So, I got my cock sucked for the first time today. By a man.

i love these posts by people who are amazed by the concept of having sex, congratulations on figuring out how to use grindr anon

>>8860726
See I wanna do exactly that, but STDs are rampant where I live and people have very low standards.

>>8860726

Yeah, if they're a 'manly' man, and they invite you over to suck their cock, odds are they'll get horny and ask to bottom for you too. It's a pretty huge turnoff when you're just looking for some simple fun. And yeah, blowjobs take awhile to get used to - they're gonna feel a little overrated for awhile. If you're gonna make a habit of this stuff, I'd recommend you take more time to get to know people before going to their place. Don't wanna get raped or beaten up by some sperglord. If they ever don't look like their pictures, just turn around and walk away.

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>>8860737
Hey, it's something I've never done before.
Especially doing it with a guy as my first time.
I know it's something normal but like.
It's behind closed doors, you don't see it.
So it seems like some kinda fiction you know?

>>8860756
Kind of dumb but I didn't really think about it.
You can't get aids from oral so I felt like it was safe.
It all just happened so fast.
I didn't even have time to finish my lunch...

>>8860763
If I take it slow it seems like it never goes anywhere.
Like they fap and then they're not interested.
That's just been my experience anyway.

Is it normal for someone to be stopping constantly?
Can't you breathe through your nose or something?

I'm sure it would be great if I was more sensitive.
But I need more than 20 seconds for it to build.
Otherwise I'm not sure that I could cum from it.
I guess that's the incentive to actually top and fuck it out.

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it!

>>8860856

I mean talking to dudes for a week or so, off-an-on. All my encounters have been a lot more exciting and fulfilling if you've been able to get to know them a bit. The guy you met today was probably super horny and edging all morning, and then rushed through everything when you got there. He sounded pretty sexually frustrated, I dunno. It's not normal to be stopping all the time. It's very easy to breathe through the nose. If he had to stop, he could've kept licking up and down while catching his breath. I dunno; maybe he was out of shape or had a breathing issue?

Most guys can't cum from blowjobs, so yeah, fucking is how they finish off. Usually for a hookup off Grindr, though, you'll finish off by masturbating. Your guy should've known he had to stretch and all that, so asking you to fuck him his kinda irresponsible given what you came over there for. But if you ever meet a cutie buttslut twink or femboy, they'd probably be better prepared.

I'm glad you had fun, though! :3

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>>8860856
>It all just happened so fast.
>I didn't even have time to finish my lunch...
Did you bust a nut though? Last time I hooked up on grindr he couldn't finish me off and it was fucking annoying.

Also plz practice safe sex.

>>8860856
yeah he definitely should be able to go for more than 20 seconds at a time or at least I definitely can

how big is your dick?

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>>8860910
How long would a blowjob or anal usually last?
Would it be like... rude to do it for a long time?
Like if they get sore or something, I don't know.

Sorry if I'm asking too many questions, I'm feeling really curious.

I guess maybe it was just because he was in a rush.
15 minutes doesn't really feel like enough time to me.
If I'm committing to a hookup I'd want to take me time and enjoy it right.

I kind of liked that there wasn't a lot of small talk.
But if you say so I guess I'll try to get to know them a little better next time.
He did say that he was super horny.
It didn't seem like he stretched or anything though before I got there.
It didn't help that he only used a tiny dab of lube, either.
My thing wasn't fully stiff but still, it just would not go in at all.

I didn't know that most guys can't cum from blowjobs!
If anything I would have been worried about cumming too fast.
I'll save it up for a few days next time for sure.

>>8860935
>Did you bust a nut though?
No. I didn't even really get close. Maybe it was the nerves.
I agree that it was kind of annoying but I mean.
He's sucking my cock. I can't be too upset about it.

>Also plz practice safe sex.
Always anon, condom ON.
Equipped and OK!

>>8860953
Like around 6 inches, I haven't measured it in forever.
Pretty average. It looks bigger in pictures for some reason.
I kinda started fucking his face later on trying to cum.
Maybe it was uncomfortable? I've never sucked a dick.

>>8861028
>How long would a blowjob or anal usually last?
>Would it be like... rude to do it for a long time?
>Like if they get sore or something, I don't know.
For me it varies. If I have time I like to enjoy a slow blow job, with attention paid to my balls as well as my cock. If I'm tight for time it usually takes me about 10 minutes before I cum from a blow job. Some guys just can't get me off.

I meet up with one guy and when I blow him it's over in about 3-5 minutes.

As for fucking, since I like a lot of foreplay I rarely last more than 5-10 minutes. Some guys are tighter and I cum quickly, some guys are "hot dog down the hallway" types and it takes longer. Position also makes a difference. If the guy is on his back and I can watch him play with his cock and cum, I'm done in a few minutes.

this thread is very gay

>>8860856
>You can't get aids from oral so I felt like it was safe.
it's less likely but you can dummy

>>8866099
Really? The CDC sources I found said that it was so unlikely that any chance is insignificant. Like, there were no cases they could even study to get a statistic.

>>8866478
depends on the context
aids go by blood and sexual fluids, that's why bottoms are more at risk, the insides are soft tissue that gets small tears easily.
Normally the inside of your mouth is a ok but you say, bit your tongue or cheek there's a risk vector.

>>8866099
>>8866478
>>8866511
getting aids from receiving a blowjob is practically impossible
it is unlikely, but still possible if you are giving someone else a blowjob

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>>8860726
is it just me or does all of that sound extremely underwhelming instead of sexy

is what virgins imagine sex should be

>>8867192
of course it sounds terribly underwhelming
my first time was something similar
i was a 21 year old virgin who had finally resorted to grindr

>>8866099
getting aids from a blowjob is a suicide worthy act; who gets aids from a blowjob?

>>8867192
>>8867281

My first time was with a Latino middle-aged guy who fingered me for a few seconds, then destroyed my sacred garden, and thought that blowing me was too gay; I was not a smart teenager, you can tell. However, after that first time, it was pretty good; intense or at least, a relief from frustrations.

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>>8867192
>>8867281
Yes, it was VERY underwhelming.
Definitely not what I was imagining sex to be.
How long after fapping do people normally wait before sex?
I'm not young any more, same day is way too soon.

It was probably a bad experience for him too.
Since I wasn't even close to fully hard.
The pic I sent was like twice the size lmao.

I'm disappointed that I didn't even finish.
But I mean. It's my first time.
I'll learn and get better obviously!

I was a lot more inhibited before this.
Feels like some mental barrier was cleared.
The second time is not as significant.
I think it's going to be a lot easier.

>>8860726
first times are always awkward, and it sounds like he was absolutely awful. Hope your next experience is with someone who knows how to suck dick dude.

>>8867192
first times are always awkward and underwhelming. My first time the girl kept looking over and watching tv.

>>8868041
I chuckled, mb m8e