>tfw your dad isnt really a "father figure"
Books for this feel?
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>tfw don't have a dad and i'm not even black
books for this feel?
>>9022604
>tfw black
Books for this feel?
>>9022613
>tfw your dad is a good guy and a fine father but you still feel disappointed by your parents' parenting
Books for this feel?
>>9022603
are you russian? its a common thing for russians
You're not meant to respect your father, idiot.
You're meant to become his superior and render his being insignificant.
brothers karamazov
>>9022619
lol not OP but I am Russian-American and I sorta feel this way
my dads a great fuckin guy, dont get me wrong
but we never did father son stuff like in American movies. Didnt really play sports together or bond that much
feelsweirdman
>>9022628
>>tfw black but my dad is a conspiracy-theorist doomsayer/endtimes pastor
idk just watch Supernatural, there seem to be a lot of characters like that on the show lmao
>>9022625
russian american here, ive never spoken to my dad about anything. we never talked to each or spent time with another. most of my russian american friends, its the same way. hes was kind of alot like tony of the sopranos though, not a great dad
>dad was hardly there
>never taught me to drive
>advised me to get an arts degree rather than a trade
>never taught me how to get girls
>never told me what girls were like
>never told me how to get over girls
>never taught me how to be a man
BUT
>let me crash at his place when I came back from overseas
>pretty friendly and kind
He's a nice guy and I respect him, but he's sort of like a brotherly figure. If I ever have a son (I hope I only have girls) then I'm gonna teach him everything about girls and how to be a man
How are you guys deciding whether your dad is a "father figure"?
I don't think I've ever had a conversation with my dad. He certainly didn't teach me about girls or any of the Disney bullshit this fucker >>9022657 listed. But he did teach me how to drive, made me do bullshit chores on some weekends, and made a half-assed effort to teach me the carpentry and wood-working skills he has. He certainly wasn't an instructor or a philosopher-king to me, but he also absolutely never spent money on himself.
Do people actually have dads that teach them shit and talk to them? Ones that you can have a grown up conversation with now that you are also an adult? I'm not even bitter or resentful. Just curious.
>>9022682
>Disney bullshit
Huh?
It's real life faggot
>>9022603
>tfw dad wasn't around because he was working 6 days a week to pay for my education
>tfw he cried when I got accepted into college