dogs and raise a family on?
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I've just realised nursing homes are a good stock investment as millennials aren't going to have anyone who cares about them when they are dying. Thanks OP
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>>135737666
Digits confirm obamacare was a ruse to ensure mass immigration.

>replace workers needed to take care of aging boomers
>replace workers needed to take care of the original workers who now have access to nursing facilities through obamacare
>rinse
>repeat
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My grandfather was a teetotaler and never smoked for most of his life and died when he was 90. He didn't go to any nursing home, he could look after himself.
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>>135735445
savage.
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Why is living alone so glorified in western nation's?

Parents should live with their sons and their wives like in asian countries. Then they in turn get taken care of by their sons each generation gets a unofficial pension plan and free elderly care.

For college age kids who want sex and freedom they can rent a apartment for 2 years.
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>>135735354
they dont abandon them before they teach them their culture
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>>135740625
>Why is living alone so glorified in western nation's?

Because a lot of parents are garbage here.
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>>135740625
Because taking care of yourself is a sign of adulthood. If you can live alone and be happy you are set for life.
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>>135736022

Lebs are only a phenomenon in Australia for some reason. They look like greeks or italians but they are absolute subhumans.
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white people take their parents to a nursing home when they are no longer able to treat them sufficiently. White people save money so that when that time comes, they'll be able to go there. Taking your loved one where they recieve specialized care, and comfort until the end is a bad thing? While i know alot of bad things happen in places like this, bad shit happens everywhere. These white nursing homes were created so black people like you could carry on the tradition of taking care of white people. its not our fault your culture has completely corrupted america.
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>>135740298
I just had to work a 93 year old man on an operating table because the family revoked his comfort measutes when he had a Stemi. Severe cardiac history, including CHF, pacemaker/defibrillator, and a slew of contraindications for cardiac catheterization.

The doctor was pleading with the family to reconsider, but they were under the impression that he would make a full recovery.

He's now tubed, vented, and braindead. His eyes were non-reactive after the first 5 minutes of CPR. We worked him for a half hour before we got a rhythm. I can guarantee his ribs are broken, he's in extreme pain with every breath that is taken for him.

Why? What the fuck am I doing here?
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>>135741117

Fucking do something man. This is a man's life here. Pull the fucking plug
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>>135741117

Why not just say MI? No-one here cares if it was ST or Non-STE. Your a nurse. It is not ours to ask why.

I cannot work in palliative care because of all the stupid shit people do to their 'loved' ones.
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Non-white parents are fucking leeches, white parents want their kids to succeed no matter what and don't want to be a financial and emotional burden on their kids so they will accept going to a home more often than not.

I have a Latin American mother-in-law and she's only just turned 50 recently. Absolute fucking piece of work. Whole family is like that too.

>I took care of you all your life (i.e. made you babysit your siblings at 8 and up while I went out and fucked guys after my second failed marriage, and you also paid for everything yourself since 16), I've always been poor, but I think I deserve to retire at 50. You and your siblings need to pay for me to live on something so I don't work

>I ran out of money, please send more. I raised you.

My wife and I just had a baby, so she's not working right now , and she tries to make me pay for her across the planet. I couldn't even imagine doing that to my son. It's disgusting. She tried it with me and my wife and I told her to fuck off. She kept trying to guilt my wife into taking money from my account behind my back to send her money.

I sent money alright. I sent a grand to some jungle mercenaries to burn her house to the ground so she could fuck off to America and leech off one of her sons. How my wife had a white Irish dad dumb enough to knock that woman up is beyond me.
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>>135741117
doing your job. it's not your decision. do your job and move on to the next patient.
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>>135735737
Have you considered 8/10 old people are white?
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>>135741252
I'd be arrested for manslaughter. That's why.

>>135741336
Sorry, just having a bad night. I do my job by protocol and never compromise care. I just wish stupid people weren't in charge of other people's medical decisions.
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>>135735289
>Why do white people abandon their parents in nursing homes?
Because family values are no longer needed to grow the economy. (((They))) have subsidized family with tax money, so everyone is taking care of their elderly monetarily but without taking care of their elders as family members. Its disgusting.
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>>135741506

I am just starting out in my nursing career but I have seen somethings. I'm 31, male and am still waiting for my registration.

Briefly I was in a cardiac cath lab and got to see all the various TAVI's, TOES and various other procedures. Stents are very, very cool.

There was this one woman who was like 93 who went in for a freaking TAVI. At 93. What do you expect happend to such a woman? Well she died on the table because her aortic valve just crumbled when they attempted to place the new one.

Any experienced nurse/doctor/radiologist could have seen that was going to happen.

As a result, the nurses and treating Dr had to watch this woman die from an unnecessary procedure. Its like seeing 90 yr olds get a fucking Hip replacements. They spend the next 4 weeks in bed, get aspiration pneumonia and die as a result.

Not a useful investment at all.
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Time to lighten the mood.

>dispatched to a home
>man with severe head and chest pain, disoriented
>woman unconscious
>on scene, both naked
>turns out the guy (young) had a weird heart condition and had a defibrillator in place
>while fucking his lady, defibrillator activates
>shocks him
>shocks her VIA HIS PENIS
>he falls back, she falls forward
>smashes her head on bedpost, knocks her out

We called him Thor after that.
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>>135742066

Damn. That is cool as shit. He literally ejaculated lightning.
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>>135735289
It is almost impossible to have a senile decrepit parent living with you / your family in the same apartment in a city and very difficult and frankly unhelpful in a suburban house. With working people the old parent would be alone most of the time anyway. This would only work if the person is merely old but otherwise in good shape physically and cognitively. If they need help and their mind is going like sands through the hourglass, a nursing home is by far a better option.

I'd rather be abandoned in a nursing home myself than be a millstone around the neck of my children. I mean, most people in nursing homes are not just old but old and in bad shape. If they were in OK shape, the nursing home would be nothing but an old people's hotel as far as they life in general is concerned. But old people like that tend to live in their own apartment rather than a nursing home. I also wouldn't want my children to remember me as a drooling and witless shadow of the person I once was.
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>My parents took care of their parents until their death
>7 brothers to do it, no nursing homes
>I will have to take care of my parents
>i'm an only child and a wagecuck

Im pretty fucked right?
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>>135735289
homes are needed to give wagecucks job opprotunities

>>135742279
just stick them in a home. Be a Job Creator
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Because of women now needing to work.
Usually they could come live at home and the mother could take care and not blow the inheritance on £1000 per week care homes.
My grandad's 93 and pretty close to the end, we have a carer go to his house but at some point we'll have to put him in a care home which will destroy his hundreds of thousands in bonds and savings real quick.
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It just seems that way because whites can actually afford to pay for the elderly care homes.

Asians are cheapskates and used to being crowded so they just pile up in one house and sleep in dresser drawers.

Mexicans are illegal and all share the same social security number so they can't get nursing home benefits.

Blacks get shot or drown before they get old.
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>>135735418
>24
>still live at home
>have a career paying $80k/yr
>helping parents pay off the house 70/30 split in mortgage
>least I can do to repay them for all their help
>2nd generation European

European Clan Family fucking master race
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>>135740298
This. It used to be you lived till something failed, and you died.
>>135742066
I hear old folks homes are hives of sex and fucking, like they get syhplis and stds all the time because Chad granddad fucks all the old ladies on rotation.
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>>135742470
>2nd generation European
What? Are you from Africa or something?
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>>135741790
Did they make you work her?

>transferring kid from local hospital to children's hospital for an infected boil
>getting report from nurse, boil is on the kids labia
>get the kid on the stretcher, tell her that I'll move the seatbelts to the side so it won't touch her boo boo in her leg
>specifically say leg because it's a kid
>nurse dumbfuck corrects me and says it's on her labia
>before I can give her a knowing look, mom chimes in
>NO, IT'S ON HER PUSSY LIP
>partner, nurse, and myself all poker face
>see a Disney princess pillowcase
>change subject engaged
>Did you want your pillow sweetie?
>mom of the year chimes in again
>NO, MY METHADONE IS IN THERE, I DIDN'T KNOW HOW LONG THIS BULLSHIT WILL TAKE

This kid didn't stand a chance.
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>>135742369
>Be a Job Creator

you mean working 24/7?
Not the best time to be an entrepreneur in my country, im an office wagecuck but at least I go out of the office at 17:00
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>>135742470
>European
>Clan Family fucking
lol rekt
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>>135742628

Nah mate, I am just a pleb. I was doing orderly work for that area. But one of the nurses became my friend and he told me his body was aching the next day from having to do CPR on this 60kg woman with all the X-ray leads on.
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>>135742568

>I hear old folks homes are hives of sex and fucking

Yes, but it gets really weird when they have Alzheimer's. Or if only one of them has Alzheimer's. Really weird.
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>>135741790
>Its like seeing 90 yr olds get a fucking Hip replacements. They spend the next 4 weeks in bed, get aspiration pneumonia and die as a result. Not a useful investment at all.
Doctor here. Please shut the fuck up you clearly do not know what you are talking about.
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>>135735588
Some people in nursing homes need 24 hours care and special equipment to look after them.
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>>135735588
My dad said the same, how I should be glad he raised me, but all he did was throw money at me and call me a piece of shit. Never taught me anything in life, never gave me positive encouragement, always embarassed me in public - and now complains that I'm not a grateful enough son for him and how I should grovel at his feet for forgiveness

They don't realize being put in a nursing home is an act of kindness. I certainly won't give him that, I will let him die in his own fat and shit, the same way he let his own mother die, because he was too much of a jew to pay the medical care she needed, and went on vacation instead

Boomers are entitled fucking scum
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>>135736013
This
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>>135735289
I know the reason for some of them. Boomers who take this hard line stance against supporting their kids into adulthood.

>Turned 18? Get the fuck out of my house!
>Better pay rent if you feel like coming back.

Times are tough, and some parents treat their kids more like tenants than family. Families used to occupy the same home until people died, it was understood that family was a generational thing and becoming 'man of the house' actually meant something.

We've lost that grounding, people move to much, and recklessly spend on houses they can barely afford for status. Then when their children need support or housing, instead of acting like family the boomer parent responds with "yeah but what are you going to do for me?" Like family is some kind of contract for which the terms expired.

Shit like that is why you wind up in shitty home 30 years later, because you taught your children that self indulgence is more important than family. You wanted to be a landlord instead of a parent so now in your old age you get to be a liability instead of an elder.

Don't get me wrong there's plenty of toxic shitty kids mooching off parents too, but the problem swings both ways. Family is about mutual benefit, if you cut people out the second its not good for you, then you have to expect them to do the same.
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>>135736775
Wtf. I remember learning about that in emt. They told us anytime an elderly person complains of pain it's usually extremely severe
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>>135742780
He'll get there eventually mate.

>>135741790
Just so you know, aspiration is what happens when someone chokes on fluid (or vomits) and it winds up in the lungs - an aspiration pneumonia is a pneumonia that results from that happening.
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>>135742780

Oh no. I am truly talking about something I have never seen first hand for over 10 years. Clearly I am making some ignorant point regarding the 'dignity' of the elderly or some other shit.

Oh right. I forgot. Your a Dr apparently. Your much better than I, morally. You admit people to hospital to take as much money from their health insurance as possible. You admit people who have no place or would be of no benefit of being in hospital because of their beetus and COPD. Finally you admit people for procedures that will have literally no benefit to their quality of life simply because you think of yourself as the gatekeeper to Death.

Eat a dick mate. You ain't special, your ego will be the death of you.
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>>135742568
>I hear old folks homes are hives of sex and fucking
thats only when they need to be taught a lesson anon. orderlies have to lay down the law and buttsecs is the punishment. you didnt take your pills thats buttsecs. you got your lights on and its lights out thats buttsecs. you start crying during buttsecs thats buttsecs
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>>135742703
>Dunk tred on meh sempr fai deez culurs don't rin
The only clan fucking that went on was your dad breeding with your sister to create your inbred ass lmao
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>>135743237
I know you're having a giggle but that shit happens sometimes. Especially in state facilities. It's impossible to fire people there, and the victims have no ability to speak out.
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>>135741368
burn the coal, pay the toll
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>>135735843
I'm 20 and still live with my parents, but only because I'm saving up to actually buy a house instead of wasting away in poverty in a shitty apartment. I've already put 10k towards my (future) house. Of course, I also lift, do chores, and take care of my dying father, because I'm not a useless cretin.
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We'll just be paying it forward to the boomers when we pick out the shittiest nursing homes to throw them into. :^)

>mom was a nurse/general manager over geriatrics
>any facility that wasn't ritzy as shit is a hellhole, I can promise you that
>saw a man get taken into the bathing area then got wheeled out afterwards, naked and only covered in a towel, dripping water
>he got forgotten about, so he was just sitting in a busy hallway, surrounded by rns and cnas rushing around but not attended to, for 20 minutes+
>go to my boomer mom and tell her (one of the times I got dragged to her job and had to hang out for a few hours) and she basically shrugs her shoulders

Unless you're loaded don't let yourself end up in a home
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