Srs question for married anons. Does it feel like your life is

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Nothing changes except for your goals.

When you feel your first born in your arms after your wife gives birth, and you then watch that child grow to be a successful adult by your hand. To carry their own first born, your first grandchild. That is when you feel your life is complete

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>>134050801
Ooh, right in the feels. I just hope we can all hang on to our wives. It seems that since sex isn't sacred anymore marriages aren't either. I just want to get across the finish line of life with my wife and I and our family strong and stable. I just wish I could quit porn...

OP make good point. Women these days think it's acceptable to cheat/ that type of thing. How can anyone ever truly be sure they aren't?

>>134050577

Marriage changes nothing. Having a child does. Your life makes perfect sense and your priorities will change overnight.

>what could possibly go wrong?

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>>134053812
I don't want to be
>that goy
I do think it's worth it but I wanted to talk about the challenges

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>>134050577
Dont do it... Its just a piece of paper, and then you are entering a legal unionship with another person.

Imo the only reason, the one single reason to get married is to save on taxes.

T. Divorced and pleased to be so.

>>134054016
Also, having to go to court with lawyers to break up with your cheating spouse is bullshit.

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>>134054016
Why we're you pleased to do so?

>prove your not jewbergbrennestein

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>>134054136
I honestly think a hit man would be less costly and less emotionally straining but then again I'd make sure I got it right the first time (wife I mean)

>>134054016

This. Only marry before the church but not before the state.

The marriage part is formal; I suppose. I don't get it much myself but I'll be damned if my kid is raised by a single parent (god forgive me for the oath)

>>134050801
SO rinse and repeat.... isn't that depressive !

>>134054617
This. Marriage is a union before God until death breaks that union. It is impossible to divorce someone in a sacramental marriage unlike the civil mcmarriages. If you only have a sacramental marriage and you hold all the assets as the man should then your wife will never leave you

>>134054798

Thats the plan

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>>134050577
I'm married for 9 years and have 2 kids already.
I don't really worry because my wife loves me and kids too much that she doesn't want to ruin the family, too traditional since she is from very small town in middle of nowhere.
I feel really complete and my family is very happy, feel like my life really matters and has a purpose like raising my kids right.

I already have it all planned if i get cucked and divosrced.
My gun is always loaded up stateres and my father is always ready to take kids and raise them.

>>134050577
Wife and family for Dear Leader are important.

Without family to help regime, man is useless.

Bump for answers.
My long term gf and I are talking about marriage and kids. We don't make a whole lots of moneys, but our families do and would help out.
Should do? Or skip it?
Any real benefits of children that outweigh cost?

>>134051148
>I just wish I could quit porn...
That's the first step towards a more stable relationship and future. Grow up, man.

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>>134054862
>already have it all planned if i get cucked and divosrced.My gun is always loaded up stateres and my father is always ready to take kids and raise them.
How is having this kind of plan ready, a sign of , marriage as a good thing ?

>>134054917
Just like this anon said>>134050801
It really is worth it.
I'd say do it.

Holding your newborn in your hands and know that he is yours is most surreal thing i ever experienced.

>>134054972
Fine, tell that to the roasties in turn who have zero self-control either but get to hide behind finding the perfect man, after you've gone through the entire stable.

>>134054972

how do we quit porn help us help help help

I had a gf, we decided to get married and even lived together for more than 2 years.

She's with me no more. She didn't cheat on me, just got bored of me.

>>134055061
It's just for precaution.
I don't really believe it will ever happen, it's not really of a plan.

>>134055225
Don't sweat Pajeet, she'll come around after she's jumped off the carousal for the stability and life she always knew she could fall back on if things went south.

>>134050577

Of course your life doesn't feel complete. This isn't a Disney movie. This is life.

Your priorities just change is all.

There's no such thing as "feeling complete". Rip that band aid off now.

Life involves making trade offs. You're always, always gonna wonder if you made the right ones. And you're always gonna wonder how your life would have been given different choices.

Just get yourself to a point where you're cool with the choices you made.

>>134054368
I got divorced, started new career in a new city and met a much younger woman within a month of moving. Life has been awesome since.
Marriage allows for both partners to begin unacceptable behaviours.

>>134055225
Indian women crave alpha white cock, don't blame yourself pajeet. It is the right of every English man to take an Indian goddess for his own even if they are already married. This is a sacred tradition which must be honered.

>>134055326
>Life involves making trade offs.
To whom exactly, compromise in your relationships and marriage is grounds for being left in the cold. It's a meme, you better rip that band aid off yourself now before you get burned. You're in control as long as you maintain, falter once and your another statistic.

>>134055257
Yet it is in your head ! Like Mr. Hyde !

>>134054917
Get married in the catholic church but don't get a civil marriage. Have your kids baptised so they can go to catholic school where they will learn degeneracy is a sin and not an aspiration. With public schooling raising children is cheap. The only extra expense is food. Also government gibs. Have lots of children

>>134054862
That's fucked, dude... Just get a fucking divorce if you need to.

>>134054482
>I'd make sure I got it right the first time

Almost every single men ever believed the "got it right" the first time when he stood in front of the altar.
You generally don't marry a woman you consider to be a whore and expect to divorce you within a couple years.

>>134055208
Get your government to ban and block it

>>134055456

> To whom.

To yourself you idiot. If you become a rockstar, you can't be a pro-footballer.

Learn about "opportunity cost". Even if you achieve unimaginable success, it came at the cost of some other possible success.

>>134050577
>life
No such thing. Existence would be more fitting.

>>134050577
Choose your woman extremely carefully. I am married to the perfect woman but it took a long time to find her.

Also, you are never really married until you become a family, thats the real test.

>>134055225
It's probably because you didn't own a toilet shrine

>>134055462
This board gave it in my head after reading all the scarry stories about burgers getting divorced and paying not just child support but also a fucking allimony.
/pol/ can do that sort of shit to you.

>>134055326
>There's no such thing as "feeling complete"
>implying
the goal of life is to bust the fabled giga nut. only then will you attain enlightenment.

>>134055530
>To yourself you idiot.
Yeah fuck you too, learn about some civility you mongrel before you try to sass me for a simple statement. Fuck yourself.

>>134050801
>tfw engaged to wealthy korean alpha bitch who is very reluctant to have children in the future and sometimes flatout says she'll never

>tfw she's 30 with good pussy but I'm afraid it'll be too late to get her off BC and plant my seeds to produce healthy spawn

what do? She's obsessed and won't let me just dump her.

>>134055636

I'm married with a kid on the way. I'm happy with my choices, but "feeling complete" isn't a thing.

I'll always want to strive for more

>>134055667

Learn reading comprehension before you spout shit

Most modern women are incapable of the love men feel. To a man marriage is essentially all about love and family. To a woman it represents many other things and love is generally lower on the list. Seeing my parents marriage disintegrate made me never want to get married when I grew up. You're basically just handing over all your money and life to a woman who will probably backstab you if she feels the need to. The courts and lawyers are against you and it's very hard for a man to obtain custody. On the other hand there really are some good women out there. Be very careful to marry the right woman.

>>134055700

Won't let you? Just leave her

>>134055728
Suck my dick, pleb.

>>134055700
Flase puppet !

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>>134055566
Agreed !

>>134055782

Typical thin skinned yank

>>134055324
I cried for her a lot. She was my first love, first kiss and everything else first. I still love her and haven't looked upon other women. I wish she hadn't left me. I feel really sad because of her.

>>134055436
Shut up. Please.

>>134050577

1. set up a good prenup
2. hide all your assets well offshore
3. get another phone for a the "fungirls" on the side
4. hire a private detective to find dirt about your wife

>profit

>>134055896

It hurts, but what you'll learn about women from this will help you

>>134055566
Checked and agreed.

>>134055728
Typical pussy who needs to hide behind a proxy flag because he doesn't want to be ridiculed for who he actually is and represents. You're beyond a joke.

>>134055896
>She was my first love, first kiss and everything else first.
You're going to pass that hurdle faster than you think. Move on, go get 'em killer.

From what I've seen you just remain focused on what you were focused beforehand

If you had the mindset of being a good father before the girl is pregnant, that's the aim after your childs born

If you are solely focused on your career and playing those games for some more money then you'll be focused on that and your kid is kind of an obstacle that gets in the way of your career, but can be used as a cute accessory for photographs to create good will in business

If you dont care about work or anything really your kid wont change that

>>134055603
At what age did you meet her, if you don't mind me asking.. I'm at quite a low and nearly another milestone and afraid at this point that I'll be alone for another one to come.

>>134056020

I use a meme flag cos I don't live in the country I'm from, and it's boring explaining that to people over and over.

Inb4: yes, I'm white. Probably more so than you.

>>134055700
She's a lost cause and if you're white you should be with a white woman anyway.

>>134056121
>I use a meme flag cos I don't live in the country I'm from, and it's boring explaining that to people over and over.
Excuse #1.
>Inb4: yes, I'm white. Probably more so than you.
100% European, are you? Put up or shut.

>>134050577
Life doesn't feel complete. I don't worry about cheating but I do feel like there is an ever present sense of boredom. Nobodies fault, life just isn't exciting when you are maintaining things as they are.

>>134056221

Here you go. One flag. I'm not a Pole though, I'm Anglo (with a tiny, tiny amount of Italian)

>>134050577
I dont worry, if i did the relationship would be over. You must trust which leaves you open to being hurt.

I love my wife and trust her implicitly. She is from a similar background to me. Successful parents strong family bonds and relationships. We are a unit and expecting our first child in a few months.

Dont listen to the echo chamber here. You can find good women, they usually come from good homes and close families

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>>134050577
im living the monk life. its good.
i was married before. got divorced.
wife was a constant drain on my nerves. happy i got rid of her. never forget that women are forever in a intermediate state between boy&man, meaning they're effectivly a kid in an adults body.

that has a shitload of downsides in a whole bunch of areas and you cannot treat them full equal with honest respect and responsibility. this equlality propaganda "works to a certain degree" but beyond that its unfixable broken. i was recently thinking its not that bad that islamis treat their women like shit (more honest approach).

marriage can work out for you, though you gotta submit towards her arbritary will of a child cause they are simply not able to play by the rules / follow through with common sense and decency. therefore your only option is leaving her or submit to her (=get cucked).

also financially marriage is nowadays the WORST DEAL EVER for a man, even with a contract. The stakes are so unfair and against you as a man, it makes you not take part in this altogether.

>>134056117
I met her when I was 29, I am 35 now. She was 21 and now 27. She came from a stable family with 3 other brothers and she wanted to have a stable family as well as a stable career and to marry somebody similar. She is also extremely introverted, has no social media and generally hates talking to other people except to me. We have our 2nd child on the way and own our home together and have no debts.

They are very hard to find but marrying and having a family with somebody is something not to be taken lightly. You need to find the one that checks all the boxes, can put up with your bad points just as well as your good points and you need to be able to do the same with her. Neither should ever expect the other to magically change for any reason as well because that shit just doesn't happen.

In my experience I found chicks from bad families like from single mothers are damaged goods and only good for a fuck and nothing else. Same goes for social media thots etc etc.

>>134056221

Also, don't get so upset with how an anonymous handle talks to your anonymous handle.

It's fucking pathetic. I understand demanding people show respect IRL. But this just reveals how wounded and fragile your ego is.

I don't give a shit what tone people use with me on anonymous forums.

>>134056371
>Here you go.
Okay?
>I'm Anglo (with a tiny, tiny amount of Italian)
Good for you, I'll wait for actual proof yet again.

>>134056117
Oh I should say she is also extremely red pilled and always was about niggers, jews etc. She is also the granddaughter of a Hitler youth woman and is aware about the reality of our age.

That is also extremely important, fuck anyone who bases things from 'muh feels'

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>>134056374
Good man good. I wish you long life. I'm not going to take the black pill on this one. I'm tired of those threads. Also, I think as rule you shouldn't date a girl from a broken home - I think strong family background is important. Daddy issues (confuse abuse for love) or mommy issues (tomboy) are an automatic NO

>>134056535

Actual proof?

Imagine caring that much. Flags are fucking meaningless, half the people on here are proxies.

>>134056535

Also, if I was a Polak, I certainly wouldn't larp as Anglo. Poles have a long proud history of wrecking Russians and Turks.

I'll be teaching my son to be as proud of his Polak half as his Anglo half

Control the family wealth, and most importantly have the bitch sign a pre-marital contract by which she won't be able to request any of your shit in the event of divorce... Then we'll see if she's going to be acting out... She'll be sucking your balls untill you die of old age, not to mention the children will also have more respect for you... Taking economic power from the hands of the man is another Jewish trick

>>134056620
>Imagine caring that much
Because misrepresentation isn't a big deal at all, speak for yourself and not others.
>Flags are fucking meaningless, half the people on here are proxies.
They aren't and you are only getting mad because I called you out for having one yourself. It's people like yourself that are the problem here. Oh I see you responded yet again after the fact, save it. I don't need to see your nonsense any longer.

>>134056484
I'm 29 right now, 30 in August. I've been off Facebook and most social media in general for a few months now due to small town bullshit and an old mate turned crackhead stalker. I don't have a lot of friends, spend a lot of time to myself and am too shy these days to head out to a pub or something like that. What the fuck do people even talk about these days? I just don't know how or where I'm going to meet someone.

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>>134056541
Very important
>do women like to cuddle more than men?

>>134056756

Yeah alright mate. Sad little yank who needs everyone to talk nicely to him or he gets upset.

Your original reply was vapid, I called you out, let go.

>>134056541
Dude... Where do you find those?!

>>134050577
On year 12 and it's better than anything else I've ever experienced.

We only had futes in the start, when we still wore social masks, but we agreed to be progressive and honest to get rid of them.

I initially couldn't let go of insecurities and she had typical low self esteem and some insecurities about me. It meant we would se agendas where there was none. But after about a year of truly forcing, ourselves to be brutally honest and let go, the walls fell. I got over my preformance anxiety and she feels confident and happy around me.
Now we work like a pack, we plan ahead like one, we have shared goals and suppot each other.

I didn't want to believe in love, i thought it was bullshit after being with some extremely terrible chicks.... but it those relationships got ruined as much by my own paranoid bullshit as theirs.

If you both are ready to let go and have an ego death of sorts happen... my god it's THE best.

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