Your reaction to porn is a self fulfilling prophecy. If all you talk about is how porn makes you a cuck with no incentives that's what it will make you.
I personally love me some porn here and there and I'm not a fag who has no drive. I have a hot gf, good sex, a job better than most of my peers, I do well in uni and have a couple of hobbies that I enjoy a lot. Why? I see watching porn as the same as being a super alpha male, who has the power to decide who he wants to fuck. Infinite options just for me, the King, the Lord of Lords, the leader of the tribe, God.
I would advise you to stay away from non-pov porn (cucks watch non-pov). Masturbation videos are ok and jerk of instructions are fine as long as they don't contain any incest or humilliation bullshit.
>oh no, hot naked women trying to make me cum
>>13178334
>blah blah
Nobody cares.
>>131783552
Gay
>Missing the entire point