What the fuck happened!? I tried anal sex for the first time

>>8859189
He's supposed to do it gently at first. Gay porn stars wear buttplugs to keep their hole open. Collin Simpson does it and he talked about it before his scene with James Manziel.

>>8859189
there's no pleasure, only punishment for your degeneracy

>>8859285
Mind your own business Jake

Stop watching porn.

>>8859189

You're supposed to be loose and relaxed. Were you all flexed and nervous? Just keep that boipussy relaxed and open for daddy :3 accept your role as the receptive partner

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You got to work your bucci. Seriously. Take it slow.

>>8859189
Shower beforehand. Also, if you engage in foreplay and massage the lower back and butt that will help relax the muscles. Take an ibuprofen or aspiring if it is really bad. Lube up both the penis and the rectum and you will generally need to reapply lube after the first few thrusts. The pain goes away after a few seconds. It almost ALWAYS hurts a bit first.

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i had that happen the first attempt with my bf i was on my back and it was hard to relax and i was really upset about the pain

but he is 8 inches and my toys are 6 inchs max.

took a minute to recover, went on all fours this time, listened to his calming voice and arched my back so he could slide in perfectly

absolute heaven, was so happy when he cummed in me

>>8859189
You need to relax. Use proper amounts of lube ( try a base coat of oil based and then coating your partners penis in water based so you have a layer of cushioning essentially when the water based runs out)
Maybe your partners penis is bigger than what you are used to?
Also, try doing it in different positions. Your insides arent one long tube they bend and stuff so maybe hes going in at an angle thats hitting something and causing you to tense up.
Also, dont forget foreplay. Just like when a womens genitals tent when aroused, having you aroused will make it so you can relax properly. Also, try THC (maybe edibles or a bong or oils) Or alcohol.
Maybe Numbing lotions or lube if you get desperate but you should hold off.
Pain is your bodies way of telling you that something is wrong so if thats taken away you wont know untill afterwards if shit went bad.
And tell your partner to slow the fuck down. If you are hurting when he puts it in then he needs to stop and hold still. Let you get used to things.

>>8859189
Get 2-3 vibrating dildos. Small, medium, and one about his size. Spend the money for something realistic and well made. Clean yourself proper, turn on some good porn, lube up, and have a nice, private session by yourself starting with the smallest one. The vibration can be a major help. If you don't eventually start to enjoy the feeling of being penetrated, you probably never will. But it's important to set the mood and take the time to explore yourself and figure out what feels good.

>>8859285
This.

It's gods way of punishing you for faggotry.
Soon you will need diapers due to incontinence.

Next life try becoming a family men with a wife.

>>8865082
>Soon you will need diapers due to incontinence.
Th-thats not true...

....is it?

>>8865093
Depends on what size of things and frequency you get in there but you will legit get incontinence.

Some pornstars (female) have to wear diapers because they had too many hardcore anal scenes.
Now imagine what happens to gay dudes.

If you doubt, google about anal incontinence and gay sex.

>>8859189
Shit like this makes me so happy i'm a lesbian

>>8865093
>>8865100
Normal anal a coupl of times a week is fine. But that crazy, vilolent, pile-driving anal you see in porn will destroy your ass. If you need that anal stimulation, do it was said above and use a smaller vibrator or something. You can only safely stretch so far.

>>8859189
I dunno I grew up always sticking things in my butt and I raced out to get a credit card as soon as I could so I could buy dildos. I've always loved anal and the first time I had buttsex it felt pretty good.