Upon a lot of self-reflection, I realised that my biggest fear is the inabilty to love. Music for this feel?
Inb4: No Love
Pic unrelated
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LMnrFiG8FRo
https://youtu.be/xoitegszoRc
Wig Master by Xiu Xiu
https://kowloonwalledcity.bandcamp.com/track/grievances
Wil from the Smith Street Band often writes about going through tough shit and coming out again better for it. Check out their stuff.
Another favourite of mine is the Flying So High-Os. The final song on their album is the only song that's ever made me cry.
http://anchorhead.com.au/album/life-as-a-common-noun