How do you deal with being bisexual? My brain seems to view

>>8828497
In what way are they separate?

I'm trying to overcome my straight urges. I'm single but I think dating a guy would really help.

>>8828497
i dont have this issue because im misogynist so its easy for me to be full gay

hehe stupid bis

>>8828497
Bisexual is gay erasure.

https://www.scholars.northwestern.edu/en/publications/sexual-arousal-patterns-of-bisexual-men

There has long been controversy about whether bisexual men are substantially sexually aroused by both sexes. We investigated genital and self-reported sexual arousal to male and female sexual stimuli in 30 heterosexual, 33 bisexual, and 38 homosexual men. In general, bisexual men did not have strong genital arousal to both male and female sexual stimuli. Rather, most bisexual men appeared homosexual with respect to genital arousal, although some appeared heterosexual. In contrast, their subjective sexual arousal did conform to a bisexual pattern. Male bisexuality appears primarily to represent a style of interpreting or reporting sexual arousal rather than a distinct pattern of genital sexual arousal.

>>8828527
>although some appeared heterosexual
So it's heterosexual erasure too.

>>8828514
>In what way are they separate?

I act totally different when trying to hook up with a women vs. trying to hook up with a guy. Completely different mannerisms etc.

When it comes to gay guys it gets even more complicated as I have periods where I want to dominate a guy completely and periods where I want to be dominated.

The constant back and forth is just exhausting and makes me feel like I have split personality disorder or something

I just wish I could bring all those sexual identities under one roof and act in a consistent manner

>>8828599

To add on to that, I also can't really get intimate with guys. It's mainly lust. Even kissing a guy bothers me, I just want to get sexual as soon as possible. Never seem to have that problem with women though. But my sexual lust seems to be split almost perfectly 50/50 between men and women.

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>>8828497
I had similar problems in my teens and twenties. I did nofap and noporn for other reasons and that turned me full gay for some reason. Idk hope this helps.

>>8828631
>I did nofap and noporn for other reasons and that turned me full gay for some reason.
Maybe because you were gay at heart and straight was just a fetish?

Like how bi trannies like women at heart?

>>8828576
Heterosexuals are not a minority lacking in visibility. Gays are. Bisexuals are mostly gay men who want to marry women.

>>8828702
Whatever, the point is some bisexuals are straight men who want to marry men.

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>>8828497
>How do you deal with being bisexual?

As a 33 year old virgin, it never mattered before, and it will continue to not matter. I could go grab the closest weird 40+ year old Grinder hookup or throw down a few hundo for a nice hooker and "fix it" but what will that accomplish?

Nothing, because neither of those is emotional validation.

>>8828713
?

>>8828497
I'm a bisexual cis female and I also have the same problem.
Sometimes I feel like I'm more into guys than girls? And sometimes I feel like I'm completely lesbian. Its called cognitive dissonance and its part of human nature. I try to accept it.

>>8828836

Are you me?

>>8828836
>someone actually made this pic
its really not that big a deal

>>8828702
I don't mind sexing men, but I loath the idea of kissing one (unless they're very effeminate). I also love the puss, and kissing women is amazing.

Am I maybe pansexual but can only have a romantic attraction to women? Is that a thing?

>>8828836
Oh my god.

Sex is overrated. Make friends and if they're hot, make sure they know you think they're hot. Eventually somebody will bang you, and then you'll realize you could've gone another 33 years without it.

>>8828527
>>8828527

THat study has been disproved, tho.

Also, never trust an study made up by some of the "Blanchard troupe" since they're there to provide studies that confrim alt-right bias