>just lost my best friend because i confessed my feelings

>>70229218
>becoming friends with a girl

you got memed

also nice music thread faggot

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPG6Ak5FASk

Girls are for sex m8, never become best friends with a girl

I know this feel all too well
We're still sorta friends I guess but it took me like 5 months to not feel awkward as hell being around her
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33kq18HIpOU

>best friends with a girl who's not your gf
lel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbg27oT8Z9M

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lN_d-czrz8I
this one because it's feelsy as fuck

>confessing anyone your feelings
/mu/ is definitely the nu-male central

You probably should've just asked her on a date or something before going to defcon 1

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>>70229300

Why would you be friends with a girl who isn't a lesbian or you're not attracted to :/

>>70229405
because i enjoy her company

>>70229380
this
confessing your feelings out of the blue is some autistic anime tier shit
t. someone who has made the same fuck up
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AjsdpVZp38

>>70229380
how was i supposed to ask her on a date? we already hung out every day or two, went to concerts and parties and things together etc

This boards outlook on women is fucking depressing, I hope not every person here buys into it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5IvUOv7Q-u8

>>70229547
Dude, you never do that if you want to be with someone.

If You Love Her - SHINee (샤이니) [HAN/ROM/ENG COLOR…: http://youtu.be/cUWTTrYXhSs

>>70229667
:/

well shit

>>70229547
You can't just switch up between friend and romantic partner after doing this you need to make your intentions clear early on or at least before you start chilling often

I'm bad at this too though desu

>>70229684
>tfw a girl rejected me because I'm not Taemin

>>70229697
You can be her friend, but don't hang out with her, at least not just you two.

>>70229700
>tfw you ain't a shinee member...

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>qt girl at work who seems cool
>find out she goes on 9gag

Music for this feel

>>70229218
Sorry anon, it's probably better this way. Done the same shit a few times, it gets worse the longer you sit their and let it happen.

Just don't let yourself into that again.

Sorry anon but I think everyone eventually learns this the hard way

Intent has to be clear from the start. Turning an established friendship into a relationship is extremely difficult

>>70229424
so you want to fuck her

>>70229218
At least now you know never to confess your feelings again. Seriously, don't make that same mistake

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>>70229218

>>70229218
I believe you can be friends with a girl.

However...

Don't be friends with a girl you have uncontrollable feelings for.

>>70229218
what a dumb nigger

>>70229885
I wonder what it would be like to date a disabled person.

>>70229218
Are you autistic? You either tell her you're interested within the first week of meeting her or else you're stuck in the friendzone forever.

>meet qt girl at party, we get along pretty well
>gets a dare to kiss someone for as long as she can and does so for 30 mins
Music for this feel?

>>70230194
No music. She's a whore.
No music

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>>70229218

>>70229218
tfw no gf :((((((
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mghhLqu31cQ
>>70229885
Would you prefer a girl who goes to 4chan?

>>70230194
>gets a dare to kiss someone for as long as she can and does so for 30 mins

Who the fuck even does this?

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>>70230349
this is what hell looks like

>>70229374
this

>>70230145
This is what I don't understand
She has a history PhD so she's clearly not stupid, I'm very confused. Unless she said it ironically?
>>70230349
Actually yes, though that still wouldn't be ideal.

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I need to do that anon. I know she's reject me, and I know it'll be awkward and ruin a nice friendship. But I need to get closer. I think of her all the time, and just wait and wait for her to message me all day. I need 100% confirmation from her that she doesn't love me so I can move on.

>>70229218
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4feUSTS21-8

>>70230480
Good luck anon

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>>70230480
I did the same thing just before I left Uni

Was a good idea in the long run, needed a bit of closure instead of spending the next 3 years wondering what might have happened. It's shit for a week but it gets better.

Do it anon,

>>70229218
I dunno like 90% of rock music is men crying over women

>>70230675
holy shit so true though

>>70230675
facts
why are men such crybaby betas

>>70230724
it's probably biological/evolutionary. it's worse for the male if he loses his partner, because then he's cut off from propagating his DNA (having kids). with women, they can always turn elsewhere to do that, since they're the ones that give birth. as the males now need to find a new partner fast, my guess would be that evolution lights a fire under their ass by giving them all these hormones that trigger intense emotions and shit.

>>70230811
That sort of makes sense until you look at how men are far more likely to be self destructive or an emotional wreck as a result of this, compared to women who are more likely to use sadness/spite as a motivator for self improvement to find a better mate.

Done this twice before, neither time working out. One girl ended up getting married when she was 18 and the other one started doing a bunch of drugs.

Just gotta realize that it's not going to work out if you don't start out by showing interest to them in that way.

You'll be fine though anon, it takes time.

>>70230811
i think it's mostly a counter to the fact that men will fuck anything that moves. you need an emotional attachment to make sure they actually stay and father their kids, and create a stable two-parent environment

there's no reason women are the only ones who can turn somewhere else

>>70230105
First advice itt that isn't pure retardation.

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>>70229218
the entire album pretty much sums up what you're feeling

>>70230811
This also makes sense from the fact that men usually get remarried quicker than women. I can't remember the exact statistic, but it's a pretty sizable gap. Though this statistic also is affected by the fact that women usually get the kids in a divorce.