In school they tell you how you should be and that completion lies outside of you, through effort.
Because when you want what you don't have, you become needy, controllable and will follow those who know the way to fullfilling your desire of becoming what you are not.
You call such people politicians, scientists, bosses, teachers and saviours of mankind, and you turn to them for permission to be who you are.
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Am I being too direct?