Do you dance? Like, dances that you learn, as opposed to autistic flapping arms around or some shit. Stuff like ballroom, square dancing, ballet, tap, etc. recreational or professional stuff.
If so, do you regularly listen to the same kind of music you dance to, or no?
I do a lot of ballroom and latin dancing, and I enjoy the music when I'm dancing to it but I find I rarely sit down and listen to it otherwise.
I want to learn tap dancing but it's a bit embarrassing cause I used to think only fags danced.
Now I just wanna go with the grove and let my emotions out a bit.
Is it hard when you're 21?
>>75064912
I've never tried tap but I think some studios and companies have lessons for older students just starting (if they have them at all, it's not as popular of a style). Don't know how hard it would be, but for reference I only started learning dance at 21 and didn't find it too hard for partner dancing.
>>75064977
Do you feel like you're into the music during partner dancing?
Or is it more gentle and swaying?
>>75064871
>dances that you learn, as opposed to autistic flapping arms around or some shit
You mean like this?
>>75065063
It depends on the music, but typically I feel like I'm pretty into it, feeling it and all, especially if it's a dance I'm more confident with and the motions are secondhand so I'm not even thinking when matching the beat and throwing in moves I feel match the rhythm.
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>>75064977
hey so how did you get started?
The last time I danced in high school the girls refused to hold my hand, is that going to happen this time?
>>75065220
I found a club at my uni that got me into it. But there's also, if you're in an urban area, especially in the US, probably multiple dance studios willing to teach newbies. Typically in group lessons you're expected to dance with a bunch of strangers and rotate, so I suggest doing that. People tend to get comfortable with it pretty quick, especially with the instructor telling them to do this, so don't worry, you won't get turned down, and holding one hand is essential. I suggest trying to go to some of those if you can find them.